Ngolunye usuku umphakathi we-intanethi uvuswa yizindaba zokuthi umuntu ohlala e-UAE uhlukanisile nomkakhe ngemva kokukubona engagunyaziwe.
Umbhangqwana wawuhlezi ogwini eSharjah. Umyeni wamangala lapho ebona umkakhe emva kokugeza. Amanzi ahlanza ukwenziwa kwalowo wesifazane, futhi wabonakala kuqala phambi komyeni wakhe ngaphandle kokwenza. Ubuhle bemvelo bomfazi abuzange bumjabulise le ndoda, futhi lapho ethola ukuthi lo wesifazane wayesebenze ukuhlinza eziningana zepulasitiki, futhi egqoke ama-lens ezinombala nama-eyelashes angamanga, ngokushesha wacela isahlukaniso.
Noma kunjalo, ukuhlukanisa ngezizathu ezinjalo ezingenangqondo kwenzeka emazweni ase-Arabhu ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuze ahlukanise nomkakhe, kwanele ukuba umyeni wakhe abize igama elithi "Talak" (isahlukaniso) kathathu, futhi owesifazane kufanele ngokushesha avele endlini. Noma kunjalo, ngesikhathi esifanayo uzothola isinxephezelo semali, esashiwo enkonzweni yomshado.
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi amagama abulalayo umyeni ukhalela ngentukuthelo, bese egijima azungeze izinkantolo ngesicelo sokuqeda isehlukaniso ngenxa yokuthi wayesezimo.
Yini enye engabangela isehlukaniso ngesi-Arabhu?
Kusasa emva kobusuku bomshado
Icala elibalulwe ngenhla akuyona yedwa yohlu lwayo. Ngonyaka odlule i-Algerian yafaka isahlukaniso ngosuku olulandelayo lomshado. Washaqeka lapho, ekuseni, emva kobusuku bomshado, umkakhe wahlanza ukwakheka kwakhe. Akakwazanga ngisho ukumqaphela.
"Ngacabanga ukuthi isela lingena endlini yami. Ngaphambi komshado, wayebukeka emuhle futhi ekhangayo. "
Enkantolo, owesilisa okhungathekile wayenxusa ukuthi umyeni wakhe angahlukanisi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi isinxephezelo sokulimala kokuziphatha okungama $ 20,000.
Ukukhishwa kwesithombe somshado
Edolobheni laseMedina (eSaudi Arabia), umyeni wamemezela ukuthi uthumela isahlukaniso, ngemuva kokushada. Njengoba kwenzeka kaningi emazweni ase-Arab, umshado uhlelwe abazali bentsha futhi, okwamanje, akekho owayekhathazeka ukwethula umakoti kumkhwenyana. Ngesikhathi sedili lomshado, lo mdwebi wezithombe wacela labo abasanda kushada ukuba baphonse isigqubuthelo ebusweni bentombazane. Lapho indoda esanda kuyenza yenza lokhu futhi kuqala yabona ubuso bomkakhe osemusha, ngokushesha yathi:
"Awusona intombazane engingathanda ukuyishada. Ngicabanga ukuthi uhlukile kakhulu. Ngiyaxolisa, kodwa ngifuna isahlukaniso. "
I-smartphone
Omunye umuntu waseSaudi Arabia wanquma ukuhlukanisa ngobusuku bokuqala bomshado. Ngokushesha nje lapho abasanda kushada behlala emakamelo kulabo abasanda kushada, lo wesifazane wathatha i-smartphone futhi wangena engxoxweni nabangane, ekhohlwa ngokuphelele ngomkakhe futhi engakunaki ukudlala ngothando. Khona-ke umbhangqwana osanda kushada wabuza ukuthi ubani obaluleke kakhulu kuye: yena noma abangane. Owesifazane othukuthele waphendula ngokuthi ungumngane. I-Arabhu enjalo eqhoshayo ayizange ime. Washiya ihhotela futhi wafaka isicelo sokuhlukanisa ngosuku olulandelayo. Ijaji lazama ukumvimbela, kodwa lapho lapho! Le suti yaneliseka.
Isifiso sokusiza
Uma esimweni esedlule umyeni wakhe wafaka isahlukaniso ngenxa yokukhathazeka komfazi, ngakho-ke kule ndaba umfazi osemncane, ngokuphambene nalokho, wabonisa ukunakekelwa ngokungadingekile kwabathembekile. Kwenzeke ngobusuku bokuqala bomshado. Abangenalwazi abasanda kushada babengenakukwazi ukubhekana nalolu daba futhi behluleka ukufeza umsebenzi wakhe. Umkakhe wanquma ukumjabulisa futhi waqala ukuchaza ukuthi kufanele akwenze. Mhlawumbe, wathola lolu lwazi kwi-Inthanethi. Kodwa esikhundleni sokumbonga, lo wesilisa uthukuthele: wanquma ukuthi lona wesifazane uziphatha kabi, futhi wamxosha ngaphandle, futhi ngosuku olulandelayo wafaka isicelo sokuhlukanisa.
Umphathi we-TV
Ohlala eSaudi Arabia wahlukanisa nomkakhe ngoba wayeseyedwa ebuka uhlelo lwethelevishini, okuholwa yindoda. Umyeni onomhawu wabheka lokhu njengengxabano, ngoba iSharia inqabela abesifazane ukuba bahlale bodwa nabesilisa abangajwayelekile.
Ingilazi yamanzi
E-Kuwait, umyeni wakhe wacela isehlukaniso ngemuva kokuba umkakhe enqaba ukumletha ingilazi yamanzi. Owesifazane oziqhenya wathi lokhu akuyona ingxenye yemisebenzi yakhe: kukhona intombazana endlini.
I-Pepsi
Omunye u-Arabhu owafaka isahlukaniso ngemuva komkakhe, naphezu kokuvinjelwa komyeni wakhe, waphetha ibhodlela likaPepsi. Le ndoda yayithukuthele ngokuthi abathembekile abamlalelanga.
Umhlengikazi Ojwayelekile
Abashadikazi abangama-Arabhu, abanezingane eziyisikhombisa futhi beshade iminyaka engu-25, bahlukanisile ngemva kokufunda ukuthi banomhlengikazi oyedwa. Ngaphansi kwemithetho yase-Arabhu, le ndoda nomkayo yizihlobo zobisi, imishado ephakathi kokuphikisiwe ngokuphelele.
Isifiso somngane womshado
Futhi lena indaba yasendle. Owesifazane waseSaudi Arabia wayefuna ukuhlukanisa nomyeni wakhe. Isizathu ukuthi ngemva kweminyaka engama-30 womshado ekugcineni ... wabona ubuso bakhe. Lo wesifazane wayenombono oqinile futhi akazange abonise umyeni wakhe ubuso. Umuntu onobuhlakani wayengenakukumelela, futhi ngolunye usuku, lapho elele, wakhumula isembozo kuye.
Ngenkathazo, umfazi wavuka futhi wamemezela ukuthi uhlukanisa nomyeni okhohlisayo. Kwenzeke kungekudala kakhulu: ngo-2008.
Umnyango wemoto ongavaliwe
Umndeni wase-Arab ubuyela ekhaya. Umlingani washiya imoto futhi wahola ingane ekhaya, ngaphandle kokuvala umnyango wemoto. Umyeni wami wayefuna ukubuyela futhi avalize umnyango. Uphikisana nokuthi wayengakwenza lokho, njengoba eseduze nemoto. Khona-ke umyeni wathukuthela futhi wathi ngaleso sikhathi wayengenalo lutho endlini yakhe. Owesifazane kwakudingeka ahambe.
I-cigarette
Omunye umbhangqwana ohlukanisile ngemuva kokuba umyeni athole ugwayi esikhwameni somkakhe. Owesifazane wazama ukuziphendulela, wathi akaqondi ukuthi ugwayi uvelaphi. Kodwa lo muntu wayeqinele: kulandelwa isahlukaniso.
Ukuhlambalaza isidlaliso
E-Saudi Arabia, owesifazane wacela isehlukaniso ngemuva kokushayela ucingo lomyeni wakhe. Wambiza eselula futhi wathola ukuthi umyeni wakhe ushiye ifoni etafuleni, futhi umbhalo othi "iGuantanamo" wawusesikrinini. Ngaphansi kwesiteketiso esinjalo, le ndoda yiletha oshade naye ohlwini lokuxhumana. Khumbula ukuthi iGuantanamo ijele eCuba, lapho kuqhutshwa khona ukuhlushwa. Lo wesifazane wacasulwa kangangokuthi wayefuna ukuhlukanisa. Yebo, noma okungenani isinxephezelo sokuziphatha.
Kim Kardashian
Omunye wesifazane waseSaudi Arabia waphawula ukuthi umyeni wakhe uthanda uKim Kardashian.
"Ngaphawula ukuthi uyamthanda kanjani, ngakho wanquma ukufana naye ..."
Ukuze afane nenkanyezi ye-TV, owesifazane weshintshe izinwele zakhe, wenza ukuhlinzekwa kweplastiki futhi wazama nokuhamba ngendlela efanayo neKardashian. Kodwa lolu hlelo olubukhali alusebenzanga. Umyeni wami wayengathandi ukubukeka okusha komkakhe futhi waqhubeka ekhuluma ngesahlukaniso.
Ihlaya elingaphumeleli
Omunye owesifazane ovela eSaudi Arabia watshela umyeni wakhe ngecala ukuthi ikamela likayise lithanda okungaphezu kwalokho. Indoda ekhubekile yathatha umkakhe emapulazini kamamela kamkhwezala, yamholela ekamela futhi yanikeza isehlukaniso.
I hero of the reality show
Futhi nenye indaba eshaqisayo yokuhlukanisa. Indoda yase-Arab yabuyela ekhaya yathola umkakhe ekhala. Wacabanga ukuthi kukhona okwenzekile, wagijimela kumkakhe, waqala ukumthulisa futhi wabuza ngalokho okwenzekile. Kwavela ukuthi lo wesifazane wayebukele ku-TV uchungechunge olulandelayo lombukiso weqiniso owaziwayo, futhi umhlanganyeli wakhe ozithandayo washiya iphrojekthi. Efunda ngesizathu sezinyembezi, umyeni wathukuthela:
"Umhlanganyeli ushiye umbukiso, futhi usuka endlini!"
Ukungazinaki imilayezo ku-Whatsapp
Indoda yathumela umkakhe umlayezo ku-Whatsapp, yaqinisekisa ukuthi uyifunde, kodwa ayitholanga impendulo. Umlingani ohluphekile wanquma ukuthi kukhona okubi okwenzekile kumkakhe, futhi washeshe waya ekhaya. Ekhaya, wabona ukuthi umkakhe wayebukela ngethelevishini ngokuthula futhi ekhuluma nabangane. Uthe ngeke akwazi ukuphendula emlayezo wakhe, ngoba uhambelana nomngane wakhe. Indoda yathukuthela futhi yanquma ukuhlukanisa. Kuyadabukisa ukucabanga ukuthi umshado weminyaka emibili ungasindiswa nge-smiley eyodwa kuphela!
Ukushayela imoto
Abesifazane eSaudi Arabia bavunyelwe ukushayela. Inkosikazi eyodwa, engayinaki umthetho, yathumela umyeni wayo ividiyo, lapho ephethe imoto yakhe. Umyeni ogcina umthetho wayevame ukwethuka. Kuvela ukuthi ushadile nesigebengu! Ngokushesha uhlukanise!
The Kiss of a Horse
Omunye u-Arabhu wahlukanisa ngemuva kokubona isithombe lapho umkakhe ekhanga khona u-Arabhiya! Wayekubheka njengesihluku! Owesifazane uthe akazisoli ngalokho akwenzile futhi akazange aphuthelwe yihlukaniso kumuntu ongahlukanisi phakathi kwesilwane nendoda.
Kiss ikamele
Icala elifanayo lwenzeka lapho owesifazane osemusha embanga ikamela phambi komama kamyeni wakhe. Uninazala washaqeka futhi wacela indodana yakhe ukuthi ihlukanise ngokushesha. Lo muntu walalela unina.
Ukukhishwa kusuka eqenjini lezenhlalakahle. amanethiwekhi
Indoda yase-Arabhu eyaziqhenya iduduza umkakho ngaphandle kwendlu ukuze aphindiselele kumfowabo. La madoda ayesemphakathini ofanayo ku-Whatsapp, kodwa ngemva kokuphikisana nomfowabo wesifazane waphoqa indoda yakhe eqenjini. Umyeni othukile wabe esetshela umkakhe ukuthi aphume.