Ngeshwa, ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi esikhathini esidlule umkhaya ojabulayo, ujabule uvele. Ukwahlukanisa kuba ukucindezeleka okukhulu kuwo wonke umuntu - kokubili ingane kanye nabazali bakhe. Futhi ngezinkinga ezinkulu kunazo zonke ezinokuqukethwe kwengane encane. Yingakho kukhona umthetho wokukhokha ingane, kuze kube yilapho efinyelela eminyakeni yobudala futhi ngeke athole umsebenzi.
Kodwa, ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene, umzali angakwazi ukukhokha ukukhokhela okunye. Uma isimo esinjalo sithatha izinyanga ezingaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ngokulandelana, khona-ke lelimele elimele likwazi ukufaka i-suit mayelana nokuletha icala lobugebengu.
Ummeli wenkonzo yokulawula inkokhelo oyobhekana necala lakho kumele ahlole zonke izinto, futhi azise ummangalelwa ngesicelo esithunyelwe kuye futhi abambe ingxoxo yokuxwayisa mayelana nokushushiswa okungenzeka. Umuntu obophezelekile uyazisa mayelana nesimangalo sakho esiphezulu izikhathi ezimbili. Futhi, izinsizakalo zokulawula izinkokhelo zithola izizathu azishiya kuzo izinkokhelo. Ukwenqaba ukubamba ubugebengu obhekene nokungekho ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony kungase kube ngezizathu eziningana:
- uma lowo okhokhelwayo elahlekelwe umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa usemsebenzini wezezimali noma uzama ukuthola umsebenzi ngokwakhe;
- uma emsebenzini kukhona ukubambezeleka emalini;
- uma ibhange lingazange lenze noma libophe izinkokhelo (kodwa umsolwa kumele akhombise amaresidi okukhokha);
- uma umuntu oboshiwe eboshwe kakhulu, noma enezinkinga zezezimali;
- uma umsolwa ekhokha inani elincane lemali, okungenani kanye ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokugcina.
Uma ummangalelwa ebonisa ukungabi namlandu, ngeke aphoqeleke ukukhokha imali isikhathi esinikeziwe. Futhi, ayikho inhlawulo ezokhokhiswa.
Isibopho sokungakhokhwa kwe-alimony
Isibopho sikhangwa uma ummangalelwa ehlonishwa njengesihlukumezi esinonya. Leli gama lisho amaphuzu alandelayo:
- Ukugwema izinkokhelo ezinyangeni ezingaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ngokulandelana, ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle.
- Uma umuntu efihlile kubamele abamele ukulawula ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony.
- Uma, ngemuva kwesinqumo senkantolo, ummangalelwa akaqhubeki ukukhokha nanoma iyiphi imali yokugcinwa kwengane encane.
Yini engasongela ukungakhokhwa kwe-alimony?
Kunezinhlobo eziningana zezijeziso zokungakhokhi ukukhokhelwa kokunye, okuzosetshenziselwa ngokuqondile icala ngalinye, inkantolo inquma, ngokusekelwe ezintweni zokwenza izinto.
Okokuqala, i-defaulter enonya iphoqelekile ukukhokha zonke izimali zenkathi yokucatshangelwa kwesikhathi, kanye nesithakazelo. Isijeziso sokungakhokhi kwe-alimony singamaphesenti angu-0.1 enani lemali yokukhokhelwa kwengane engakhokhelwa usuku ngalunye ezinsukwini ezizayo. Lokhu kusebenza ezimweni lapho ummangalelwa ayekhokhwa khona ukukhokhela ukugcinwa kwengane encane ngenkokhelo yenkantolo. Lokhu kungukuthi, lapho isivumelwano singapheli phakathi kwabazali ngokukhokha ngokuzithandela, futhi omunye wabo wavuma.
Uma isivumelwano siphethwe phakathi kokubili amaqembu futhi siqinisekiswe ngumbhalisi noma enkantolo, ngakho-ke inhlawulo yezinhlawulo ishintshe - ikhokhwa ngenani elinqunywe yizinhlangothi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngesinqumo senkantolo, ummangali angaphoqelelwa ukuba enze umsebenzi wokulungisa isikhathi esingamahora angu-120 kuya kwangu-180. Noma ngesiphetho esinemibandela, kuze kube unyaka owodwa. Futhi, ukuphetha ezindaweni
Inkokhelo engekho emthethweni yokukhokha kungaholela ekutheni ummangalelwa uzobe enqatshelwe amalungelo omzali, kodwa uzobe ephoqelekile ukuba akhokhe.
Indlela yokufakazela ukungakhokhwa kwe-alimony?
Ukufakazela ukuthi awutholanga usizo lwezezimali kumuntu owayekade naye naye, udinga ukuletha amashekhelo akhokhelwa kamuva. Bhala isicelo emizimbeni elawula ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony endaweni yakho yokuhlala. Uma ungazi ukuthi ziphi, ungaxhumana namaphoyisa noma inkantolo.