Yini esingayilindela ebuhlotsheni uma abantu ababili abaqinile besondelene, ngubani abaholi bangempela futhi abajwayele ukuvumelana nanoma ubani? Ingabe lona wesifazane ohambisana noLeo nomuntu uLeo noma ubuhlobo buyobhujiswa kusukela ekuqaleni?
Ingonyama eqinile futhi ephoqelela shazi ingakwazi ukunqoba noma yimuphi umuntu futhi imenze "inceku" yakhe yonke impilo yakhe. Lokhu kusebenza kuwo onke amalunga obulili obuqinile, kodwa hhayi uLeo, yena ngokwakhe ongakwazi "ukuguqa" noma ubani. Ngakho-ke, ubuhlobo obunjalo buzobe busekelwe ekuxabaneni, ngisho nasezintweni ezincane. Indoda yeThe Lion inqobe owesifazane ngokuthandana kwakhe, ngoba lo mkhuba uyingqayizivele.
Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ibhangqa lezingonyama libukeka likhulu kakhulu, ngoba kokubili uthando lusekelwe futhi lusetshenziselwa ukudlala kuphela izindima eziyinhloko kunoma iyiphi umdlalo. Ngaphezu kokuphikisana okuqhubekayo ebuhlotsheni obunjalo, ukuthanda uthando ngokuqinisekile kuzoba khona. Amakhosi anamandla ezinkomo, abe yedwa, omunye nomunye, angashintsha abe amazinyane avamile. Umshado phakathi kowesifazane uLeo kanye nendoda kaLeo ngemuva kweminyaka ihlala iyinto ephansi, njengokungathi okokuqala imizuzu yomhlangano, kuphela uma ikwazi ukugcina ubuhlobo futhi ingabaleki. Ngenxa yalokhu, abalingani kumele bafunde ukunikezana, kodwa omunye umuntu angacabanga ukuthi yi-lionous ejabulisayo ku-leash noma emgodini. Yebo, angakwazi ukugoba nokwenza lokho umlingani wakhe akubuza, kodwa angeke azuze injabulo kanye ne-idyll.
Okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuthola ukuthula phakathi kobuhlobo kukhona ukuhlonipha nokuqonda. Kubuye kubaluleke kakhulu ukunikeza insizakalo inkululeko edingeka kakhulu. Kunconywa ukuthi ozakwethu baqondise umoya wokuphikisana ngendlela efanele, futhi bafunde ukuthanda ngamandla afanayo njengoba bekwazi ukulwa.
Yimaphi abesifazane abesilisa abanjengoZilwane?
Eceleni kwabo amadoda anjalo alungele ukubona abamele abathintekayo besilisa ababuthakathaka kuphela. Kufanele bakhuliswe ngokomoya, babe nekhono lokubheka kwangaphandle kanye nokubhena. Akabathandi nakancane abesifazane abathweswe ukukhathazeka kwekhaya kanye nokungazi lutho. Owesifazane omuhle we-Lion man nguye ongamhloniphi kuphela, kodwa wonke amadoda azungezile, ngoba uyinkosi yezilo futhi kufanele abe nenkosikazi eceleni kwakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umngane wakho angaphumi nakakhulu indoda kaLeo, ngaphandle kwalokho ubuhlobo buzophela ngokushesha.
Ake sithi, u-Leo uthanda ukuthini abesifazane? Ake sizame ukuphendula umusho owodwa - ubuhle obuhle, obuhlelekile, obungavamile, obungenakuvinjelwa.
Yimuphi owesifazane odinga indoda uLobert?
Amadoda anjalo adinga ukuthandwa, asekelwe kuzo zonke izinyathelo nokuzinakekela, kuphela kule ndaba bazojabula, futhi bakwazi ukuningi. Amabhubesi afuna ukuthola owesifazane ongakwazi ukulalela amandla akhe.
Ngumuphi umuntu ofanele owesifazane uLeon?
Izinsikazi zidinga amadoda azohlale ebonisa uthando lwakhe futhi athi lihle kakhulu futhi liyingqayizivele. Izinsikazi zikholelwa ezimweni futhi zivame ukuza kulezi "rakes". Abesifazane abanjalo bafuna ukubona eduze komuntu ovikelekile ozokwazi ukukhokha zonke izindleko zakhe kanye nezindleko zakhe.
Othandekayo kumelwe ngokuziphatha ahlonipheke, njengenkosi yangempela futhi anakho
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi indoda elandela owesifazane uLeo, ivumelana ngokugcwele nayo futhi:
- wayengu-interlocutor omuhle futhi wasekela noma yikuphi isihloko engxoxweni;
- unambitha kahle futhi ugqoke izitayela;
- kumele athembele, angabi nesikhwele futhi ungalawuli;
- ukugcina ethembekile;
- Kumelwe amjabulise, ukuze i-Lioness ingabi nesithukuthezi.