Umsebenzi we-conjugal umqondo, okokuqala, ukuziphatha. Umelela ngokuvumelana nemigomo ebalulekile njengokwethembeka, ukulungelelana, ukwethembeka, umsebenzi kanye nodumo. Konke lokhu kufanekisela umndeni oqinile kanye nokuxhumana kwabashade.
Isikweletu somshado singacatshangelwa ngezici ezimbili. Eyokuqala yisimo esivela ohlangothini lwezomthetho. Ngemuva kokubhalisa ubudlelwane ehhovisi lokubhalisa, lo mbhangqwana unamalungelo nezibopho, okwenziwe ngezenzo zomthetho ezilawulayo. Zihlobene eduze nencazelo yohlobo lomsebenzi, indawo yokuhlala, ngokugcina ukuthembeka, ngokusekelwa kanye nokusizana komunye nomunye. Ebudlelwaneni obusondelene nabo, azikho izibopho ezisemthethweni. Okuhlukile kungase kube nezimo ezithile, isibonelo, ukuphambene ngokobulili, okungahambisani naye.
Lapha konke kuxhomeke ekuziphatheni nasemfundweni yendoda nomkayo. Ubulili yodwa ngeke kube ngokwanele ukulondoloza ukuthula emndenini, kubalulekile ukuhlonipha izici zokuziphatha zobudlelwane.
Kukhona iphuzu lesibili lokubuka - ukuziphatha. Ubulili ngokubambisana nothando - lokhu kuyisibopho se-conjugal, ukufakwa kokulondolozwa kobudlelwane bomndeni. Kulesi simo, kuyoba nokuvumelana ngokobulili nokuya ngokomoya.
Amaqiniso alula
Ngokusebenza okuvamile komshado, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuhlukana komndeni wakho, ukuvela kokunganeliseki ngokuphila okuseduze, amathuba okungathengi, kuba okuncane kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukutadisha umlingani wakho kahle, ukwazi ukwanelisa nokuqaphela izifiso zakhe zocansi. Kukhona isidingo sokusondelana ezingeni lezingqondo, ezingokomoya. Inhlonipho, uthando, ukwethembeka - konke lokhu kufanele kube yisisekelo sempilo yomndeni wakho.
Ukungafezeki komsebenzi wemishado - ngeshwa, imibhangqwana eminingi ibhekene nale nkinga ngemuva kokukhathazeka kancane kancane . Futhi, ikhwalithi yokuphila komndeni ithonywe yizici eziningi. Lokhu kuhambisana nabazali, izingane ezibangela ukuphazamiseka ohlangothini oluseduze lobuhlobo bakho nomngane wakho womshado, ukusebenza komshado emshadweni. Konke lokhu kwakha imvelo yocansi phakathi komyeni nomfazi, okuthinta kakhulu ubuhlobo bakho.
"Vula emuva!" Noma ukuthi yini amadoda ayifunayo
Umsebenzi womfazi womlingani. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi ungubani nokuthi owesifazane kufanele aziphathe kanjani. Owesifazane ungumqhubi womyeni wakhe, umtshela izindlela zokwenza izinqumo nezifiso zakhe, ukuthembela ekufundeni kwakhe nokuhlakanipha kwabesifazane. Ngempela, ngathi, abahlonipha abafundi nobuhle, namantombazane amnandi nje kuphela, amadoda akwazi ukwenza okuningi. Futhi uma emndenini umuntu engabonakali amandla akhe, lo wesifazane ngeke afune ukuchitha isikhathi naye futhi azizinikele ngokuphelele kuye. Ngokufanayo, singasho ngokuziphatha kowesifazane ngokuphathelene nomlingani.
Owesifazane kufanele akhumbule ukuthi indoda kufanele ihlale igcwele futhi inelisekile. Kulokhu kuzomele uzame ukuba
Ukubamba iqhaza, singaphetha ngokuthi isibopho somshado, esithinta ubuhlobo bobulili, asilula njengoba sibheka kuqala. Ngokuvamile kukhona imibhangqwana ehlala ndawonye iminyaka engaphezu konyaka, futhi ingahlali ndawonye iminyaka eminingi, ayikwazi ukuqonda ngokushesha ukubaluleka komsebenzi womshado. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala ukubeka isisekelo esiqinile semindeni yakho yomndeni futhi unakekele oshade naye.