Uma ubheka umbhangqwana ojabulayo, umcabango ucabangela ngokungenazo: yini eyimfihlo yothando lwabo nokuvumelana ? Yiqiniso, wonke umuntu unelungelo lakhe lomndeni, izimfihlo zawo zokuqonda nokuvumelana, kodwa kanjani ukuza lokhu? Kulesi sihloko ungafunda mayelana nezimfihlo zobuhlobo obujabulisayo. Sithemba ukuthi uzojabula nomphefumulo wakho womshado.
Izimfihlo zobuhlobo obuhle
Ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane emshadweni kaningi bukude nalokho abaphupha ngakho. Njengomthetho, imibhangqwana eminingi eye yaba ndawonye isikhathi eside, cishe ayikhulumisanisi nomunye nomunye. Ngokuqondile - baxoxa kuphela ngezinto, mayelana nezinkinga zansuku zonke, ngemali. Isiphakamiso sethu sokuqala: khuluma okuningi mayelana nobuhlobo futhi ukhulume ngocansi. Yikholelwa ukuthi imibhangqwana ekhuluma ngokubambisana kwezimpilo zabo iyathokoza kakhulu kunabashadile abangenalo. Ngendlela, khumbula ukuthi ngezocansi akudingeki ukuthi ukhulume kuphela, badinga ukubhekana nazo. Ngaphezu kokuthola ama-hormone enjabulo, uvuselela imizwelo komunye nomunye.
Ukulala okunganakwa - lena enye imfihlo encane yobuhlobo. Ukuxhumana okuthintanayo kunomthelela omuhle ekuhloleni ubudlelwane obuseduze futhi kuletha abalingani eduze.
Thinta nomunye nomunye, kaningi ubambe izandla, unxane futhi uhlale ubanga ngaphambi kokuyeka, ngisho noma kuphila isikhathi esifushane.
Izimfihlo zobudlelwane obuphumelelayo zihlanganisa ukuhloniphana, ukwamukelwa komlingani nokuqonda. Awukwazi ukuziqhenya, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngesimo sengqondo nezidingo zesigamu sakho sesibili. Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhokhela ngokulinganayo izindinganiso zomndeni wakho nezithakazelo ezivamile. Tshela ukuncoma komunye nomunye amazwi amnandi, wenze izinto ezimangazayo kanye nezipho ezincane.
Izimfihlo Zobudlelwane Ovumelanayo
Phila umzuzu wamanje. Yiqiniso, kuzo zonke izikhalazo kukhona izikhalazo, ukuhlukunyezwa nokuphikisana. Kodwa ungakhumbuli izikhalazo zakudala. Funda ukuthethelela futhi ukhohlwe zonke izinto ezimbi. Izikhalazo ezigcinwe emphefumulweni wakho akugcini nje ukulimaza, kodwa futhi zibe nomthelela omubi ebuhlotsheni nomlingani wakho. Uma kukhona izinto ezingenakuthethelelwa - cishe, uthando luye lwaqhuba inkambo yalo. Ukuze ugcine ubuhlobo, umuntu kufanele akwazi ukuthethelela futhi akhohlwe.
Uma unabantwana, khumbula ukuthi babheka lokho abakubonayo ngaphakathi kwemindeni yabo futhi bayazi kahle umkhathi kuwo. Ngakho-ke, ukuvumelana, umusa, isimo esimnandi yizimfanelo ezibalulekile zobuhlobo obujabulisayo.