Ukukhathala kwegama elithi "Ngishada nomuntu owezinye izizwe ocebile, ojabula kakhulu," "Ngiyahamba nomunye othandekayo wami" nezinye izindaba ngabesifazane abatholile injabulo yabo kwelinye izwe? Futhi cha, cha, nomcabango othi "Ngifuna ukushada nomfokazi, ngisazi ukuthi ngingakwenza kanjani lokhu" amahlumela. Khona-ke kudingeke uphenye ukuthi yiziphi izingibe ezithwala ngokwakho umshado nomfokazi.
Ungashada kanjani umfokazi?
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi sisho ukuthini uma sithi "Ngifuna ukushada nomfokazi." Izakhamuzi zase-Ukraine azikwazi ukuphuza ngokushada nomuntu waseRussia noma waseKazakh. Kuvela, izikhala ezivela esikhungweni seSoviet-post asithandi. Futhi ubani odingekayo ngaleso sikhathi? Abesifazane abaningi banesithakazelo kumadoda avela emazweni aseYurophu, ngaphandle kweTurkey. Izwe lokugcina, liyaziwa ngokuthandana kwamaholide, kodwa umshado awuvamile.
Ngokuvamile abantu bethu basekhaya bafuna amadoda phakathi kwamaJalimane, amaNgisi, amaFulentshi namaNtaliyane. Ukufuna umyeni kungenziwa ngokuzimela nge-intanethi noma ukubeka usesho ku-ejenti yomshado. Kunoma yikuphi, kuyadingeka ukwazi ngezici ezithile zomlingiswa kazwelonke. Isibonelo, amaJalimane ahlonipha ukuhleleka nokugcina isikhathi futhi bafuna okufanayo kumuntu okhethiweyo.
IsiNgisi asikwazi ukuma abesifazane abahlala bekhuluma ngezinkinga zabo - leli ithoni embi. Ngakho-ke kufanele ube smart, ukwazi ukulalela nokukhuluma kuphela ngokuhle.
AmaNtaliyane afana kakhulu nokuhlonipha amadoda aseRashiya, kodwa cishe cishe wonke amadodana "omama." Uma umama esho okuthize ngesiNtaliyane, ngokuqinisekile uzofeza isifiso sakhe.
AmaFrance ngokuvamile aqonda ubuciko, ezombusazwe, umlando. Uzodinga ikhono lokusekela ingxoxo. Kodwa i-France iyaziwa ngokuziphatha okukhululekile ebuhlotsheni bobulili, ngakho-ke umFulentshi angabelana ngothando nomunye owesifazane phambi komuntu akhethiweyo futhi ngeke abekezelele umhawu.
Kodwa noma yikuphi okukhethayo, kukhona iphuzu elibalulekile ongakwazi ukulikhohlwa - kuyinkontileka yomshado. Ungabeki abameli, funda ngokucophelela futhi uxoxe ngawo wonke amaphuzu. Uma kungenjalo, kukhona ingozi yokulahlekelwa ingane ngokuhlukanisa, imali, njll.
Abesifazane abaningi, beza phesheya, bathola ama-horizons amasha, baqale ukwenza umsebenzi. Futhi, emva kwesikhashana, umfazi usuphumelele kakade kunomyeni wakhe, owamthatha njengomgcini wendawo, hhayi owesifazane webhizinisi. Phela, abesifazane bethu baziswa kakhulu eNtshonalanga ngenxa yokukhululwa kwabo kancane. Uma indaba enjalo iyenzeka kuwe, khona-ke kufanele ulungele noma ugcine umndeni, uzama ukungaphuli imizwa yendoda yangaphandle, noma ukuhlukanisa - amadoda angathandi ukuzwa ukuhlazeka kwabo.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokushada, hlola imininingwane mayelana nomuntu ozoshada naye. Amasayithi amaningi aphuma "uhlu olumnyama" lwabajaji. Laba bangabokufika abahola ngemikhankaso yomshado noma ukujwayela kwabo amantombazane abavela kwamanye amazwe abanakho ukuqedwa kokubhaliswa komshado. Kungcono futhi ukuya kumkhwenyana wesikhathi esizayo amasonto ambalwa amasonto ambalwa ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda isimo, uqonde ukuthi yini ekulindelwe yona, ukuthi ulwazi lwakho luni nolwazi lwezwe elikhethiwe liyiqiniso kangakanani.
Yimiphi imibhalo edingekayo ukushada nomfokazi?
Uma ukhetha i-ejensi yomshado ukuthola umngane wakho womshado, khona-ke umbuzo wokuthi ungayithola kanjani imibhalo edingekayo yokushada nomfokazi, ngeke ukhathalele - ochwepheshe bazosiza ukuqoqa nokudweba yonke imibhalo edingekayo. Uma wenza konke wena ngokwakho, khumbula ukuthi akudingeki ukuba usebenze amadokhumenti amaningi bese uwaqoqa isikhathi eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izwe ngalinye linikeza izidingo zalo ohlwini nokucubungulwa kwamadokhumenti.
Kudingeka udinga ipasipoti (amanye amazwe afuna ukubona kuphela ongaphandle), isitifiketi esitshela ukuthi awusashadile nesitifiketi sokuzalwa. Amakhophi amadokhumenti adinga ukubaluleka kanye ne-apostille.
Ngemva kokuqoqa zonke izitifiketi, amakhophi athunyelwa kumkhwenyana imvume yokubhalisa umshado. Lapho imvume itholakele, isikhathi sokuthola i-visa siza.
Yonke imininingwane mayelana nohlu lwamadokhumenti kanye nomklamo wayo kufanele icaciswe embassy yezwe lapho uya khona noma ehhovisi lokubhalisa elizweni lakubo. Njengoba izidingo zishintsha, futhi izinguqulo, i-apostille, i-notarial insurances zibiza imali.