Umzali ngamunye ufuna ukukhulisa ingane yakhe, ngokusekelwe emibono yakhe mayelana nokuthi umuntu omdala kufanele abe yini. Sifuna ukukhula kumfana omncane indoda enamandla, enesibopho, ehlakaniphile futhi enesibindi, ekwazi ukuba ngumsizi kanye nomvikeli womndeni wakubo. Owesifazane, ngokwemibono evamile ehlonishwayo, kufanele abe ngumfazi omnene nowesibindi, onomusa nomusa, onothando nomama, umgcini wendlu.
Ngokuhambisana nezintandokazi zabo, sikhulisa amadodana namadodakazi ethu. Ukwakhiwa komugqa oqondile wobulili (indima yokuzibandakanya ngokocansi) abazali bezingane nabafundisi basencane basizwa ngemidlalo yama-didactic, ngokusho ukuthi izingane zifunda amaphethini wokuziphatha.
Umdlalo njengendlela yokufundisa izingane zasenkulisa
Umdlalo, ngokusho kothisha, kuyindlela engcono yokufunda noma yini. Phela, izingane ezineminyaka engu-3-5 ubudala azikwazi ukuhlala emahokheni, zifuna ukunakekelwa. Ukudlala, ingane ingacabangi ukuthi lokhu kufundiswa nento abayifunayo kuye. Uvele umenze ezithakazelisayo kuye izenzo futhi kalula, ukhumbula kalula ulwazi oluningi oludingekayo.
Imidlalo yobulili yabasenkulisa yindlela eyodwa yokuchaza ukuthi amantombazane nabafana kufanele baziphathe kanjani, yikuphi okulawula ukuziphatha kwabo emphakathini olalelayo. Isibonelo esiphelelwe yisikhathi sabantu "abafana namantombazane, amaconti" sekuyisikhathi eside siphelile, izindlela zanamuhla zokuthuthukiswa zakuqala zikhuluma ngokungafani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imingcele emkhatsini wemisebenti yemasikati neyesifazane ihamba kancane kancane, bantfwana labatsandza kakhulu imibono yebesifazane. Ngenxa yalokhu, kuba nzima ngokwesizukulwane esincane ukujwayela indima yabo, kanti abazali abaningi ikakhulukazi ugogo baphikisana nemikhuba emisha, lapho imidlalo yabafana ngamadonki "namadodakazi-omama" engaphendululwa nje kuphela, kodwa ekhuthazwa, futhi amantombazane ephuza ukuba hhayi umama wendlu, kodwa, uthi, isikhulu.
Izibonelo zemidlalo yobulili enkulisa
Othisha be-enkulisa banendima ekhethekile kule ndaba. Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nezingane, banethuba lokulungisa ukuziphatha kwabo, kufaka phakathi ubulili, ngendlela efanele. Isibonelo, abafana kufanele bafundiswe ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukucasula amantombazane, ngoba abuthakathaka; Ngokuphambene nalokho, kubalulekile ukunikeza amantombazane indawo, weqa phambili, unakekele futhi usize. Lokhu kungafinyelelwa ngosizo lwamageyimu alandelayo, okunconywa emaqenjini aphakathi naphakathi, ngoba kusemncane kakhulu ukuthi izingane zifunda isayensi yokuxhumana okuhlangene.
- "Ikhaya liyakhathalela . " Mema izingane ukuba zipheke ukudla ngekhishi lokudlala. Bazisize basakaze indima: amantombazane ayala, abafana bayasiza. Ngemuva komdlalo, khuluma nabantwana, batshele ukuthi abathandekayo kufanele njalo basize omama azungeze indlu. Thola ukuthi ungubani nomama wakho ekhaya.
- Indlu Yobungane . Hlala zonke izingane embuthanweni ngomunye (umfana-intombazane) bese ubapha umklami. Qala imininingwane eyodwa yomklami kumbuthano, futhi uvumele ingane ngayinye, ihlanganise nayo futhi iqhubeke, izongcoma ummeleli wobulili obuhlukile. Isibonelo: Vanya yini? - Kuhle, uqine, ugijima ngokusheshisa, ugijima phezulu, awucasuli amantombazane, akalwi. Masha ini? - Enhle, enomusa, ethembekile, enembile, njll. Lo mdlalo usiza izingane ukuba ziqonde ukuthi kuwo wonke umuntu kunento enhle ukuthi kungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukuba ube abangane phakathi kwabo. Yakha "indlu enkulu" yobungani kusukela kumklami.
- "Izihlobo . " Vumela izingane zifunde ngokuhlukahluka kobudlelwane bomndeni bese uzama ukukhumbula ukuthi ubani ozozala: ngogogo nomkhulu bangabazukulu, omamawabo nabazalakazi, njll. Kulo mdlalo, amakhadi anamagama abhalwe kuwo azoba usizo. Ungenza umuthi omncane womndeni wabo.
- "Amantombazane Amama . " Lona umdlalo emndenini wangempela - amantombazane abe okwesikhashana, nabafana - abafana. Obaba baya emsebenzini, omama bakhulisa abantwana. Khona-ke izindima zishintsha - upapa unosuku futhi uhlala ekhaya nomntwana, futhi umama uya emsebenzini. Lo mdlalo usiza ingane ngayinye ukuba iqonde ukuthi zombili izindima emndenini yizona eziyinhloko nezinkimbinkimbi ezilinganayo.