Amagama athi "indoda ifuna ukushada" ngenxa eminingi ezwakalayo engacabangi, ngoba ngokuvamile isimo sengqondo sobulili esinamandla emshadweni asibi. Kodwa-ke, namanje, ngelinye ilanga sekuyisikhathi sokuba indoda ishade, futhi ihambelana nesikhathi lapho eqaphela ukuthi uthola lowo odlala ezintanjeni zomphefumulo wakhe ingoma enhle ebizwa ngokuthi "uthando."
Kungani amadoda eshada?
Kungani amadoda adinga ukushada azi kahle kuphela, kodwa thina besifazane bacabanga ukuthi bashadile ukuze baphile nabathandekayo bakho konke ukuphila kwakho, futhi ukhulise izingane ndawonye, bese kubazukulu. Nakuba u-F. Nietzsche wake wathi isithandwa somuntu wesilisa sisekhulelwe.
Abashadile bashada bani?
Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, amadoda akhetha amantombazane abathandayo njengabafazi, futhi "ama-pluses" abo anjalo:
- ikhono lokupheka okumnandi;
- impilo enhle;
- uhlamvu oluhle;
- ukunakekelwa nomusa.
Ukuqonda kanjani ukuthi indoda ifuna ukushada?
Uma umuntu eqala ukubuza umthandi mayelana nomshado wamaphupho akhe, ukuthola ukuthi ufuna ukuthini inombolo yezingane nokuthi ngabe uyathanda umama wakhe, cishe, "uvuthiwe".
Kungani amadoda eshada abanye futhi ethanda abanye?
Lokhu kwenzeka, ngeshwa, hhayi kuphela kumadoda. Konke lokhu, ngoba ubuhlobo nomzwelo wothando ziyizimo ezihlukile, futhi izidingo zomlingani azifani neze-sweetheart. Oshade naye kufanele apheke kahle, alondoloze ubuchopho endlini futhi akhulise abantwana, futhi konke okudingekayo yintando kungukuthi ukhona. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kwanele ukuthanda. Ngakho-ke, bayashada izinaliti, kodwa bathanda labo abathandayo, ngoba awukwazi ukuyala inhliziyo yakho.
Kungani amadoda ashada namantombazane?
Yiba ngowokuqala yonke indawo - isiqubulo esikhulu samadoda. Ngokuqinisekile wonke umuntu unomuzwa ongajabulisayo lapho umuntu eba nomuntu othile, ngakho-ke, noma yimuphi umyeni uyajabula uma enguye kuphela "umnikazi" futhi "onqoba" womkakhe. Kodwa manje imishado enjalo ingavamile,
Kungani amadoda eshada i-bitch?
Ama-bugs kungenzeka ashade nalabo bantu abathanda ukubuka ama-movie amahloni: bona, njengalesi sigaba sabesifazane, bayakwazi "ukukhipha" izinzwa. Ngempela, onomfazi ozimele futhi ozifunayo ungakhathazeki: unokuthile okumele akhulume ngakho, unesikhundla sakhe kanye nomlingiswa othakazelisayo, okufaka "i-peppercorns" ebuhlotsheni.