Ukusuka endleleni umuntu akhuluma ngayo, kuxhomeke kakhulu, isibonelo, ukuthi uzoxhumana kanjani nabanye, ukuthi angakha kanjani umsebenzi wakhe kanye nokuphila ngokubanzi. Yingakho ulwazi mayelana nendlela yokufunda ukukhuluma kahle lufanelekile. Kukhona abantu abazalwa izikhulumi, kodwa wonke umuntu unethuba lokuthuthukisa isipho esinjalo.
Indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma?
Ukuze uzuze umphumela omuhle, udinga ukuqeqeshwa njalo futhi ngokuqinile. Kunezinhlobo eziningi ze-nuances, kodwa kunezici ezimbalwa ezibalulekile, sizoxoxa ngazo.
Indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma nabantu ngokufanele:
- Kubalulekile ukwakha iziphakamiso ngokwethembeka, ukuthi yiziphi izincwadi ezifundwayo noma okungenani omagazini, ngoba yonke imibhalo idlula kulo mhleli, ngakho-ke yakhiwe kahle. Bhala phansi imicabango yakho, ufunde futhi ugcizelele amaphutha. Lo mkhuba uzokwenza ukwazi ukulungisa isimo.
- Ithimba elilandelayo, indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma ngokuhlakanipha - gcwalisa ulwazi lwakho lwamagama . Kule njongo, kuyadingeka futhi ukufunda, kodwa hhayi izincwadi ezivamile, kodwa imisebenzi emincane kakhulu egxile emkhakheni othile. Amagama angcolile "adilize" usebenzisa isichazamazwi esichazayo.
- Uma kunezinkinga zokukhuluma komphakathi, kuzomele uzinakekele kahle. Ukuze uqale, bhala phansi zonke izimpendulo zakho kumakhadi azosiza ukunikeza ulwazi olufanele.
- Ukuqonda indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma nabantu, kuyadingeka ukuthi usho ngamazwi-ama-parasites, okumele akhishwe ekukhulumeni kwabo. Lokhu akusebenzi nje kuphela kolimi olubi, kodwa futhi amagama "okufushane", "ngokujwayelekile", "uhlobo", njll. Ukunquma "izinambuzane" zakho, nje urekhode ingxoxo nomngani noma izihlobo kurekhoda.
Echaza imicabango yakhe, zama ukugcizelela into esemqoka, ngakho-ke umxhumanisi ngeke akhathele ukukhuluma futhi uzokwazi ukuqonda lokho okusemqoka. Lokhu kungase kufundwe ngokubhala imisho bese kukhishwa amagama angadingekile.