Ubani phakathi kwethu ongafuni ukuhlala nomakhethi wakhe isikhathi eside futhi ngenjabulo ngaphandle kokuphikisana nokungavumelani? Kodwa kwenzeka kuphela ezindabeni zezinganekwane, empilweni yangempela konke kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Umbhangqwana ngamunye ungabiza izinkinga eziningana zomndeni, izimbangela zazo ezihlukahlukene izimo - othile uzithola ewumthwalo wemikhuba yomyeni, othile kunzima ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi kanye nomndeni, kanti omunye ukhathele yi-monotony embhedeni. Ochwepheshe bathola izimbangela eziyishumi eziyinhloko zenkinga yomndeni wamanje, kuboniswe ngezigaba ezahlukene zokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwano bombhangqwana oshadile.
Izimbangela zezinkinga zomndeni
- Izinkinga kulezi zibili zivame ukuhlotshaniswa nenkathi yokuguquguquka (inkinga yobudala) yomunye wabalingani. Lesi simo sinzima kakhulu uma kungabikho ukuqonda okufanayo emndenini, uma wonke umuntu ehlala eyedwa kanye nakho okuhlangenwe nakho.
- Esinye sezimbangela ezivame kakhulu zenkinga yomndeni ukungafuni kwababambisene ukushada. Ukukhathazeka okukhulu kudlulela isikhathi eside, futhi zonke ukungapheleli kwabantu abangeke babonwe ngaphambili ngenxa yesimo esiqinile esingokomzwelo siphezulu. Ukunqoba lesi simo kunokwenzeka uma uxazulula izinkinga ezivela ekhaya ngokuhlanganyela kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zomshado.
- Izinkinga zokulala. Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile (kaningi isikhathi esingaphezu kweminyaka emithathu noma ngaphezulu), lo mbhangqwana ukhululekile komunye nomunye, lo wesifazane ulahlekelwa uthando, umuntu ukhathele yi-monotony. Umphumela ungase ube ukuhlukumezeka, ngisho nokuhlukanisa . Iresiphi yokuxazulula le nkinga ilula: ukuhlolwa kombhede nokuzinakekela njalo.
- Ukungezwani kwezenkolo. Ngokuvamile imibuzo yokholo ekuqaleni ayiyona eyisisekelo, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuzinikela ngokweqile noma ukungabikho okuphelele kungabangela ukuxabana komndeni njalo. Okufanayo kuya kumasiko kazwelonke.
- Ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside noma ukuhamba okuqhubekayo kwebhizinisi. Bathi ngesikhathi sokuhlukanisa, izinzwa zithinta kakhulu, kepha kwabanye kunzima kakhulu ukuhlolwa.
- Izinkinga zempilo ezimbi. Ukuqeda ubuhlobo ngenxa yokugula kwesigamu sesibili kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, kepha kunzima ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga zomndeni wedwa, kube kokubili ukuxhasa ngezezimali nezokuziphatha.
- Izinkinga ngenxa yemali. Ngokuvamile uhlangana nomndeni lapho abashadile banayo imali engenayo futhi batshalwa ngokulinganayo ekuphathweni komndeni. Ngakho-ke ukubalwa kwalowo owaletha okungaphezulu endlini, futhi ngubani owachitha ngaphezulu. Futhi uma ukuwohloka kwesimo sezezimali kwenzekile futhi, lesi sikhathi ngeke sidlule ngaphandle kwempi.
- Ukubuka okuhlukile ekukhulisweni kwezingane. Ngokuvamile, abashadile babona inqubo yezemfundo ngezindlela ezahlukene, kodwa ngisho noma bekwazi ukuvumelana phakathi kwabo, ugogo nomkhulu bangena enkambisweni, bathole ukuzithengisa, okuyiyona ndlela elula kakhulu.
- Ukuhluka kwesimo. Ngokuvamile umlingani oyedwa unemfundo engcono, umsebenzi ongcono noma ukuthuthukiswa kwamasiko okuphakeme.
Kodwa esikhundleni sokukhula kuze kube sezingeni lomunye, abalingani bahlala kubo, ngenxa yalokho, i-straggler ayiba mnandi kulowo omelela isinyathelo esiphakeme. - Izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zenkinga yomndeni wanamuhla yinkinga engaxazululwa yesikhathi esedlule. Ukuphuthuma okuphuthumayo kuyabangela ukuba kungasebenzi kulokhu, kodwa uzama ukunganaki ukuhluka okubanjwe futhi ukuthulukisa isithunzi esikhulu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zingaki izinkinga ezenzeka emndenini, zinganqotshwa kuphela uma kukhona ukwethembela phakathi kwabashade nesifiso sokudala izimo zokuphila ezikhululekile.