Amandla angenamkhawulo, isihluthulelo kuyo yonke iminyango, i-muse, amandla, umthombo wokuphefumlelwa, into yokulingisa - konke lokhu kuqondene nobuhle besifazane, impikiswano ehlala iminyaka eminingi. Izinga lobuhle besifazane lishintsha njalo. Uma ngenkathi yeBaroque emfashini kwakuyizintombikazi ezihloniphekile, ubuhle bomzimba wabesifazane banamuhla, ngokusho kwamadoda amaningi, kunomkhawulo wemingcele 90-60-90 nokuphakama kuka 170-175 amasentimitha.
Izinhlobo zobuhle besifazane
AmaHindu ahlakaniphileyo, asebenzise izimiso ze-Ayurveda izinkulungwane zeminyaka, ahlukanise ubuhle besifazane zibe izinhlobo ezintathu eziyinhloko kanye nezinsizwa eziyisikhombisa ezixutshwe. Ukuhlukaniswa akusekelwe kuphela ekubukeni kanye nedatha yemvelo. Indima enkulu inikezwe ukuqonda.
Owesifazane-umoya ukhonjiswe ngothando futhi fragility. Uma umbuka, uzizwa ukuthi isikhumba sithinta kanjani umoya oqabulayo oqabulayo. Ngisho nezici ezingalungile zobuso, zibukeka ngendlela enhle futhi ehambelanayo. Ukubhekwa ngokweqile, ukukhanya, ukuhamba emoyeni yizici eziyinhloko zabesifazane balolu hlobo.
Owesifazane-umlilo ubukhali, ukukhanya, ukuzethemba. Ngokuvamile kaningi isibalo silingana, sezemidlalo. Ngendlela, abamele lolu hlobo bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi abesifazane ababulalayo.
Ngokungafani nomuntu wesifazane-umlilo, owesifazane-amanzi anesimo esikhulu somzimba, amafomu ahambileyo, ngezinye izikhathi nokuqhathanisa ngokweqile. Kodwa ubuhle babo busebusweni obugcwele bamehlo, ukukhathalela, ukubonela phambili, umusa, ukuzinikela. Ngokuphathelene nemingcele, abesifazane basololu hlobo ngokuvamile banamabele amakhulu, amaqabunga aluhlaza.
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Kusukela ekubukeni kwamadoda
Akuyona imfihlo iningi lethu eligqoke ngalo, sigxile emathempelini emfashini, ukuba singaboni nakakhulu kunamanye amantombazane, kodwa sisekela umzimba ngendlela esiyiyo ngayo amadoda. Yini abamele abesilisa abakucabangayo ngalokhu? Yini, ngokombono wabo, isilinganiso sobuhle besifazane? Yiqiniso, inani le ntombazane libaluleke kakhulu. Namuhla kuyimfashini ukuba ibe yindabuko, imidlalo, inamandla. Abesifazane abasha abathandekayo, abathandeki, abancanyana bavusa uzwela kuphela futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nesihawu. Abesifazane abanomdlalo wezemidlalo, izindebe zomzimba, izifuba eziphakeme, imilenze ende, izinkalo ezizungezile nezintambo, isikhumba esincane, isisu esisindayo, intamo ende ingafaka isihloko sokuhle kobuhle besifazane. Ubuhle bamehlo besifazane, izinwele ezinde kakhulu akuzona ezokugcina.
Kodwa kukhona omunye umbono. Amadoda amaningi akholelwa ukuthi amantombazane anemingcele enhle ayamjabulisa ukubuka, kepha ukucabanga okunjalo ngendwangu yomlingani empilweni kunzima kakhulu. Izimfihlo zobuhle besifazane azikho emafomu, imibala yezinwele, amehlo nesikhumba. Indima enkulu nayo inezici ezinjengendlela yokucabanga, umlingiswa, ukuziphatha. Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi amanye amadoda adonsa abesifazane abathandekayo, ababheke njengento enhle kunazo zonke, nakuba ngaphandle angayitholi indlela evamile yokwamukela ubuhle. Ukuze uhloniphe ubuhle ngokungakhethi kungenzeka kuphela esithombeni kumagazini noma esikrinini se-TV. Ngisho nangalesi simo, ukuhlolwa kuzoba yi-subjective. Ungathini ngamantombazane ohlangana nabo empilweni yangempela? Umbono ubuhle bungashintsha igama elilodwa kuphela, bheka noma isenzo.
Akumangalisi ukuthi isimo sinikeze abesifazane idatha ehlukile yangaphandle. Ngamunye wethu uhlukile futhi uhle ngendlela yakhe, futhi eziningi izisulu zabesifazane ngenxa yobuhle azikho ngokuphelele. Kungani ubeka impilo yakho ezingozini ngokushintsha idatha ngesimo sefomu neminyenti, ukususa "okungeziwe" nokuthunga "okulungile" uma endaweni ethile eduze kwalowo muntu ehlala ekubheke ukuthi uyakhanga kakhulu? Ubuhle bungombono womunye umuntu, kodwa thina besifazane singayishintsha ngombuzo wemizuzwana!
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