Umshado womshado, ovivinywe iminyaka, ungabizwa unamandla futhi unokwethenjelwa. Sekufinyeleleke ekupheleni kwamashumi eminyaka okuhlala ndawonye, ubuhlobo phakathi kwalabo abashadile buba namandla futhi bungenakuqhathaniswa, ngakho bafaniswa nensimbi eshisayo, futhi umshado ubizwa ngokuthi insimbi.
Ukucabanga ngombuzo - kungakanani iminyaka edingekayo ukuba siphile ngezandla ukugubha umshado wensimbi, impendulo ingenye yeminyaka engu-65. Kule nkathi ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi akusekho ukuphulwa, izinhliziyo zothando "zikhule" kakhulu. Kule minyaka ende kangaka abashadile babhekana nobunzima nezinkinga eziningi, kepha ubudlelwane babo buqinisiwe kuphela, bafunda ukusekela nokunakekelwa, ngakho-ke isimo semindeni yabo sinokukhuthazela kwensimbi.
Ngenxa yokuphila okufishane, imibhangqwana embalwa kuphela igubha lolu suku oluphawulekayo. Ngakho-ke, uma injabulo enjalo iwela emndenini wakho, bese uhlela umkhosi ongakhohlwayo, ozinikezele ekugubheni umshado kagogo nomkhulu wakho.
Cabanga ukuthi ukuguga kweJubane ngeke kusivumele ukuba sihlele iqembu elimnandi, kodwa umkhosi omkhulu uzokwamukeleka kakhulu. Qinisekisa ukumema bonke abantwana, abazukulu, abazukulukazi futhi uma kukhona abazukulu kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekile kuyoba nemindeni evela esizukulwaneni sokugcina esizohlangana okokuqala ngqa. Imihlangano enjalo engokomoya efudumele iyadingeka kubantu asebekhulile kanye nabantu abasha, ngoba lokhu kuyisibonelo esiphelele kwabesilisa nabesifazane abasencane emndenini omuhle. Njengoba ebheke asebekhulile, kodwa ejabule kakhulu okhokho babo, lo musha uzofunda ukuqonda uthando nokuhlonipha, aqonde ukuthi impilo akufanele ilahlekelwe imizwa ephuthumayo, kodwa kungcono ukudala nokugcina umunye ohlala njalo.
Ucabanga ukuthi sekuyiminyaka engakanani abantu "abasanda kushada" begubha umshado wensimbi, kanti le minyaka iyineminyaka engaba ngu-85-90, izenzakalo ezimnandi zisebenza kangcono ekhaya noma ensimini. Into esemqoka kulo mkhosi ukuhlonishwa kanye nenkokhelo kubokhokho bethu - kubalulekile ukudala isimo sokufudumala nokududuza umlobokazi nomkhwenyana ohlonishwayo.
Thola kusengaphambili mayelana nezifiso zejubili, babuze - mhlawumbe ugogo uzofuna ukugqoka isigqoko sakhe somshado, kaningi akutholakali ukuthola egumbini eliseceleni kwezemidlalo, ngoba abantu baleso sizukulwane bahlukaniswa ngukungcoliswa, futhi umkhulu, mhlawumbe, amaphupho okubhema ugwayi noma ukuzama inqwaba ye-rum. Lezi zithunjwa zalabo "abasanda kushada" kumele zigcwaliseke kuqala.
Yini ongayinika umshado wensimbi?
Yiqiniso, isipho esiyinhloko sonyaka wejubili sizoqaphelwa kuzo zonke izizukulwane. Ngokuvamile abantu asebekhulile abanakekelwa ngokwanele kubantu abasondelene nabo, kumnandi kakhulu ukubona abalandeli abancane kakhulu bomndeni. Bambalwa abantu abanethuba elingavamile lokuqonda abazukulu, ukuba babhale nabo esithombeni.
Njengesipho sokukhumbula umshado wensimbi, noma yimiphi imikhiqizo equkethe insimbi izokwenza. Isikhumbuzo esihle kakhulu esingasoze sikhumbule siyoba ngamahhashi aqoshiwe noma isitembu sensimbi esibonisa umbhangqwana okhukhulayo.
Abaningi banikeza amafreyimu ezithombe zensimbi, ngekhono abhale ngesandla wizard. Esikhathini sohlaka lwesithombe kufaneleka kakhulu ukufaka isithombe esingavamile sonyaka wejubili, isibonelo, ikholaji eyenziwe kusukela ezithombeni zezikhathi ezihlukahlukene zokuphila nezigaba
Abantu abasha asebekhulile kanye nomuthi womndeni owadalwa. Isipho esinjalo kufanele silungiselelwe usuku olulodwa, kuzodinga isikhathi esiningi nokusebenza kanzima, kodwa umphumela uzojabulisa zonke izihlobo.
Isipho esihle kakhulu kubantu asebekhulile emcimbini wabo owufanelekile uzoba isithombe umdwebi angabhala ngesithombe ukuze angabi naso isikhathi eside. Lesi sithombe singafakwa ngefreyimu yensimbi eqoshiwe.