Isikhathi asizange siphele ngokuphelele lapho umndeni ucatshangwa wadalwa ngemuva kokubhaliswa okusemthethweni ehhovisi lokubhalisa kanye nomshado esontweni. Kancane kancane, umkhuba womshado waqala ukuhamba ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke. Futhi namuhla ukubhalisa kakade futhi okusemthethweni akukhona ekuboneni. Imindeni eminingi, hhayi abantu abasha kuphela, kubheka njengokwanele ukuhlala ndawonye futhi uqhube umndeni ohlangene ukuze kuthiwa ungumndeni.
Umshado womshado - ngokumelene nokuphikisana
Isiko somshado womphakathi esiwuthathe kubantu baseDutch. Ngaphambi kukaNkulunkulu, abantu bezinkolo ezahlukene abakwazi ukuzibopha kubantu ngezizathu ezithile. Imindeni enjalo yadalwa ngokuvunyelwa kweziphathimandla. Namuhla, ngomshado womphakathi, sisho imishado, ngaphandle kwemigomo. Isimo sengqondo somshado womphakathi siyinkimbinkimbi, kokubili phakathi kwengqondo kwengqondo naphakathi kwabantu abavamile. Ngokuqondene nomshado womphakathi, amadoda athambekele ekuthambekeni kakhudlwana. Ukuzimela kwakhe, ngisho noma kuphakanyiswa, lo muntu uzama ukugcina kuze kube sekugcineni. Abesifazane bajwayele ukuzinza nokuthembeka. Futhi iningi labantu liyavuma ukukhululeka ubudlelwane ukuze kugcinwe othandekayo eduze kwabo. Nakuba okungafani kuyo yonke indawo. Futhi eminyakeni yobudala yabesifazane besopolitiki nabesifazane bezamabhizinisi, ukungafani okunjalo kuhlangene nakakhulu.
Izinzuzo kanye Nempahla Yomshado Womphakathi
Njengoba bethi, bangaki abantu, imibono eminingi kangaka. Ngakho-ke, isihloko se-pluses nama-minus singathuthukiswa kuze kube phakade. Inkululeko yobuhlobo ngaphandle kwezibopho kanye nethuba lokuhlola imizwa yakho nokuhambisana kusengaphambili kuhle kakhulu. Kodwa ukuhlolwa kungabambezeleka. Ngalesi sikhathi kukhona impahla ehlangene, izingane ezivamile. Abantu emishadweni yomphakathi bazizwa benecala kakhulu, okuholela ekulahlekelweni kwethemba kanye nokungavumelani okungadingekile. Ikakhulukazi kubantu abasha.
Izinzuzo zomshado womphakathi zibonakala zibala nakakhulu kubantu abavuthiwe asebevele basinda emshadweni womthetho, kanye nolaka lomshado. Abantu abanjalo, ukuqala ubuhlobo obusha, bathola ukwesaba amaphutha aphindaphindiwe. Futhi kubo, ukushada komphakathi kubonisa ithuba lokubili empilweni (futhi ngezinye izikhathi owesithathu nowesine ...). Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uma uzwa ubuhlungu bokudumala nokulahlekelwa, kunomthwalo wemfanelo omkhulu ukuhambisana nobuhlobo obusha. Zibazisa futhi azidingi ukuvuselelwa okwengeziwe ngesimo sesitembu epasipoti yabo. Kubantu abasha, umshado womphakathi uyindlela yokukwazi omunye nomunye kangcono. Iningi lobudlelwane nabantu abasha besikhathi sethu baqala, ngokusekelwe othandweni nokuzwelana. Umshado womshado unikeza ithuba lokwenza isinyathelo esiqine ukuze kunqume ukuthi lokhu kuyisithakazelo sezocansi nje noma okunye okunye.
Izinkinga zomshado womphakathi zingcono kakhulu kunokwengqondo. Uma abantu ngokuvumelanayo bevumelana nomshado womphakathi ukuze bazame, khona-ke lokhu kusejwayelekile. Imibhangqwana enjalo isheshe ithole izingane futhi ithole indawo yokuhlala. Kodwa konke kwenzeka. Njengoba kwenzeka kaningi, lapho umndeni womphakathi uhlakazeka, izingane zihlala zingumkayo, futhi impahla ephawulekayo kumyeni. Konke okwenziwa ngokushelela konke ngokuvamile "kuyinhloko yomndeni."
Izinzuzo nezingozi zomshado womphakathi zingacatshangelwa isikhathi eside nangamaphuzu ahlukene okubuka. Kunoma yikuphi, okuyinhloko ebuhlotsheni bayoba nemizwelo nokuthembeka phambi komunye nomunye futhi ngokwabo. Omunye uhamba ngemva kwenyanga emva kokubhaliswa okusemthethweni, futhi umuntu uhlala ngokujabula emshadweni womphakathi futhi ekhulisa izingane eziningana.