Amakati angenye yezilwane ezifuywayo kakhulu, eziye zabhekwa njengezibonakaliso zokufudumala kwekhaya nokududuza. Lesi sidalwa esinomlilo esinabantu abaningi abantu bahlangana emaphupheni abo, okuvame ukudala imizwelo emihle. Kodwa-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuwufanele ngempela ukujabula kulephupho elinjalo, udinga ukuthola ukuthi amakati namakhiti aphupha ngani, esephendukele encwadini yephupho ukuze uthole incazelo.
Kungani uphupha amakati kanye neziningi zamakhiti?
Ukuqhubeka kusukela ezitatimendeni zezincwadi eziningi zephupho, ikati elibonwe ephusheni, okuyinto empeleni engabonakali, libikezela inkinga enkulu. Uma, ngaphezu kwalokho, ube namakhittens angaphezu kwamahlanu, kusho ukuthi ngaphezu kwenkathazo enkulu, ungalindela izinkinga eziningi ezincane. Nokho, lokhu kungukuhumusha okujwayelekile. Ukuze uthole incazelo eningiliziwe, kufanelekile ukukhumbula iphupho ngokuningiliziwe, kuze kube
lapho ephupha.
Isibonelo, ungathukuthelwanga yilabo abazama ukuqonda amaphupho amakati namakati, babona iphupho elinjalo ebusuku kusuka ngoLwesibili kuya ngoLwesithathu noma kusukela ngoMgqibelo kuya ngeSonto. Amaphupho owawubonile ngekati namakhiti phakathi nalesi sikhathi kusho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzothola inzuzo noma izipho eziyigugu. Ngendodakazi encane lelo phupho lithembisa ukuqashelwa kothando lwabalandeli abaningi.
Inendima ebalulekile ekuchazeni ubuthongo idlala yilokho obuthongo obona ngokuqondile. Ukubuka ama-kittens ambalwa okudlala kubonisa ukuthi kukhona umuntu emvelweni othembela ngeze. Kungaba umuntu kusuka ezihlotsheni, abangane noma osebenza nabo. Lephupho lixwayisa ukuthi kufanele uqaphele ngokwengeziwe, uthembele izimfihlo zakho, ngoba lo muntu angakwazi ukufakazela ngokujulile umzuzwana ongalindelekile kuwe.
Uma ukondla ikati elingenamakhaya ngamakhitshi, empeleni ungakwazi ukuqala ngokuphepha lokho oye ukukuphupha isikhathi eside, kodwa njalo ubeke ukungabaza noma othile odikibala njalo. Akunandaba ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngempela - qala ibhizinisi lakho noma uthenge okubalulekile, lezi zithembiso zephupho ziphumelele kunoma yikuphi ukuzama.
Uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi ikati lifuna izinsikazi zalo, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kungase kube nenkinga, okuzodingeka isetshenziswe yedwa.
Uma ucabangela ukuchazwa kokulala, yiziphi amaphupho amakati namakhiti, ungayinaki umbala wayo.
Kungani uphupha ikati elimnyama elinama kittens?
Ikati elimnyama amaphupho okushintsha okungathandeki empilweni, kodwa uma kwakunamazinyane, ngokuphambene nalokho, incazelo yephupho elinjalo lihle. Iveza ukuphumelela ebhizinisini nobuhlobo obuhle nabanye.
Uma uzama ukudlala nama-kittens ephusheni, futhi ikati elimnyama likukhanga, khona-ke iphupho elinjalo akuwona uphawu oluhle kowesifazane oyedwa. Leliphupho lithembisa ukubukeka empilweni yesoka eliyingcweti, ngenxa yokuthi angakwazi ukulahlekelwa idumela lakhe.
Kungani uphupha ngekati elimhlophe elinenetha?
Ikati elimhlophe ephusheni libonisa ukuthi kukhona ukukhohlisa empilweni. Ngokushesha ungabona ukungathembeki kwabantu abasendaweni yakho eseduze. Uma ikati elimhlophe lishaya ephusheni, iphupho elinjalo liyisixwayiso sokuthi omunye wabangane bakho uzenza nje umngane. Eqinisweni, uzama konke okusemandleni ukulimaza. Ukudlala ephusheni ngekati elimhlophe kanye nenkazi yakhe - kungasho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kulindeleke ukubonakala okuningi okucacile. Mhlawumbe,
Kungani uphupha ikati ebeletha ama-kittens?
Uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi ikati labeletha ama-kittens enempilo futhi bebaningi kubo, khona-ke lokhu kumemezela abantu abaningi abasaziwayo kanye nemihlangano emihle. Ngendodakazi encane, leli phupho lithi maduzane uzothola uthando lwakhe lweqiniso.
Uma sicabanga ngalokho ikati elabeletha ama-kittens amaphupho, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi umuntu akufanele athathe iphupho elinjalo uma ama-kittens esanda kuvela ekhaya.