Yiqiniso, ukuthi kukhona abesifazane emhlabeni ababenenhlanhla ngokwanele ukuba bathande uninazala lapho bebona kuqala. Kodwa, maye, azikho eziningi ezinjalo. Into ejwayelekile impi phakathi komalokazana nomkhwekazi. Kodwa ungakwazi ukugwema le mpi uma wazi ukuthi ungayenza kanjani ubuhlobo nomamazala.
- Izolungiswa ukuqonda emhlanganweni wokuqala . Kwenzeka ukuthi intombazane ethile endaweni ejulile yenhliziyo yakhe iyakhathazeka futhi yesaba ukujwayele. Kodwa ungenzi lokhu. Esikhathini se-psychology yobuhlobo noninazala kunconywa ukuba uhlale uqobo futhi ube mqotho. Kumfana osemusha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umkakhe uthande umama wakhe. Ungahluleli uninazala emva kokuqala kokuqala, futhi izenzo zakhe nezinqumo zakhe akufanele zithathwe njengezinzondo. Ngaphambi kokuba uye emhlanganweni, kungcono ukufunda okwengeziwe ngomama womyeni wakho nezintandokazi zakhe.
- Yenza ukuthula endlini . Uma ungena emndenini womunye umuntu, kufanele ubhekane nezinto ezingavamile. Isibonelo, umkhwekazi uthanda ukupheka i-borsch epanini lokuthosa noma ukomisa izingubo zakho zangaphansi ebhetri egumbini elivamile. Kunzima kakhulu ukujwayela izinto ezintsha kanye nale ndlela yokuphila. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi kusezindaweni yayo, futhi hhayi ngokuphambene nalokho, kumane nje ukuthi uninazala ujwayele indlela enjalo yokuphila. Kubalulekile ukubuyisana nokumbonisa inhlonipho yakho.
Indlela yokwenza ubuhlobo nomamazala wakho emva kokuxabana?
Ngokuvamile phakathi komalokazana nomkhwekazi, izimo eziphikisanayo zivela. Ungaba kanjani kulokhu nokuthi kufanele ukwenze uma umamazala wakho enobuhlobo obubi.
Umalokazana kufanele abe nokubekezela nokuhlakanipha , ngakho ukuphikisana njalo nokungavumelani kungabangela ukuhlukaniswa kwabashade ngenxa yomamazala. Kudingekile ukubonisa inhlonipho ngokuhlangenwe nakho komama womlingani, ukumbonga ngokukhuliswa kahle kwendodana yakhe, okwenza impilo ijabule. Ekukhulumisaneni noninazala kunconywa ukuba ungasebenzisi ithoni ekhulisiwe, kodwa ukukhuluma ngokuzethemba nangokuthula.