Abantu baphuthuma enkolweni emva kokushaqeka kobudlova, belahlekelwa yizinto zonke futhi balindele kuNkulunkulu, abaye bakholelwa kuye ngokungazelelwe, isimangaliso. Isimangaliso esifanayo silindele imindeni esifinyelele isehlukaniso, ifika ekamelweni kumtholampilo. Sikholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi njengoba sifikile esontweni, kusho ukuthi ukunganakwa kwethu sekuvele kukhululiwe, konke okusele ukulinda imivuzo yokuhlakanipha kwethu.
Kodwa-ke, inkolo nemithandazo , kanye ne-psychology, akuyona iphilisi yemilingo, kodwa indlela yokwazi.
Umuntu uthandaza kanjani ngaphandle kokuvuma ukuvuma?
Umbuzo onjalo uvame ukuvela ngabantu abahlala bengathandi futhi bengenandaba nokuhlukaniswa kube "ngakwesokunxele nangakwesobunxele", "okuyiqiniso nokungaqondile", "abalungile nesono." Siyancoma ukuthi ukhethe ukukhetha kwakho kokuthandaza ingelosi kumlondolozi ongeyena ongakholwayo.
Umehluko phakathi kwendlalifa nomgcini ongcwele
Uma ubhapathiziwe, kufanele ube negama elibhapathiziwe - igama le-saint, manje elikuvikela. Uma kunjalo, ungcono ukuthandaza futhi uphenduke kuye. Uma ungabhapathiziwe, futhi awuyifuni ngempela, unelungelo lokukhalaza ingelosi yakho yokuqapha ngokusebenzisa umthandazo wamandla. Njengoba ingelosi yokulondoloza enenkolo inokuncane kakhulu.
Sivame ukusheshisa ngezibalo ngemuva kokuba sithokozwe esitolo. Kodwa ingabe kuyowusizo isayensi uma uqhuma izindebe zakho ngenxa yentukuthelo futhi izandla zakho ziyazamazama?
Okufanayo kwenzeka nebandla. Okokuqala siqala ukuphila kwethu ekupheleni kokufa, bese sisheshe siphumelele enkolweni. Kodwa ingabe sizokwazi ukuqonda uNkulunkulu futhi senze impilo yethu, lapho kuphela ukucasuka nokudumazeka eminyakeni engaphephile ekhona ekhanda lami.
Ukusebenzisa umkhuleko ovamile wansuku zonke kumngane oqaphayo, ungabiza umsizi wakho (onakho konke) ekuphileni futhi awusungule, ungaholeli ekuhluphekeni okukhulu.
Isibonelo, qaphela imizwa yakho emva kokufunda umthandazo olandelayo kumlindi wezingelosi okufundwa ebusuku:
"Ingelosi kaNkulunkulu, ingcwele yami engcwele, ukuba ungigcine eNkosini evela ezulwini inikezwe, nginxuse kuwe ngentshiseko; Uyongikhanyisa usuku nosuku, futhi ugcine kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi, wenze okuhle, futhi uqondise insindiso. Amen. "
Umthandazo wezingane
Isihloko esihlukile umthandazo ku-ingelosi kumlondolozi wendodana noma indodakazi yakhe. Uma umuntu enabantwana, impilo yakhe iyashintsha ngokungahambisani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyayifuna noma cha. Izingane ziyizimbali zokuphila, kodwa ngokuyinhloko abazali abakhathazekile ngokuzindla ngobuhle babo, kodwa ngokujabula, ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba ukuthi abanye bazobhekana nengozi nezingane zabo, bayothola ithonya elibi noma ngeke balandele indlela yabo yokuphila .
Abazali abakwazi ukuthandazela izingane zabo, ngisho noma bengakholwa. Ngisho nokwesaba kwakho mayelana nokuphepha kwabo kuhambisane nezicelo zemvelo kuNkulunkulu ukuze zivikele futhi zivikele.
Nasi isibonelo esisodwa somthandazo omfushane wabantwana:
"Ingelosi engcwele, umlondolozi wezingane zami (amagama), zimboze ngeveli yakho emicibisholo yedemoni, emehlweni omkhohlisi futhi ugcine inhliziyo yabo ngobumsulwa bezingelosi. Amen. "
Kusukela ekuseni
Kwabaningi, kusasa yisikhathi esingathandeki kakhulu sosuku lapho kufanele uzinqothule ebhedeni elifudumele bese uya endaweni ethile nangesizathu esithile. Kusasa sekube yizintandokazi zakho ngezikhathi ezithile, akudingeki ukuba uvuse.
Yenza isikhathi sasekuseni ngemikhuba yakho oyintandokazi - kwasekuseni okumnandi, i-aromatherapy eshaweni kanye nomkhuleko wabadala base-Optina. Lo mthandazo ungabhekwa njengokungathi ekuseni kukhwela ingelosi yokulondoloza, nakuba ufundwa kuNkulunkulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, lokhu kungumthandazo ongahloniphi kakhulu.
"Nkosi, ngiphe ukuthula kwengqondo ukuhlangabezana nakho konke okuletha kimi usuku oluzayo.
Ake nginikele ngokuphelele ekuthandeni kwakho okungcwele.
Ngayo yonke ihora lwanamuhla, fundisa futhi ungisekele kukho konke.
Noma yini engiyizwa emini, ngifundise ukuthatha umoya ozolile nokuqiniseka okuqinile ukuthi konke kungcwele Intando yakho.
Kuwo wonke amazwi nezenzo, ngihola imicabango yami nemizwa yami.
Kuzo zonke izimo ezingalindelekile, ungangivumeli ngikhohlwe ukuthi konke kuthunyelwe nguwe.
Ngifundise ngokuqondile futhi ngokufanelekayo ukuba ngisebenze nawo wonke amalungu omndeni wami, ngingabi namahloni noma ngimcasule noma ubani.
Nkosi, nginike amandla okuthwala ukukhathala kosuku oluzayo nazo zonke izenzakalo phakathi nosuku.
Khombisa intando yami futhi ungifundise ukuthandaza, ukukholwa, ithemba, ukubekezelela, ukuthethelela nokuthanda.
Amen. "