Usuku lomshado yilusuku olulinde kakhulu kunazo zonke amantombazane amaningi. Wonke amalungiselelo, ukulindela, ukushintshaniswa kwamasongo kanye nosuku lomshado oqhakazile kubangele ukuzwa okuthakazelisayo ngabantu abashadile abazayo. Uma imibhalo kanye nepasipoti entsha yamukelwa emva komshado, owesifazane uqala kancane kancane ukuqaphela ukuthi ushintsho olukhulu luye lwafika empilweni yakhe. Kanye nalokhu kuvame ukubuza umbuzo: "Yini okufanele uyenze ngemuva komshado?". Abashadikazi abaningi banesithakazelo sokuthi impilo iyashintsha kanjani ngaphambi nangemva komshado.
Ngeshwa, ngokuvamile, inyanga ngemva komshado, ukudumazeka kokuqala kuza. Ngemuva kwesimiso sobusuku nobusuku bokuqala ngemva komshado, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza njalo. Abesifazane abaningi, abanomyeni wabo ozayo abahlotshaniswa nesithombe senkosi enhle nokuphelela, ababonanga kalula izinguquko ezinkulu ekuphileni kwabo.
Njengomthetho, inyanga emva komshado, impilo yabathandi ishintsha - izici ezifihliwe ngaphambili zomlingiswa, imikhuba, nokuzilibazisa ziqala ukubonakala. Lokhu konke akufanele kuhambisane nemibono yabesifazane yokuphila komndeni. Indoda emva komshado ingashintsha ngokuphawulekayo emehlweni owesifazane - uyaphela ekujabuliseni, kodwa esondela, ekwazi ukwabelana hhayi injabulo kuphela, kodwa nokugula. Ngalesi sikhathi kufika ukuguquka - isikhathi sokuqwashisa okugcwele komunye nomunye, umqondo wemfanelo nokuzinza. Lezi zinguquko zinganciphisa imizwa yothando olucacile komunye nomunye. Ukuze ulondoloze uthando emva komshado futhi wenze luqine futhi lube namandla, kudingekile ukuthi usebenze futhi usebenze bobabili bomshado. Abanikazi bezinyosi kufanele bafunde ukuqonda, ukunakekelwa, ukuzwelana nokulalela. Eqinisweni, kubonakala kube nzima nakakhulu kunamazwi. Ukwakha impilo evamile kungaba nzima, kodwa emva kokuhamba kuzo zonke izigaba ubuhlobo ngemva komshado, inyunyana yomndeni iba namandla.
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Kunomthetho owodwa olula - emva kwesikhathi esithile, umbhangqwana oshadile ngamunye, ngisho nethando ngothando, kusuka ebuhlotsheni obuseduze kuya ekuthuleni kakhudlwana futhi kulinganiswa. Abantu abasanda kushada kufanele bangesabi lokhu, kubalulekile ukwamukela nokuqonda zonke izigaba zobudlelwane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyini. Umsebenzi oyinhloko kuwo wonke owesifazane ukuletha imfudumalo nokududuza emndenini futhi unake kakhulu umyeni wakhe. Ngokwemvelo, akufanele sikhohlwe thina.
Ukuhlakanipha kwabantu kusho - awukwazi ukudumala ngaphandle kokuthakazelisa. Uma owesifazane ethola umyeni wakhe omusha isiqephu seziphambeko emva komshado, kusho ukuthi wadala isithombe futhi akazange amukele iqiniso njengoba ekhona. Uma uphelele kakhulu okhethiwe, ukudumazeka okulindelekile kakhulu ekuphileni ngemva komshado. Kulesi simo, umkakhe noma umyeni wakhe akulula. Owesifazane uyeka ukubona isithunzi somyeni wakhe futhi uqala ukumhlupha ngokuthukuthela nokuhlambalaza. Indoda, nayo, ayikwazi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ubuhlobo buguqulwe ngemuva komshado? Izinyunyana ezinjalo ngokuvamile zibuthakathaka kakhulu futhi ziphela
Lapho sinikeza ngokwengeziwe, sithola okuningi. Lo mthetho odumile usebenza empilweni yomndeni. Ngokubonisa ukubekezela nokuqonda, wonke owesifazane angalindela kulowo oshade naye. Kodwa intukuthelo, intukuthelo noma intukuthelo kubangela imizwa efanayo esifundeni sethu sesibili. Uma uthatha umyeni wakho njengoba ekhona futhi umnike umuzwa wothando, naphezu kokushiyeka kwakhe konke, owesifazane udala imizwelo yomqondo emphefumulweni womyeni wakhe.
Gcina uthando ngemuva komshado wabantu ababili abanothando ngobuqotho, into esemqoka ukubekezela nokuthembela, uthando, ukuhlonipha nokuhloniphana.