Ngokujwayelekile isikhungo somshado yimbhangqwana esanda kushada, futhi ngokuqinisekile lokhu kunjalo. Kodwa kunezinye izinhlamvu ezibalulekile, ezihambisana nemikhuba yendabuko yomshado. Lesi sihloko sizogxila endimeni edlalwa nguyise womakoti emshadweni.
Ngisho nomshado wesimanje kuncike emasikweni amade. Futhi, nazo, zakhiwa izimo eziphilayo zokhokho bethu. Abesifazane ngaleso sikhathi bavikelwa ngamadoda yonke impilo yabo. Kwakukhona emshadweni ubaba wakhe wanika indodakazi yakhe indodakazi yakhe, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo wamnika umthwalo wokumvikela futhi amnakekele. Kuze kube manje, abantu abasha bacela "isandla sendodakazi yakho" kubazali babo. Leli gama livela ekudlulisweni kwentombazane - ubaba uhola umakoti e-altare, bese efaka isandla sakhe esandleni somkhwenyana.
UDancing of the bride and father
Umzuzu oshukumisayo kakhulu wokugubha umdanso womakoti noyise wakhe. Izingane ezincane zethenda ziye zaba intombazane endala enhle. Ngemuva kwakhe - iminyaka eminingi yobuntwana, ngenxa yakhe - inzala. Kodwa ngalesosikhathi abantu abadala ababili babukana. Umdanso womshado womakoti nobaba wenza kube lula ukuthi bobabili bazizwe ukuthi isikhathi sesifikile sokuba nobuhlobo obuhlukile.
Amahora, lapho umakoti edansa noyise, abe umhlobiso womshado. Umsindo ozwakalayo uphela imizuzu embalwa, ngamunye kulabo abakhona ukhumbula izikhathi ezithintekayo ezimpilweni zabo. Ukuhlela umdanso womakoti noyise, ingoma efanelekayo kufanele ikhethwe kanye nomdanso owenziwa. Izingoma zolimi lwesiRashiya ezithandwa kakhulu:
- "Indodakazi" eyenziwe nguJoseph Kobzon;
- "Mema uyihlo emdanseni omhlophe" ngu-Igor Demarin;
- "Abantu bomdabu" okwenziwa ngu-Diana Gurtskaya noJoseph Kobzon.
I-choreographer yomshado izokwengeza futhi ukuthintana nalesi senzo. Ngomsizi wakhe, umdanso uzobukeka njengezindaba eziphelile, futhi, nakakhulu, kuningi okuhlaba umxhwele izivakashi futhi kuzokukhunjulwa ngabahlanganyeli.
Inkulumo kayise womakoti emshadweni
Ngokuvamile amapapa ajabule kakhulu ngesidingo sokugcina inkulumo phambi kwezivakashi. Lesi isignali ukuthi nje udinga ukulungiselela kusengaphambili, bese ukusebenza kukababa kuyoba yisikhathi esingakhunjulwa somkhosi womshado.
Yikuphi ukucatshangelwa okufanele kusekelwe ekulungiselelweni kwamazwi kayise womakoti:
- ukubonga labo abakhona ngenhlonipho;
- khumbula umzuzu othakazelisayo noma owusizo ovela kumntwana wesifazane;
- tshela imizwa kayise - ukuziqhenya, ukuzwela, indlela ukuguqula ngayo impilo noma umlingiswa ukuze kube ngcono;
- tshela mayelana nomuntu owaziyo nomkhwenyana kanye nemizwa yakhe ngaye - uma kunjalo. Uma kungenjalo, kungcono ukuthula ngathi;
- ukuveza labo abasanda kushada izifiso zikayise.
Kuyoba kuhle uma inkulumo yomshado kababa womakoti izoba nokubhekisela kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe - uma umshado womzali ungazange uhlakazeke,
Naphezu kweminyaka ekhulile kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okujabulisayo, umshado wendodakazi ungaba luvivinyo olunzima lokuba nesibindi sikababa. Izinguquko ezibalulekile ekupheleni kwengane ethandekayo, isidingo sokugcina inkulumo ngaphansi kokubheka izivakashi - konke lokhu kungafaka ukungabaza emsebenzini ophumelelayo. Kunezinye izimo. Isibonelo, inamba enkulu yezintambo ngaphambi kwenkulumo kayise. Kunoma yikuphi, inkulumo egameni likababa ingaphathiswa kumalume noma umfowabo womakoti.
Yiqiniso, ubuhlobo bendodakazi nobaba abuphazanyiswa ngemuva kokudala umndeni wakhe. Ngaphambi kweminyaka eminye eminingi, ubudlelwane obusondelene namanje buyasetshenzwa ngabahlanganyeli abasha, abancane. Futhi mayelana nomzuzwana omangalisa futhi othinta inhliziyo uyofana nezithombe zomshado.