Isikhathi esingapheli siphuthuma phambili, futhi ngaphambi kokuthi ube nesikhathi sokubukela emuva, ukuthi indodakazi yakho encane iyintombazane kanjani. Kule nkathi ukuthi ubunzima bokukhulumisana nomntanami kuningi omama baqala. Ake sizame ukuthola indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane nendodakazi lapho ekhulile futhi senze ubungane naye, sibe ngumngani omkhulu nomeluleki kunoma yiziphi izindaba zakhe.
Indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane nendodakazi endala?
Iningi labesifazane abazi ukuthi kufanele baziphathe kanjani kahle nendodakazi esebekhulile, ngenxa yalokhu, ukungezwani kuqala ukuphakama, izingxabano ezingakwazi ukuhlukanisa abantu abasondelene kakhulu. Ukulalela amathiphu alandelayo, ungaba abangane beqiniso nendodakazi yakho:
- Ungalokothi ulalele indodakazi yakho uma yenza okuthile okungalungile, nje ngomusa ukhumbule ukuthi uyifisa okuhle, futhi kungaba ngcono ukukwenza njengoba uyeluleka.
- Yiba ngowokusekelwa yindodakazi nokusekelwa ezimweni ezinzima kuye. Ungahlali ungenandaba nezinkinga zakhe, okubona ngombono wakho oyisiphukuphuku futhi ongafanelwe nakho.
- Uma ubona ukuhlukumeza kwengxenye yakho yendodakazi yakho kuwe, ungaphenduli ngendlela efanayo, bonisa ukuvimbela, khuluma ngokuthula, zama ukuthola ukuthi yini ebangelwa lokhu kuphendulwa kwengxenye yentombazane.
- Ungalokothi uhlukumeze ingane yakho nabantu abangabazi, ngakho-ke awuhlaziyi nje indodakazi yakho kuphela, kodwa wena ngokwakho.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi ucabangela umbono wendodakazi yakho, kufanele wazi ukuthi unayo futhi ulalele iseluleko sakhe.
- Uma unecala lokuthile, qiniseka ukuxolisa nokuvuma iphutha lakho.
- Khuluma naye ngokulingana okulinganayo, njengowesifazane nowesifazane, lokhu kuzokusiza ukuqala ubudlelwane nendodakazi yakhe, ngoba uzobona umngane kuwe futhi uzoqhubeka nokuhlangana.