Ukuphila ngokuvamile kusiphonsa izimo ezingalindelekile nezezikhathi ezimnandi, futhi ulwazi lwemithetho likuvumela ukuba udlulise izinkinga ngendlela engenabuhlungu ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi iphuzu elikulesi sihloko liphathelene ne-alimony.
Ngeshwa, imindeni yanamuhla ivame ukuhlukana, futhi uma kukhona ingane emndenini, ngokuvamile kuvame ukunakekelwa ngumama. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi zonke izibopho zisuswa kubaba. Ngokusho komthetho wamanje, ubaba akakwazi ukubhala ukwenqaba kwengane, ngaleyo ndlela ekhulula ekuqukethwe kwakhe. Noma kunjalo, amanye amadoda akhetha ukukhokha imali kubanikazi bawo bangaphambili. Khona-ke, ukuze kubuyiselwe ubulungiswa, umkakho wangaphambili uhambisa ngokuvumelana.
Ngamaphi amacala owesifazane angafuna ukusekelwa kwengane?
Emazweni ahlukene, inqubo ithatha isikhathi esithile futhi idinga amaphepha amaningi. Ezweni lakithi, igama elithi "alimony for the child and wife" lisho kuphela ukukhokha kokugcinwa kwengane, okwakutholwa umkakho wangaphambili. Owesifazane unelungelo lokufakela ukusekelwa ukugcinwa kwakhe ngokwabo ngamacala amathathu kuphela:
- uma umfazi engakwazi ukukhubazeka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukukhubazeka kowesifazane kufanele kwenzeke ngaphambi kokuba umshado uqedwe ngokomthetho, noma kungakapheli unyaka owodwa ngemva kokuhlukanisa. Uma abashadile sebehlala isikhathi eside emshadweni futhi befinyelele emkhatsini weminyaka yokuthatha umhlalaphansi, le nkathi emva kokuhlukanisa inwetshwa iminyaka emihlanu;
- uma umfazi enakekela ingane ekhubazekile;
- uma umkami ukhulelwe noma kufanele abelethe ingane engaphansi kweminyaka emithathu.
Ukwamukela i-alimony umfazi unelungelo kuphela uma kwenzeka ingane ikhulelwe ngaphambi komzuzwana wesehlukaniso.
Kwezinye izimo, lowo wesifazane wangaphambili uthola u-alimony ukugcinwa kwengane.
Inqubo
Uma abashadile bengavumelani ngaphandle kokungqubuzana, bangakwazi ukunquma ngokuzimela ukuthi inani elingakanani lokulondolozwa komfazi wangaphambili noma lomntanakho lizoba, futhi banqume indlela yokukhokha kwabo. Kulesi simo, umyeni nomfazi wangaphambili bangena esivumelwaneni esibhaliwe futhi bamqinisekise ngumbhalisi. Uma kungenjalo, inani le-alimony lomfazi noma ingane liyonqunywa yinkantolo. Ukuze kuzuzwe ukukhokha, owesifazane kufanele enze lokhu okulandelayo:
- Yenza uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-alimony lomfazi noma ingane. Ukwenza isitatimende ngowesifazane ngokuphumelelayo kungasiza unothi. Uzophinde unikeze isampula isicelo se-alimony kumkakhe.
- Ukufaka icala enkantolo. Inketho ekahle uma ummeli efaka icala. Uma kungenjalo, ummangali uqoqa isicelo sokuvuselelwa kwesondlo sokugcinwa komfazi ngummangali ngokwakhe.
- Kubonakala enkantolo. Emhlanganweni, ijaji inquma ukubuyiswa kwe-alimony kumfazi noma ingane kanye nokubeka ubukhulu bayo. Inani lihlelwe kuye ngokuthi ubukhulu buncane buncane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isimo sezezimali somuntu ngamunye wabesilisa omdala sasiqaphelwa.
Uma lowo wesifazane owake wangena e-alimony, ezikhathini eziningi isinqumo senkantolo siyamthanda. Noma kunjalo, kunezinombolo eziningi.
- lowo owayengumlingani wangaphambili wayengenamandla ngenxa yokuphuza utshwala noma izidakamizwa;
- oshade naye owake wangena naye ngesikhathi sokuphila komndeni wayeziphatha ngendlela engafanele (ngesihluku ehlobene nomyeni wakhe nomntanakhe, washintsha, njll);
- uma umshado ufushane (ngokwenza njalo, isizathu sokukhansela ukukhokha yisikhathi esihlukile - kusukela eminyakeni eyodwa kuya kwemihlanu).
Ukuhambisana nokugcinwa komfazi kubhalwa kuphela uma abashadile beshadile. Umthetho wanamuhla awubheki isimo esinjalo njengomshado womphakathi.