Ukuhlolisisa ubudlelwane bomzali wengane

Ukuthuthukisa nokuvumelanisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwezingane nabazali, kubalulekile ukuzakhela kahle kusukela ekuqaleni. Kodwa lo mqondo kumndeni ngamunye unayo eyakho, okuholela ezimweni eziphikisanayo, futhi lokhu kwenzeka kunoma yisiphi isikhathi, hhayi nje intsha. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini engalungile emndenini ebuhlotsheni bomzali wengane, kukhona ukuxilongwa okukhethekile, okwenziwa ngumqondo wezengqondo oqeqeshiwe. Ngokweminyaka ehlukile, ingase ihluke, futhi kuzodingeka uzame eyodwa ngesikhathi ukuze uqonde izimbangela zokungaboni kahle.

Izindlela ezisetshenziselwa ukuxilonga ubudlelwane bomzali nabantwana zifanelekayo kokubili izingane ezisencane nezinsana zasenkulisa, ngokuhlukahluka okuncane. Izikhombandlela zocwaningo olunjalo zihlose izivini ezimbili - ukucubungula isimo kusuka esikhundleni sabazali nakusombono wengane.

Izindlela zokuthola ubuhlobo bomzali nabantwana

Kuze kube manje, izindlela ezizungeze eziyisishiyagalombili ziye zasakazwa kabanzi, ngosizo lwazi lochwepheshe onokuhlangenwe nakho oluzosiza ukuqonda ukuthi iyiphi inkinga yobuhlobo nengane. Zakhiwa yizo zombili ochwepheshe basekhaya nabangaphandle emkhakheni wezokwelapha. Ake sithole okuncane mayelana nokuthi basebenza kanjani.

Isivivinyo sobudlelwane bomzali

Lesi sivivinyo esilula esichaza isimo sengqondo sabazali ngezingane nokuzimisela kwabo ukufundisa isizukulwane esincane, kanye nezindlela ezikhethiwe zokuxhumana.

Indlela yeZarova

Lokhu kuhlolwa kusekelwe ekubonisweni kwezingane mayelana nabantu abadala emndenini - umama nobaba. Ikuvumela ukuba uthole ukuthi, ngokombono wezingane, abazali bafundise kahle, futhi banqume izinga lokugunyazwa.

"Ukulinganisa ukunakekelwa"

Njengoba ukunakekelwa okwanele kubazali, futhi ukunakwa ngokweqile kungathinta kabi ukuziphatha kwengane, ekuthuthukiseni kwakhe siqu. Lokhu kuhlolwa kukuvumela ukuba uthole, hhayi nokuthi umama nobaba bayayinakekela yini ingane yabo, nokuthi ngabe kunesidingo sokunquma kancane izinso zomzali.

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