Ukwakha umsebenzi nokuziqhenya akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuthola izimfanelo ezithile. Umuntu oqhutshwa kanzima angathuthuka ngesikhathi esifanele, kubalulekile ukuba alwele ukuba umholi . Indlela yokuthuthukisa amakhono obuholi akuyona into elula. Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi kusho ukuthini izici zomholi.
Ubuntu bobuholi
Ngokombono wezengqondo, abaholi banenhloso enenhloso, edidiyelwe abangakwazi ukwenza izinqumo, kodwa ngamabomu, hhayi ngokuzenzekelayo. Bayabathanda abakwazi ukugqugquzela abanye. Zizolile futhi ziqoqwe, hhayi ngokuzikhukhumeza. Ezimweni ezinzima, bayakwazi ukuhlola ngokucophelela isimo sezindaba futhi bathathe ubuholi "bokuphepha". Bakwazi ukulungisa futhi ngokushesha ukuvumelanisa nezimo ezishintshile. Ukuzihlonipha ngokwabo nabanye, abavumeli ukunganaki ekubukeni, ukuziphatha okubi nokuziphatha.
Indlela yokuhlakulela izimfanelo zobuholi?
Ukuthuthukiswa kobuholi kuyinkqubo eyaziwa futhi egxilile. Umsebenzi oqhubekayo uyedwa isimo esibalulekile, ngaphezu kwesifiso sokuba umholi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele ufunde:
- setha imigomo futhi uzuze, udinga ukuqala ngemisebenzi elula, kancane kancane ubacindezele;
- ukuzihlela ngokwakho, kukhona ama-punctures, kodwa lokhu kuyinkinga yesikhashana lapho wena
ungakwazi kalula ukubhekana ngokubonisa isibonelo kwabanye; - ukubhekana namandla amakhulu - ikhono lokuhamba ngokushesha ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu liyisisekelo kubo bonke abaholi;
- ukubuka ukubukeka kwabo - abantu ngeke bahambe ngomuntu ongekho ngokungakhathali, ophelile, ongaphephile;
- ukuthuthukisa njalo - ukugcina okungahambisani nemikhuba emisha, ukuqonda amakhono amasha, ukushintsha kangcono ohlelweni lobuchwepheshe;
- xhumana nabantu, thola "ukhiye" kuwo wonke umuntu.