Ukuphila kwabesifazane abakhulelwe kunzima: bafuna ama-strawberries ngoFebruwari, bese-mandarins ngo-Julayi ... Ngosuku oluzayo lokuzalwa kwezinguquko ezimweni nezifiso zomama ozayo ziba zikhulu nakakhulu, ngoba ziphazamiseke yi-"nesting syndrome". Kuyini lokhu? Iyini imbangela yale syndrome? Kulaba basomama abathandekayo abazayo (futhi ikakhulukazi babazali besikhathi esizayo) bazophendulwa kusihloko sethu.
Kuyini lokhu?
I-syndrome ye-nesting yabesifazane abakhulelwe ayiyona into engaphezu kokucindezela kokuzalwa komama . Owesifazane othomeni lwesithathu wokukhulelwa uqala ukuzwa isidingo esikhulu sokulungisa indlu yakhe ukubonakala kwengane, ukuhlinzekela konke okudingekayo.
Ukubonakaliswa kwe-nesting syndrome:
- Ukulungiswa kwangaphakathi. Ngokuvamile, i-nesting syndrome ithululelwa isifiso esinzima sokulungisa yonke indlu, ukuthenga ifenisha entsha kanye nezindwangu ezintsha. Kulokhu, yiqiniso, akukho okungahambi kahle. Kodwa ngenxa yokuthi isimo sowesifazane phakathi nalesi sikhathi ngokuvamile sishintsha emva kwema-hormone, ngokukhethwa ngothando futhi kuthengwa iphephadonga langololu suku namuhla ingozi ibonakala iyisabekayo futhi iyinengiso, futhi ukulungiswa kabusha kwekhadikhadi kuyobe kungakhululekile kakhulu ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ukuze unciphise ingozi yokulahlekelwa okungenani, kufanelekile ukuqondisa amandla okulimaza nokulungisa kumzila wokuthula: kungcono ukuqala ukulungiswa ephepheni noma ekuqapha ikhompyutha. Manje kunenqwaba yezinhlelo zekhompiyutha ezenzelwe ukusiza ngeso lengqondo ukuthi lokhu noma leso sinqumo sibheke kanjani ezindongeni zangempela. Futhi ngokuqinisekile akufanelekile owesifazane esikhathini sokugcina sokukhulelwa ngokwayo ukuthwala izisindo, uphefumule upende noma uhambise ifenisha.
- Ukuhlanza jikelele. Isidingo esibucayi sokuhlanza konke, uphonsa izinto ezengeziwe, ugeze amafasitela kanye nama-chandeliers ukukhanya - lokhu kungenye ukubonakaliswa kwesidleke esikhulelwe. Isifiso siyancomeka, kodwa kaningi owesifazane uhlaziya amakhono akhe, ezama ukufezekisa cishe ukuhlunga endlini yonke. Esikhundleni sokuzinikela ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokugcina ngaphambi kokubeletha othandekayo wakhe, umama wesikhathi esizayo uyabachitha ngokuhambisana ne-rag kanye nokuhlanza kwe-tile. Enye indlela yokuphuma ukunikezela igunya. Ungabi namahloni okubandakanya umyeni wakho, umama noma izingane ezindala ezindabeni zebhizinisi. Yebo, mabavumele ukuhlanza ngokucophelela njengoba wena, kodwa umgomo uzofezwa - indlu izoba ihlanzekile futhi impilo izogcinwa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo nokuhlanza kuyadingeka ukuqeda ngokungadingekile noma kunzima ekunakekeleni izinto, esikhundleni sokuba kalula ngokugeza nokuhlanza. Emva kokuzalwa kwengane, lokhu kuzokusiza ukunciphisa isikhathi sokugcina indlu ihlanzekile okungenani.
- Ukuthenga dowry wengane. Manje, uma kukhona izingubo eziningi nezinto ezahlukene zokuzilungisa emashalofini ezitolo, kunzima kakhulu ukumelana nesifiso sokuthenga okuningi ngokwamaqabunga akho. Amabhizinisi namakhasi omagazini kuphela athela amafutha emlilweni, ekhuthaza umama wesikhathi esizayo ngomqondo wokuthi ngaphandle kwemfanelo eminingi ehlukene ingane yakhe ngeke ijabule ... Empeleni, usana olusanda kuzalwa
imfucumfucu idinga kakhulu kakhulu: ama-bodikov ambalwa namadoda amancane azo zonke izinhlobo, izingubo zokugqoka ezihamba nge-polyclinic, ama-overalls ... Okunye okunye okuyizingubo zokugqoka kuzohlala kungavunyelwe, okwenza kube lula ukuphazamiseka ngezizathu zokuthenga kwabo. Gwema udoti olungadingekile kuzosiza kusengaphambili isikhathi esithengiswayo sokuthengwa kwezingane ezisanda kuzalwa , esizobe silungiselelwa abangane abangenolwazi noma ngisho nemithombo yethu ye-intanethi. - Izinto ezintsha zokuzilibazisa. Olunye ukubonakaliswa kwesifo sokukhulelwa yisisindo esisha sokuzijabulisa: umuntu othukuthela noma ohlangene ngothando, umuntu uchitha izinsuku eziphelele ekhishini elungiselela ubuciko obusha bokuphelisa, omunye kusukela ekuseni kuze kube kusihlwa ukhula ukhula ... Noma yikuphi ukuzijabulisa okuyoletha umama ozayo injabulo umthetho oyinhloko ungowodwa - akumele umlimaze ingane. Yebo, mayelana nokunye akufanele ukukhohliwe.