Amalungiselelo omndeni kaHeringer

Konke okusha kudala okukhohliwe, kwezinye izimo ngisho nangaphezulu. Kuyinto enzima ukucabanga, indlela yokulungiswa yaziwa eminyakeni engu-5000 eyedlule futhi yasetshenziswa yi-dervishes yase-Asia Ephakathi, futhi yathola ukuthandwa kuphela eminyakeni eyi-90 yekhulu lokugcina. Ngokuvamile inkolelo yezinkanyezi zomndeni ihlotshaniswa negama likaBert Hellinger. Kwakuwukuthi ukuzithoba kwakhe ukuthi le ndlela yasetshenziselwa ukwelashwa kwengqondo. Kodwa, ngaphezu kwabalandeli, le ndlela inebaphikisi bezinqununu abathinta ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwayo akumukeleki. Ake sibone ukuthi yini enhle endleleni yama-constellations emndenini yi-Hellinger nokuthi ingaba yingozi kanjani.

Okuyinhloko yendlela yokwakhiwa kweminyango yomndeni kaHeringer

Akekho oyophika ukuthi umndeni unethonya elikhulu ekwakheni ubuntu, futhi noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka okukuyo kuthinta wonke amalungu omndeni, ikakhulukazi izingane. Ngokuvamile abantu abakwazi ukubhekana nezingxabano ngokwabo, ngoba abanalo ithuba lokubheka inkinga ngamehlo omphikisi. U-Bert Hellinger ngale njongo usebenzisa indlela yama-constellations omndeni. Ukuhlelwa kwama-classic kuthatha ukhetho lwabaphathi bezindima zomndeni wamakhasimende. Okulandelayo, ukubekwa kwenziwa ngokusho kwemizwa enembile yomuthi noma iklayenti, bese iphini ngalinye liqala ukubuza imizwa yabo, imicabango nemizwa yabo. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthola ukuthola ukuxhumana phakathi kwesigaba ngasinye sesistimu.

Amalungiselelo weHellinger angenziwa eqenjini, futhi angaba ngabanye. Esikhathini esilandelayo, esikhundleni sokufaka abantu esikhundleni, izibalo, umcabango, amahange, izihlalo, njll zisetshenziswa. Kodwa ilungiselelo le-Hellinger elungiselelwe kwifomethi yokuqeqesha cishe liphumelela kakhulu. Njengoba kungenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi ngomsebenzi ngamunye umuntu ulawula "ukungena esikhumbeni" somunye.

Kubonakala sengathi konke akukubi, abantu bathola ithuba lokuhlukanisa lesi simo ngokuningiliziwe, ukuze bathole ukuphuma okuzofanelana nawo wonke amalungu omndeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, asikho isibonelo esisodwa, lapho izinhlelo zeHelenberg zishintshile izimpilo zabantu ukuze zibe ngcono. Kungani-ke kukhona abantu abaningi abanganelisekile abathi le ndlela yimbi?

Izingozi ze-Hellingser Family Constellation Method

Incwadi yokuqala yeHellinger ngendlela yezinkanyezi zomndeni yayibizwa ngokuthi "Ukuhlelwa Kothando", futhi yabeka izimiso eziyisisekelo zalendlela:

1. Umthetho wokuba ngumuntu. Njalo ilungu lomndeni linelungelo lokuba yilona. Uma ngabe ilungu lomndeni lixoshwa, labo abasele baphoqeleka ukuba bathathe indima yakhe, ngandlela-thile baphinde baphinde baphumelele.
2. Umthetho wobukhosi. Umndeni omusha uthatha kuqala kundala. Uma izingane, ezisekela umndeni wazo, zihlala zixhumene nomzali, bese izinkinga emndenini omusha zingenakugwemeka.
3. Umthetho wokulinganisela. Ilungu ngalinye lomndeni kufanele linikeze imali efanayo efanayo njengoba ethola.

Ukuphulwa kwalezi zimiso kuholela ezinkingeni nasezingxabano, kodwa ukuthola ukuthi kukhona ukuphikisana, kubalulekile ukwenza imizamo eminingi. Ngetulu kwaloko, lo msebenzi uyinkimbinkimbi yokuthi amaphutha angenziwa ngalabo abangasaphila. Kuhlelo izikhundla zikhethiwe futhi zenzelwe indima yazo, ngakho-ke, kukhona abaningi abaphazamiseka. Ama-bioenergetics athukuthele, ethi lesi senzo sifana kakhulu ne-spiritualism, ngakho-ke abantu bathatha izinhlelo zezihlobo ezifile. Ngesizathu esifanayo, i-Orthodoxy ibheka ilungiselelo likaHellinger njenge-obscurantism, abambalwa kakhulu abakholwayo bezengqondo ezikholwayo banquma ukusebenzisa izindlela ezithile kule ndlela ngokusebenza.

Kuliphi iqembu elizohambisana nalo ukuxazululwa kuwe, kodwa khumbula ukuthi i-psyche yomuntu iyinto edinga ukwelashwa ngokucophelela, ngakho-ke akusizi ngalutho ukwethemba ukukhathazeka kwayo ngabangenzi-nonprofessionals abazama ukwenza imali ezinkingeni zabantu.