Abantu abaningi baye bahlangana nobuhlobo nenkathi yokupholisa, lapho imizwa iphelile. Imibhangqwana eminingi ayikwazi ukubhekana nalesi sikhathi futhi ihambe, ngoba abalingani baqala ukushintsha. Abesifazane abazisa umshado wabo futhi bafuna ukugcina ukuthi banesithakazelo ekunakekeleni umyeni uma esehlile. Kunezindlela eziningi ezahlukene zokubhekana nale nkinga.
Ukuheha kanjani umyeni wakhe?
Ngaphambi kokuba uthuthukise uhlelo lokusebenza, udinga ukuthola ukuthi kuyiqiniso, ubuhlobo buguqukile noma buyinganekwane yowesifazane kuphela. Ungenzi ama-scandals, wenze noma yiziphi izidingo futhi ufake ama-ultimatums, ngoba lokhu kuzokwenza kube nzima kakhulu isimo. Abesifazane abaningi benza iphutha elikhulu uma bechitha wonke amandla namandla abo kumyeni, futhi ukukhathazeka okunjalo kungabhekana nokunganaki okuphelele. Isixazululo kuphela esiyiqiniso ukushintsha wena.
Amathiphu okumele ukwenze uma umuntu engakunaki:
- Yiya esibukweni, uzibheke futhi uqhathanise lokho okubonayo nentombazane, owake wathandana nendoda esiseduze. Ezimweni eziningi, umehluko ubalulekile: ukwedlula ngokweqile , ukukhanda kwekhanda eliphansi, izinto ezinwetshiwe, njll. Sekuyisikhathi sokuphindukuzalwa, ngakho-ke hamba e-gym, beauty salon kanye nokuthenga.
- Indoda kumele iqonde ukuthi owesifazane wakhe uyathandwa namanye amalungu obulili obuqinile. Uma kukhona umuzwa, khona-ke umlingani uzoba nomhawu. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungadluli kulolu daba.
- Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuphumula komunye nomunye ukuze ube nesithukuthezi. Ungahamba ngokweqile eholidini noma uvakashele abazali bakho.
- Uma umuntu eyeka ukunaka , khona-ke udinga ukumheha ngento entsha. Isibonelo, ungathenga izingubo zangaphansi ze-sexy noma ingubo elula futhi uzigqoke ekhaya. Izinyawo ezihlanziwe, i-decollete ejulile, ngokuqinisekile zizodonsela ukunakwa komlingani.
- Kwezinye izimo, ukukhishwa kuyasiza, okungukuthi, owesifazane kumele angeneki, ukuze indoda iqonde ukuthi yiyiphi isizathu futhi yaqala ukwenza imizamo yokwakha ubuhlobo.