Ukugxila kubantu abadala

Ukugxila kubantu abadala kuyiphutha elivame kakhulu ekukhulumeni , futhi, njengomthetho, kunika abanikazi bayo izinkinga eziningi. Njengomthetho, lokhu kuphazamiseka kubonakala ebuntwaneni, futhi uma izinyathelo zingathathwa ngokushesha, zingagcinwa isikhathi eside. Ngokushesha ukwelashwa kwenkinga enjalo kuqala, ngokushesha ungakwazi ukuthola imiphumela emihle. Akudingekile ukucabangela lokhu njengento engatholakali: UMarilyn Monroe, othandekayo yiwo wonke umuntu, wahlukunyezwa, kepha wayengayinqoba futhi azuze amaphuzu avelele emsebenzini wakhe.

Ukuthungatha: izimbangela

Ukuqubuzana kwe-Neurosis-like like troubles of speech: tempo yayo, isigqi nokubushelela. Lezi zimpawu zivela ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwemisindo ngayinye: ukuphazanyiswa kwabo, isikhathi eside noma ukuphindaphinda. Ngokuvamile, izinkinga ezinjalo ziwumphumela wokuphazamiseka kwemisipha kulezi zixhobo zokukhuluma nokuphazanyiswa kwezwi, ukukhuluma nokuphefumula.

Njengomthetho, ukwelashwa kokuthungatha kubantu abadala kuqala ngokufuna izimbangela zayo. Ngokuvamile ukugxila kubantwana kuvela eminyakeni emibili kuya kwemihlanu, lapho kusetshenzwa khona isigaba sokukhuluma. Lesi sifo sivame ukuhambisana ne-psychotrauma ethile, isibonelo, ukwesaba okukhulu . Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinto ezidingekayo zokuthungatha kungaba:

Ukuthungatha isifo esiyinkinga eminingi, esinqumayo ukubunzima kokwelapha. Kuhilela ukuphazanyiswa emsebenzini wesimiso sezinzwa, okuholela ezinkingeni ngezixhobo zokukhuluma. Ngokuvamile, abantu abahlukunyezwayo, kubonakala sengathi kukhona ukungezwani komzimba. Into edabukisayo kakhulu ukuthi ukuqhuma kuholela ezinkingeni eziningi. Uyazi ukuntula kwakhe, lo muntu uyesaba ukukhuluma, uvinjelwe futhi uhoxisiwe. Ngokujwayelekile lokhu akuthinti labo abahlukunyezwayo - lokhu kutholakala umuntu kuphela ezimweni ezinzima futhi ezibucayi.

Indlela yokuphulukisa ukuqhuma kwabantu abadala?

Ngemuva kokuhlaziya izimbangela kanye nenkambo yesifo ngesikhathi sesifo eside, udokotela uzokwazi ukunikeza ukwelashwa okufanele. Njengomthetho, isazi sengqondo noma isazi sezinzwa sisebenza kulokhu.

Ngokuvamile, odokotela banikeza imithi ejwayelekile yemithi futhi bayeke lapho, kodwa ukwelashwa okunjalo kunikeza ukusebenza okuncane. Indlela kuphela ehlelekile, evame ukuqhutshwa emitholampilo yangasese, kunokuba isesidlangalaleni, inikeza imiphumela emihle kakhulu.