Umshado wesonto uyimfihlakalo engcwele, futhi ngaphakathi kobuKristu kukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kufanele kwenzeke kanye kanye nokuphila, futhi ukuhlukunyezwa komshado kulahlwa. Noma kunjalo, kukhona uhlu lwezizathu ezenza lokhu kusengenzeka.
Izizathu zokuqedwa komshado
Uma ehhovisi lokubhalisa unikezwa isahlukaniso kalula, uma ubonisa "ukungafani okungafani" noma "ongavumelani nabalingiswa," khona-ke izizathu zokuhlambalaza umshado wesonto kufanele zibe sína ngempela:
- ukukhawulwa komunye womlingani;
- I-AIDS, i-syphilis noma uphenyo;
- ukudala umshado omusha ngomunye wabashade;
- ukushintsha kokholo komunye wabashade;
- ukungakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye;
- ukugula okungelapheki (ngokwengqondo noma ngokomzimba, kuhlanganise nokudakwa ngokweqile nokulutha izidakamizwa);
- ukukholelwa nokubophezeleka;
- Ukungabi khona komunye womlingani;
- ukuziphatha kabi ngokobulili, ukushaya indlwabu kanye nesilwane;
- uzame impilo nempilo yomlingani wakho;
- ukuhluleka ukuzala;
- umshado phambi komlingani osemthethweni;
- umkakhe wenza isisu ngokumelene nentando yomyeni wakhe.
Indlela yokubuswa embusweni esontweni?
Izizathu zokuqeda ukushada komshado wesonto zilungisiwe, futhi kunoma yikuphi kwalokhu
Njengomthetho, umkhosi we-debunking esontweni awukwenziwa, futhi kudingekile ukubhekana lapho uma unquma ukushada nomlingani omusha. Umpristi ongenakukwazi ukukusiza: uzodinga ukufaka isicelo kwihhovisi le-Diocese, ikheli lakhe oyothunyelwa kunoma iyiphi ithempeli edolobheni lakho. Ukungena kabusha emshadweni wesonto kungaba nje kuphela kulabo abashadile abangenacala ekuqothulweni kwalowo owedlule.
Ukuchitha umshado wesonto kuyinkambinkimbi eyinkimbinkimbi, ngakho-ke, ukuwugwema, ungasheshi ukungena emshadweni wesonto: qaphela okhethiweyo wakho noma okhethiweyo okungenani iminyaka engu-5-7 ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokuthi uthathe isinyathelo esinjalo esinokwethenjelwa.