Lapho indoda ishiya umndeni, omama abaningi baqala ukufuna imbangela yokuphumula phakathi kwabo futhi bahlanganyele ekutheni babekwe eceleni. Yiqiniso, ukuhlaziya ubuhlobo bakho, ukufuna amaphutha kubo nokuzama ukuyilungisa, yinto enhle, okuyiyo, cishe, ezosetshenziswa. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokucela umuntu ukuba abuyele, embonise ngezithembiso, udinga ukumisa isikhashana futhi ulinde imizwelo yokunciphisa. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kungcono ukungabiza umuntu, hhayi ukubuka imihlangano futhi ungazikhumbuzi ngokwakho. Mhlawumbe umyeni maduzane uzomuzwa ukuthi uyamkhumbula ngempela umkakhe futhi uyamthanda, futhi ukuhoxiswa kwakhe okwesikhashana kuyisifiso esilula sokuphumula empilweni yansuku zonke, ukungaqondani noma izingxabano. Kodwa uma lokhu kungenzeki, kuzomele uzame ukuyibuyisela.
Kuthiwani uma indoda ishiya umndeni?
Ngakho okokuqala, ake sikhulume ngalokho okungafanele ukwenze:
- becela lo muntu ukuba abuyele;
- bhala, bhala, nikhale phambi kwakhe;
- Zama ukuphazamisa wena ngosizo lwamanoveli amasha.
Njengoba kuzothatha isikhashana ngemuva kokuhlukanisa, udinga ukubuza umyeni wakho ngomhlangano. Kubalulekile ukuba owesifazane amlungiselele hhayi nje ngaphandle, kodwa futhi abe nesimo sengqondo esifanele sengqondo. Ukulondoloza ukuzola nokuzithiba kungukuthi, kubalulekile, njengoba ukudabuka nezinyembezi kungesabisa noma ubani. Mhlawumbe, kuyadingeka ukushintsha isithombe: ukwakheka okusha, i-hairdress, ushintsho lwe-wardrobe. Konke lokhu kungabangela isithakazelo somuntu. Okulandelayo, ake sikhulume ngokuthi singabuyisela kanjani umyeni owashiya:
- Tshela umyeni wakho ngemizwa yakho. Ngaphandle kobuzenzisi, i-finesse ne-insincerity.
- Sixolise ngokuziphatha kwakho uma kungahlangabezane nemibono yendoda ngomfazi omuhle.
- Buza oshade naye ukuba anikeze elinye ithuba lokulondoloza umndeni.
Umyeni wami waya enkosikazi yakhe - ukuthi angabuya kanjani?
Uma umyeni eya komunye owesifazane, ke into ayengayithandi emndenini wakhe. Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, amadoda awashiyi lapho ekhululekile khona. Mhlawumbe izikhalazo ezihlala njalo, ukuhlambalaza, ukuhlambalaza kwamqhubela esinyathelweni esinjalo. Yiqiniso, akekho owehlulela indoda kulokhu. Kodwa, uma umfazi enemizwa eqinile ngaye, kufanele uzame ukuyibuyisela nazo zonke izindlela ezitholakalayo.
Buyisela umyeni owaya kwelinye, ungenza, umenze abe nomhawu , ngoba noma yimuphi umuntu ungumnikazi, futhi ukubona ngisho nowesifazane owake wazungezwa abathandi abangase bangamjabulisi. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzothatha izinyathelo zokuthola indawo yomkakhe.
Zama ukuba umngane womlingani wakho. Thola izithakazelo ezivamile, zisekele. Kodwa akukho mbuzo ongaphenduli kabi kumngane wakhe omusha. Indoda ayikwazi ukuthethelela lokhu. Umhlangano ngamunye kufanele ugcwalise kalula. Ungazami ukumenza azizwe
Indoda iya kwenye - yini okufanele yenze?
Kubaluleke kakhulu kule nkathi ukungabi nesibindi, ukuphakamisa ukuzethemba kwakho futhi uqhubeke ujabulela ukuphila. Zizinakekele, ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu nokomoya, ukubukeka kwakho, izingane. Dive emsebenzini ukuze uphazamise. Abantu abajwayele ukujwayela, ukuqonda ezinye izisebenzi, ukuhamba-yilokho okuzokwenza kube nomphumela omuhle ekubukeni nasekuziphatheni komuntu wesifazane. Uma umyeni engakwazi ukubuyela, mthande futhi umvumele ahambe. Khumbula njalo ukuthi ngeke uphoqele uthando.