Umbuzo wokuthi kungani indoda engafuni umfazi ekucwaningweni kwengqondo kuvamile. Abesifazane abaningi bajwayele umuzwa uma ufuna uthando nothando, kepha umyeni akasheshi ukujabulisa othandekayo wakhe. Ikakhulukazi lesi sihloko sivame ukuxoxwa phakathi kwabesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nangemva kokubeletha.
Kungani umyeni wakhe engafuni umfazi okhulelwe?
Ukukhulelwa kuyisikhathi esihle kuwo wonke owesifazane. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi owesifazane uyashintsha, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo isimo sakhe sengqondo siyashintsha. Udinga ukunakekelwa okungaphezulu nokuthandwa, futhi kudingeka abe nomuzwa wokuthi wamukelekile kumyeni wakhe, naphezu kokushintsha amafomu akhe. Kulokhu, kwabesifazane abaningi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, umbuzo othi kungani umyeni eyekile ukufuna umfazi uhlala ufanelekile.
Nokho, le ndoda nayo izwa imizwa ethile nemizwelo ethile. Ngokushesha uzodingeka abe ngubaba, okusho ukuthi mayelana nokubuyiswa kabusha, kubalulekile ukusebenzela okuningi ukuhlinzeka umndeni. Ukukhathala ngokweqile emsebenzini kungaba isizathu sokungafuni komyeni ukwenza uthando nomkakhe. Futhi phakathi kwamadoda, ngokuvamile kunesimo sokwesaba ukulimaza umkakho noma umntwana ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi.
Ezingqondweni, ungathola amathiphu amaningi ukuthi kungani indoda engafuni umfazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Awudingi ukukhathazeka ngalokhu futhi uzenzele ukuqagela. Kumele ukhulume nomlingani wakho futhi uthole isizathu esiyiqiniso sokuntuleka kwesifiso socansi.
Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ukusondelana obuseduze ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akubanga imbangela, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho kuzoba usizo. Emva kwakho konke, uma umama wakho ejabule kuyo, khona-ke umntwana uzozizwa enhle futhi. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kusebenza kuphela uma kungekho ukuphikiswa kwezokwelapha.
Izizathu zokuthi kungani indoda ingathandi umfazi emva kokubeletha
Ngemuva kokubeletha, imibhangqwana iphinde ibone ukwehla kokusebenza ngokocansi. Lokhu kwenzeka ngoba iningi lokunakwa likhokhwa ingane.
Lapho umndeni omusha uhlala nabazali bawo, umntwana usegumbini labo, futhi abanakho indawo yokuthatha umhlalaphansi, lokhu kungathinta futhi imvamisa kanye nobude bokuthandana ngokobulili.
Ukugcwaliswa kabusha emndenini kuyisenzakalo esimangalisayo empilweni yabashadile, nakuba kunezinkinga nezinkinga ezikuyo. Izazi zengqondo zincoma ngalesi sikhathi ukuba zilalelisise futhi zihloniphe imizwa yomlingani. Kunoma yikuphi, ungafihli izikhalo zakho, kodwa uxoxe nomlingani wakho lokho okujabulisa.