Ukuze ugweme ingozi, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho yokuziphatha eyenziwa yilowo nalowo muntu. Kodwa-ke, kwenzeka futhi ukuthi ingozi yabangane abasha, ngakho-ke, owesifazane ungcono ukwazi ukuthi ungabona kanjani i-maniac. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuzivikela kubantu abangenalutho ngokwengqondo.
Izimpawu ze-maniac nokuthi ungabona kanjani i-psychopath?
Okokuqala, ake senze ukubhuka okungenakwenzeka ukunquma ekuboneni kuqala ukuthi i-psychopath ihamba phambi kwakho. Ngisho nomqondo wezifo zengqondo onolwazi akakwazi njalo ukutshela ukuthi ubona i-maniac manje, noma ingumuntu nje onamahloni. Kodwa yini okufanelekile ukuyikhumbula yilona lwazi olulandelayo:
- Ukubonakala kwe-psychopath akukwazi ukuhluka nganoma iyiphi indlela kusukela ekubukeni komuntu ovamile. Indlela yokubona i-maniac ekubukeni, akekho owaziyo. Ngokuvamile zibukeka njengabanye abantu, hhayi izingubo, noma uhlobo lwesibalo, noma emehlweni akunakwenzeka ukubona umehluko ocacile ovela kumuntu ovamile.
- Indlela elula ukubona i-psychopath ngokuziphatha kwakhe. Ukungabikho kwemizwelo efana nesithakazelo socansi, imizwelo enobungane, noma ukuthandana nabanye abantu kufanele kusabe. Ngokuvamile ama-psychopath akakwazi ukuzwa imizwa yabantu evamile, kodwa kuphela ukubalingisa. Abaningi bezifo zengqondo baye baphikisana ngokuthi bangayibona kanjani indlela yokuziphatha ngokuziphatha iminyaka eminingi, kodwa kusenalo uhlu olulodwa lwezimpawu. Isici esivamile kuphela ukungabi khona kwemizwelo.
Indlela yokubona i-maniac nge-mail?
Ngokuthuthukiswa kokuxhumana nomphakathi, kwakukhona usongo ukuthi umuntu angabhekana ne-psychopath hhayi kuphela emgwaqeni, kodwa naku- intanethi . Ukugwema lokhu, faka ngokucophelela ulwazi lomuntu siqu kusuka kubantu abangabazi. Ungafaki ukuxhumana nabantu nabantu abangaziwa.
Ukuqaphela i-psychopath ngolwazi kunzima kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, indlela kuphela yokugwema ingozi ukutadisha ngokucophelela abantu obajwayele abasha. Ungabatsheli kakhulu ngawe. Lokhu kuzosiza ukugwema inkinga.