Manje owesifazane othembekile, owesifazane ophumelelayo, akasimangazi muntu, uzomangala futhi lapho ezwa ukuthi umyeni wakhe uhlezi ekhaya enomntwana futhi enza umsebenzi wendlu, futhi konke ukuphepha kuye.
Emzabalazweni wokulingana, abesifazane baye bathola ukuthi bangashintsha izindima ngamadoda. Ngokwezinga elithile, lokhu kungcono kakhulu, wonke umuntu wenza lokho akuthandayo kakhulu, ngoba kunabaningi abaqeqeshiwe phakathi kwabesifazane, kanti amanye amadoda athande ukubhaka amapayipi kanye nezinsimbi zezinsimbi.
Kodwa konke kunemingcele enengqondo, kulokhu baphela lapho, lapho ukuzithandela kwalokho okwenzeka khona. Eqinisweni, ngaphandle kwesimo esanele esichazwe ngenhla, ungabona enye - umama osemncane uqhekekile phakathi komsebenzi nemisebenzi yasendlini, futhi umyeni wakhe ngesikhathi esifanayo ubheka i-TV ngokungacabangi futhi akazami ukusiza okuthile. Noma umndeni wonke uhlala enzuzweni yengane ngoba umfazi uhlezi esinqumweni, futhi indoda ayikwazi ukuthola umsebenzi ukunambitha.
Ake sizwisise ukuthi kungani kuvela ukuthi amanye amadoda ayenqikazi ukuthatha indima yomuntu onakekela ukudla, nokuthi ungayithola kanjani umyeni wakho ukuba ahambe emsebenzini.
Kufanele siqale ngombuzo: "Ingabe bekulokhu njalo?". Okusho ukuthi, washada yini umuntu ophumelelayo ongesabi umsebenzi futhi uzimisele ukusebenza ukuze kuzuze umndeni noma akazange abonise umsebenzi okhethekile kusukela ekuqaleni ukuqinisekisa impilo yakho yezimali. Izizathu zalokhu zingahluka.
Uma umyeni ethatha isinqumo sokushintsha imisebenzi, uthathe umhlalaphansi kusukela kumdala, kodwa akaphuthumanga ukufuna entsha, kungenzeka ukuthi uyinkinga yengqondo, ukukhathala okwenziwe noma ukucindezeleka. Wonke umuntu ephila unezikhathi lapho ebuthakathaka kakhulu. Ukuwahlupha ngokushesha futhi ngaphandle kokucindezeleka kungenzeka kuphela ngokusekelwa kwabantu abaseduze, kodwa abafazi bethu ezimweni ezinjalo bathanda ukubona abayeni babo, kuphela okwenyusa isimo.
Kungenzeka nokuthi wena ngokwakho ubeke umyeni wakho entanyeni, ubonise ukuthi unamandla okuziphatha, okungeke akwazi ukubhekana nakho. Owesifazane ozimele ongakwazi ukuzinikela ngokwakhe, akahlali ebangela isifiso sokumsiza ekuthile. Uthathe indima yendoda, ungayibuyisela kumyeni wakho kuphela ngokuzivuselela njengowesifazane. Yiba kancane kancane, ube mnene kakhulu, wesifazane, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi isigamu sakho sesibili sizofuna uzizwe njengomuntu.
Futhi uma umuntu engafuni umsebenzi ophumelelayo kulo lonke owakwaziyo, ngakho-ke akudingeki ukuthi ulindele izinguquko ezinkulu kuye, cishe, isici esicacile somlingiswa.
Indlela yokwenza umyeni wakhe athole umsebenzi?
Kunoma yikuphi, uma owesifazane efuna ukuba umyeni wakhe abe umthengi, uzodinga ukubekezela okukhulu. Phela, isigamu sesibili kunoma yiluphi uhlobo asikwazi ukukhishwa, futhi futhi akusizi ngalutho kuyoba nokukholisa.
Kuyadingeka ukuthi wenze ngokuthula futhi kungabonakali ukuthi ngemuva kwalesi sinqumo, lo muntu wayeqiniseka ukuthi uyamukele. Esikhathini kungaba khona ukububula okudabukisayo phambi kwezinto zokugcina ezitolo, izindaba okumele kulindeleke ukuthi umsebenzi wakho unciphise, ukhohliwe emaphephandabeni aphezulu aphethe izikhangiso noma ukhulume ngezithuba ezithakazelisayo. Konke kufanele kube kuhle futhi kunesihawu.
Zama ukuthola kumyeni wakhe ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe wokuphupha kufanele ube yini. Bese uzama ukuthola okufanayo. Isibonelo, uma echitha isikhathi esiningi edlala imidlalo yekhompiyutha, khona-ke ungamtshele ukuthi ungazuza kuzibuyekezo. Mhlawumbe umyeni wakho akasebenzi ngoba engazi ukuthi uzoqondisa kuphi ubuciko bakhe? Ngakho msize ukuba azibonele ngokwakhe, athumele umqondo ofanelekayo. Into esemqoka - kholelwa kumuntu wakho, khona-ke naye ekugcineni uzokukholwa yena futhi uzokwazi ukufeza kakhulu.
Indlela yokwenza umyeni athole ngaphezulu?
Uma oshade naye esebenza kahle, kodwa uthola ipenki ngomsebenzi wakhe futhi akafuni ukuwuguqula, mhlawumbe ukhululekile ngokuphelele ngawo. Kulesi simo, futhi, ubuqili kuphela buzosiza.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi akufanele uphonse umyeni wakho okuthile okuphikisana nezimiso zakhe. Isibonelo, uma ukhononda ngokuntuleka kwemali kudokotela wasekhaya futhi umkhombise ukuthi aqale ukuthengisa izinhlu ezigulayo, awukwazi ukuthola ukuqonda, futhi
Kuyoba nzima uma indoda yakho imthanda ngobuqotho umsebenzi wayo. Kodwa uma engeyena oshayisana naye, khona-ke kukhona enye indlela, ukuthi ungayithola kanjani umyeni wakho ukuthola okuningi - ukukukholisa ukuthi ushintshe umsebenzi. Khetha izinketho ezimbalwa ezifanele futhi uxoxe ngazo naye. Cishe, uzokwamukela ngokwazisa usizo olunjalo.