Uyakhumbula ukuthi kunzima kanjani lobu buhlobo? Ukusanhlamvu kwakhula kanjani ngokusanhlamvu, ngabe isigaba se "candy-bouquet" sasiqala kanjani, sazi kanjani isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, usuku nosuku, umhlangano emva komhlangano? Futhi manje, lokhu sekuphenduke ukungafuni ukubuhlungu ukubona noma ukuzwa okukodwa okuthandwa nguwe ... Ngaphakathi kwecala akucaci, njengoba sekuvele futhi ngenxa yalokho, akasazi ngesinqumo sakho. Khona-ke, mhlawumbe, umuzwa wakho wecala ngempela uyisihlamba isikhathi esichithwa sichitha.
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Ukulwa nomqondo wecala, ukuhlazeka, ukuzisola, ubuhlungu, sizobe sesinye isikhathi. Futhi manje ake siye emabhizinisini ngokuqondile: ukuthi ungasho kanjani ukuthi usuvele unqume konke okwenziwe wena futhi akekho ozoshintsha izingxabano zakho, izicelo, iziphakamiso.
- Ngokwesaba kakhulu - ama-sms ahlukana. Konke kuncike eminyakeni yakho kanye nesipiliyoni, ngoba uma lokhu kungukuqala kokuhlukanisa empilweni, mhlawumbe kungcono nakakhulu. Umonakalo we-sms-farewells ukuthi lokhu ukuhlukanisa akuyona kokugcina kuwe nakwaye. Ngokushesha ngemva kokuphulwa kwesenzo, cishe wonke umuntu uyazisola. Uzoqala ukukholelwa ukuthi uma uhlangana, ungakwazi konke ukuphinda ubuyekeze, ngoba kwakuwumyalezo wombhalo kuphela. Awukwazi ukwenza lokhu ukuze uhlukanise: ushiye, hamba kuze kube phakade. Senze isinqumo, sithatha isinyathelo ngesimo sokuthumela umlayezo (ngisho noma ungesona oshayayo) - uya ekugcineni futhi uthathe umthwalo wesenzo sakho.
- Amanethiwekhi omphakathi - ecatshangelwa ukuthi uthando luba lukhulu, futhi obajwayele kanye nokunye okuningi bazalwa esikhaleni se-inthanethi, "bathandana" ku-facebook / facebook / twitter, singavumela ukuhlukanisa ngokwemithetho yemiphakathi yangempela. Umlayezo omfushane nowomile noma incwadi ende neyomzimba enolwazi lwawo wonke amaphutha ayo - akunandaba ukuthi yini oyikhethayo, okubaluleke kakhulu, ngaphandle kokulinda impendulo nokuqhubeka nokuxhumana, thumela umthandi wakho ohlwini lwabagaxekile.
- Kubathandi be-classic, uma ungumlingani wamaveli kaDumas futhi uhlala kakhulu enkampanini ye-bourgeois eFrance yekhulu leshumi nesishiyagalolunye, into yokuqala engangena engqondweni yakho yileligama elide lokuhlaziya eliphethe iphepha eliphakeme futhi elimnandi, elibhalwa ngepeni. Yebo, uma kusesitayela sakho, unakekele imvilophu enamandla, futhi uma umdlalo wokuhlukanisa ungemva, khumbula izenzo zakho, njengesiqephu seveli.
- Ngeke ukwazi ukuphoqa ukuba uhlanganyele - yenza kanjalo ukuthi bafuna ukuhlukanisa nawe. Mhlawumbe unentombi engayifunayo engayifuni? Uhlelo lukhohlisayo futhi intombazane kuzodingeka ikwazise ngezinhloso zakho, kodwa ngeke kube buhlungu kakhulu uma wonke umuntu eyowina?
- Uma ungenalo amandla okusho, konke kunjalo, kodwa kukhona ukubekezela ukuhola umdlalo kancane kancane, yenza konke ukuyeka ukukuthanda. Okokuqala, qala ukudumisa izimfanelo zesincintisana nesoka lakho. Amadoda ayithandi ngempela ukufanisa.
- Khuluma "ngezifo" zakho - lezo zinyama ziyawa, isikhumba siyakhuphuka, amathambo asuke, amakhiwe enhliziyo, njll. Uma i-ex yakho yesikhathi esizayo engeyona udokotela onamandla, ngeke afune ukuhlaziya ne "dohchetz".
- Ukuphazamisa konke okuncoma kwakhe, lokhu kuzomcasula, futhi akulula ukuba usebenzise lelikhono lemvelo labesifazane. Uma uMCH ethi uhle kakhulu namuhla, cindezela futhi uhambe - "Kuvela, ngokuvamile angiyena omuhle!".
- Late njalo futhi yonke indawo. Ungakwazi ukukuthola kalula, kodwa ngokushesha uzokhathala.
- Thola ukuthi ubani othanda isisulu sakho - uhlakaniphile noma ucebile. Yiba ngokuphambene nezintandokazi zakhe futhi uma ethandana nabancane abancane, bathathe into ethile yesayense bese bephinda i-monologue kusihlwa. Kusasa ngeke ubizwe.
- Ekugcineni, yisho nje njengoba kunjalo. Ungesabi, lokhu kuyisinyathelo esinokwethenjelwa, kodwa akulungile ukukhohlisa izinhloko zomunye nomunye. Uma ngabe, uma nje isoka liyinganekwane, uzoqonda konke, ayamukele futhi akuhloniphe ngesenzo. Futhi uma unenhlanhla ngokwanele ukuhlangabezana ne-psychopath noma nje umuntu onomdlandla kakhulu, hlela umhlangano ngezivumelwane endaweni egcwele kakhulu. Khona-ke uzosindiswa emalangabi entukuthelo.