Ukudambisa njengokungathi ephusheni noma empeleni kubangela ukuzwa okungajabulisi, ngoba ezimweni eziningi lokhu kubangelwa ukubhujiswa kwezinhlelo ezakhiwe. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi leli phupho lingasho ukuthini, umuntu kufanele azame ukukhumbula imininingwane eminingi nemimoya ngangokunokwenzeka.
Kungani uphupha ukuphuza indiza?
Ngokuvamile iphupho elinjalo likhombisa ukuthi kukhona khona empilweni yangempela yokwesaba noma yimuphi ushintsho. Olunye ukulibaziseka kulolu moya kungenza umuntu afake ukungahambi kahle kwezenzakalo ezenzekayo. Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha, ephupha ukuba iphuze ngendiza ephusheni, ihumusha, njengesibonakaliso, ekhombisa isidingo sokwenza izinqumo eziyinkimbinkimbi empilweni yakhe. Ngokuvamile, lobobusuku amaphupho abonakala ngabantu abazwa sengathi benza into engenamsebenzi ngokuphelele. Kwezinye izimo, ukubambezeleka kwezindiza kuyincoma ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuphumula futhi ufunde ukuthi ungaba kanjani isikhathi.
Uma ngabe uphupha ukuthi uphele isikhathi sezindiza, uphawu olubonisa ukuthi kunemizwa yokuthi umsebenzi wangempela awulethi imiphumela. Ngentombazane encane, leli phupho liprofetha ukuvela kwezinkinga ebuhlotsheni bobulili obuhlukile. U-Snyknik ubonisa ukuthi isizathu singase silele ezenzweni zomncintiswano noma owake wangithanda.
Enye indlela yokuhumusha ubuthongo mayelana nokuphuza indiza ukukwazisa izinkinga emsebenzini, kodwa kuzokwenzeka ngenxa yamasu omphikisi. Uma umuntu onjalo ebona iphupho ngaphambi kwendiza yangempela, kungcono kakhulu ukukhansela uhambo oluzayo.
Ukuhumusha iphupho, okuyinto iphupho elilodwa lokuphuthuma ngendiza eliphazamisayo, liyihumusha njengesibonakaliso esihle, okubonisa ukuthi ngenxa yalokho kuyobe kungenzeka ukugwema izinkinga ezinkulu. Uma iphupho lokuphuthuma kwezindiza livele ngaphambi komcimbi obalulekile, kufanele ulindele ukukhungatheka nezinkinga.