Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi amaphupho angumyalezo ovela phezulu, uphawu oluyisixwayiso. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo abantu bathole incazelo yamaphupho. Namuhla kusasebenza futhi usafuna ukubheka esikhathini esizayo. Into ethakazelisayo kakhulu ukuthi iphupho elilodwa lingaba nezincazelo eziningi. Isibonelo, lapho uhumusha iphupho ngomshado , kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphupha kwentombazane eshadile noma cha, iphupho ngomshado wakhe noma ngomuntu ongaziwayo nokunye. Kuyafaneleka ukucabangela umbuzo walokho umshado ongaqondakali wentombazane engashadile.
Kungani intombazane iphupha ngomshado womunye?
Ngokuvamile, amaphupho omunye womshado ukuthi maduzane intombazane izohlangana nomngane omdala noma isifiso sakhe esithandayo siyogcina sigcwaliseka. Kodwa yikuphi iphupho lomshado womunye wendoda engashadile noma ehlukanisile, abaningi bayozibuza, kodwa eqinisweni ukuthi maduzane kuzoba khona isoka elithandana naye. Uma iphupho elinjalo libonwa owesifazane oshadile kuyinto i-harbinger yomkhosi womndeni.
Kusho ukuthini uma umshado womunye umuntu uphupha?
Ngokusho kwezincwadi zanamuhla zephupho, iphupho elinjalo linomqondo omuhle-isinqumo senkinga, kuyokwazi ukuphuma esimweni esingathandeki. Futhi kungani uphupha ngomshado ongavamile, lapho uyingxenye yomkhwenyana - othandekayo, futhi engxenyeni yomlobokazi - enye ingxabano yowesifazane, izingxabano .
Ibhizinisi lomuntu wonke ukukholelwa ezincwadini zamaphupho noma cha, kodwa lihlanganiswa nolwazi olutholwe eminyakeni edlule. Ngenxa yokuhumusha, wonke umuntu unethuba lokudalula ikhethini lokufihleka nokuqonda okulindele esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa, uma incwadi yephupho iveza iphupho elibi, ke ungathukutheli, kungcono, okokuqala, ukuhlaziya izimo zokuphila ezijabulisayo. Mhlawumbe ingqondo engaqondakali, ngakho-ke, izama ukudlulisa indlela yokuxazulula inkinga ekhona.