Iningi labahumushi bephupho liyavuma ukuthi ukubona ibutho lempi ephusheni, libikezela ukuhlukumeza kwempi. Kodwa-ke, kunezinhlayiya ezihlukahlukene okufanele zicatshangelwe uma zichaza iphupho elinjalo. Isibonelo, ukuze uqonde kahle ukuthi impi iphikisana, ulwazi olulandelayo luzosiza: ngabe ngabe laba bantu babenomthelela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yena ngokwakhe naye ubhekene necala lokulwa empini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izenzo zamasosha ezihlukahlukene zenziwa noma cha.
Iziphi izithembiso ephusheni ngabantu basezempi?
Uma abantu abaphuphile bengabamba izikhali futhi bengabonisi ubuhlungu, umuntu kufanele alindele ukuthi isimo sokulwa sizokwenzeka maduzane, kodwa sixazululwe ngaphandle kokulahleka nokudumazeka. Ngesikhathi bekulwela iphupho, singasho ukuthi ukuxabana kuza, imiphumela ezoba yinto engalungile kakhulu. Ukudumazeka nokuphikisana okuqhubekayo, okungeke kwenzeke ukuthi umuntu aphumelele ukunqoba, kufanele kulindeleke uma lezi zenzo ziphela ekunqobeni. Kodwa uma amasosha ephusheni abamba iqhaza emibangweni futhi anqobe, umuntu angalindela uhlobo oluthile lwezindaba ezijabulisayo, cishe okuhlobene nomsebenzi noma ezezimali.
Owesifazane osemusha ongashadile owabona i-military servicemen ephusheni angase athole ngokushesha umfana. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukuba ubale ubuhlobo besikhathi eside salezi zinsuku, umbono onjalo awuthembisi injabulo yomndeni noma umshado , kodwa kunalokho uthi leli fan lingaba ngumqashi, hhayi umyeni.
Zama umfaniswano wezempi ephusheni, ubikezela ukuqala kweqembu elimnyama empilweni. Kukholelwa ukuthi lesi yisixwayiso esitshela umuntu ngesidingo sokuhlanganisa wonke amandla akhe ukuze anqobe izinkinga. Ukuhunyushwa okufanayo kwesiqephu, lapho umfana ethola khona amakhomishana e-draft, noma angene empini.
Uma leli phupho liphuphe owesifazane oshadile enezingane ezindala, kusho ukukhathazeka kwabathandekayo bakho.