Kubonakala sengathi kungaba lula - uthathe udoti futhi uhlale kuwe, ubushelelezi, ujabulele. Kodwa cha! Hhayi wonke amakati athande abantu abavimbela inkululeko yabo. Ezinye azinikezwa nhlobo. Lokhu kungokwemvelo - "Ngingumakethi, futhi ngihamba ngedwa." Khumbula?
Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi ikhala likhala futhi lila uma usithatha ezandleni zakho. Cishe ukwenze ngokungalungile futhi ubangela ubuhlungu noma ukuphazamiseka. Nakuba kubonakala sengathi kulula kakhulu ukuthatha isilwane futhi uyigcine, eqinisweni, idinga ikhono. Ikakhulukazi, uma isilwane sinesifo esithile, futhi ungalimaza.
Ungathatha kanjani ikati ezandleni zakho?
Okokuqala, udinga ukuthatha isilwane ngendlela efanele. Kodwa ngaphambi kwalokho, qiniseka ukuthi akulona ugqozi kuwe, akwesabi ngawe, futhi ngokujwayelekile, ukhululekile futhi uzolile. Ngaphandle kokunyakaza okungazelelwe, faka ikati, khuluma naye ngomusa, uthi hello. Kungenzeka kuthathe isikhathi sokuba ikati noma ikati ukujwayele kuwe. Shaza ikhanda lesikhumba, ngemuva kwezindlebe kanye nesikhumba, uma ikuvumela ukuba wenze kanjalo.
Zonke lezi zenzo ziyadingeka, ikakhulukazi uma isilwane singakujwayele. Ngakho wena kanye nekati uyoba nesikhathi sokuhlola isimo, ukuze wazi omunye kancane. Uma nje ikati lizwa ukuthi uphephile nawe, uzokhululeka, futhi uzobona futhi uzizwe.
Ikati inikeza isignali ukuthi ilungele ukuya ezandleni zakho - iqala ukuxubha emlenzeni wakho noma ingalo yakho, inhlanzi , ubukeka emehlweni akho. Uma ubona lokhu, hhayi ukucasula kwakhe futhi uzama ukuluma futhi uqale, usuke waba umngane naye, futhi ungaqhubeka nesigaba esilandelayo.
Manje faka enye yezandla zakho ngaphansi komzimba wekatho ngemuva kwemigqa yakhe yangaphambili, ngesandla sesibili ubambe ngaphansi kwemilenze yangemuva bese uphakamisa. Ngokushesha, yenza ukuxhumana phakathi komzimba wakho nekati - lokhu kuzokwenza uzizwe uphephile ngokuphelele.
Ungagcina kanjani ikati noma ikati ezandleni zakho?
Okubaluleke kunazo zonke, usondelene kakhulu nesilwane, ithemba futhi ilindele ukuthi ube nesisa futhi ufudumele. Yigcine ezingeni lesifuba sakho, ucindezela kancane, kodwa ungacindezeli. Isikhundla sekathi kufanele sibe sisobala - hhayi ukugxila futhi singapheli phansi. Noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka kwesimo sekati ngokushesha kuzama ukuyeka, ukudonsa futhi ukukhwaza ngonya.
Inhloko yekati, uma uyibamba, kufanele ibe ngaphezu kwezinga lesibani sayo. Khumbula - awukwazi ukuguqula ikhanda phansi!
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzwa uma ikati ifuna ukushiya izandla zakho. Uzoqala ukuchofoza, ukuhambisa, zama ukukhulula. Ungamgodli ngokumelene nentando yakhe, kungenjalo uzozizwa engakhululekile, ukukhathazeka kwakhe nokwesaba kuyokhula, ngakho ngesikhathi esilandelayo kufanele wenze konke kusukela ekuqaleni, ukumthatha futhi.
Ungayilahli ikati, uyinciphise kuma-paws angu-4 bese ususa izandla. Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi ikati lingagxuma kuwe, ngakho-ke lilungele.