Abazali bakaNkulunkulu

Ubhapathizo luvela ebuntwaneni futhi, ekhula, abantu abakhumbuli kakade, njengoba kwenzeka. Kodwa ngelinye ilanga sinomntwana noma isimemo sokuba yamukeli. Kulezi zimo, ulwazi lokuthi kungani omazi-nkulunkulu abadinga futhi ukuthi bakhethwa kanjani kungaba usizo kakhulu.

Isiko lokuqoka abakwa-godparents sabuyela esikhathini esedlule. Izikhathi ezihlukumezayo nokufa kwabantu abaningi, bephoqeleka ukuba babheke abantu abangakwazi ukuthatha umthwalo wengane uma kwenzeka kwenzeka inhlekelele. Indima eyinhloko ka-godfather kwakuzoholela ekuphileni kwe-godson yesikhathi esizayo - wamtshela amasakramente, wafundisa ukuzinikela nokholo.

Kwabaningi, namuhla indima ka-godfather iyancishiswa kuphela ekubeni khona lapho ubhapathizwa, bambalwa kakhulu abantu basize ukufundisa godson wabo. Unkulunkulukazi weqiniso angaba ngumngane we-Orthodox wengane, umuntu onokwethenjelwa ngumfana osemusha ocela iseluleko futhi angacela usizo - yilokho onkulunkulukazi abakhona.

Izidingo zabazali bakaNkulunkulu:

  1. Ama-Perceptors angabelwa abantu abanengqondo kusukela enkathini yobudala kuya ekugugeni. Kodwa-ke, kunesiko esingabonakali sokukhetha abakwa-godfather abaneminyaka engaphansi kweminyaka kunomama nabomama. Lesi simo sichazwa ukuthi uma abazali begazi bengayigcini imisebenzi yomzali, badlulisela kubafundisi abangokomoya bengane.
  2. Umuntu obhapathiziwe we-Orthodox kuphela okufanele abe nguNkulunkulu ofuna ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo yalo mntwana.
  3. Elinye ilanga alinalo unkulunkulu nomyeni nomfazi nabantu abazoshada. Kubhekwa njengesono esikhulu uma laba bantu bashada noma beba nezindaba zangaphandle.
  4. Kuvunyelwe ukuba ne-godparent eyodwa, kodwa kufanele abe ne-godson yecansi eyodwa.
  5. Othandana noNkulunkulu kufanele bazi ukuthi abacebisi umuntu oyedwa ukuba abe nguyise kubantwana abaningana, kufaka phakathi amawele, ngoba umkhosi wobhapathizo usho ukutholwa kwengane kusuka efonini, futhi kunzima ukuyenza nezingane ezimbili.
  6. Abazali bavinjelwe ukuba babe onkulunkulu bezingane zabo.
  7. Akuvumelekile ukubhapathiza ingane kubesifazane ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini.
  8. Kuyinto enqatshelwe ukuthi uyise wesilisa abe ngumkhulukazi.
  9. Ungabizi ukuthi unkulunkulukazi unjengobuqili nabangcolile.

Ekukhetheni unkulunkulukazi, kungcono ukhethe abantu onabangane bakho obuhle, abavakashelayo ekhaya, futhi kubalulekile nokuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bazokwazi ukukusiza ekukhulisweni kobuKristu benzalo nasezimpilweni zokuphila.

Imisebenzi yama-Godparents:

  1. Fundisa izinto eziyisisekelo zokholo lobuKristu benkulunkuluson.
  2. Ngesibonelo somuntu siqu, fundisa izimfanelo zomuntu ezinganeni: isihe, uthando, umusa, njll, ukukhulisa umKristu omuhle emntwaneni. Othandana nabo banomthwalo omkhulu - kuxhomeke kubo, uhlobo luni lomuntu ozoba ngu-godson.
  3. U-godfather kumele athandazele isigceme sakhe, futhi amfundise umthandazo lapho ekhula kancane.
  4. Phakathi nomkhosi weSigamente, u-godfather (womuntu oyedwa ocansini nomntwana) ubamba umntwana futhi ukhulume ngenxa yeCreed, izifungo zokulahlwa nguDeveli kanye nobudlelwane noKristu, ngakho-ke into yokuqala okuyiyo oyithandana nabo okufanele bazi ngayo imithandazo eyinhloko: "Intombi yaseVirgo", "Uphawu" ukholo, "" Vumela uNkulunkulu avuke ... "," Baba wethu, "njalo ufunda i-Psalter, iVangeli. Futhi, abamukeli kumele bagqoke isiphambano futhi bakwazi ukuzibeka isiphambano.

Abaningi abazi ukuthi onkulunkulukazi banikwa izipho. Isethulo esihle kuyoba into ephathelene nesigramente sokubhapathizwa, ukwakheka okunye okubonakalayo noma isithombe esibhalwe ngobukhulu besithombe. Kuyinto evamile ukunikeza izingubo ezifudumele: izikhwama, ama-shawls, ama-sweaters.

Hamba nomthwalo wemfanelo ekukhethweni kwabazali bakaNkulunkulu, ngoba ukhetha abantu abangathonya impilo yesikhathi esizayo yenzalo yakho. Emva kwakho konke, ingane ijwayele ukutshela ubaba ukuthi yini abazali bakhe abangayizi igazi.