Umsebenzi wesifazane uyinkimbinkimbi: akudingeki nje ukuba abe ngumama wendlu omuhle, kodwa futhi ukwazi imfihlo yokuthi ungathanda kanjani umyeni wakhe. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho abashade bahamba ngosuku lomshado , lo mshikashika obhekene nalokhu. Kodwa-ke, ukuziphatha komsebenzi kubonisa ukuthi uyanquma ngempumelelo uma kungowesifazane oqaphela isidingo sokuhlala esithandweni somyeni wakhe, okuwukuphela kwakhe nokufunwa.
Ungaba kanjani efiselekayo kumyeni wami futhi?
Okokuqala, ngokumangalisa, zithanda wena. Yebo, yebo, nguwe ngokwakho. Khumbula ukuthi ngesikhathi sokugcina othungile noma uzithengele okuthile okusha, wenza i-hairstyle enhle, wayenomyeni wakhe esitolo sokudlela noma e-cafe? Awubakhumbuli? Bese sibhala futhi sifeze uhlelo.
Zibuke esibukweni bese uphendula ngokuthembeka: Uyakuthanda wena? Uma izimpendulo zithi "Cha" noma "Angazi," cabanga ngakho, uma ungazithandi ngempela, kungani kufanele uthande umyeni wakho ngendlela oyiyo manje? Ngakho - ngenxa yalokho:
- senza i-audit ye wardrobe futhi siyeke ukugqoka "izinto ezinhle", ezithengwa eminyakeni engu-3-10 edlule;
- hamba kumuntu wezinwele bese wenza ikhanda lezimfashini, ucabanga ukuthi ungaba kanjani umkhwenyana kakhulu kumyeni;
- Sithenga izingubo zangaphansi ezinhle;
- susa ingubo eboshiwe kanye nama-slippers egumbini elidala, ngoba ngisho nasekhaya kufanele ulungiswe kahle futhi ukhangele;
- Uma sithumele izingane lapho sivakashele, sizohlela isidlo sothando "ngamabili": usakhumbula ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani? Kodwa-ke, ukuze kusihlwa, ukulungiselela ngokucophelela le ndoda, ukuze ungadangali futhi udideke ngenxa yokusabela kwakhe okungalindelekile.
Vumela lokhu kusihlwa kube kuphela kuwe, kuvuselelwe, kuvuselelwe, futhi kumngane wakho womshado, ukubuka ngokumangalisayo umkakhe othandekayo nomfazi oyifunayo. Ungesabi ukubuyela iminyaka eminingana (noma amashumi eminyaka) emuva: lokhu kubuya kungaba mnandi kakhulu futhi kuzoxazulula kalula inkinga yokuthi ingaba kanjani ngokocansi futhi efiselekayo.