Esikhathini sethu, inkulumo ethi "Ngifuna ukushada umsizi" izwakala ngokufana nokuthi "Ngifuna ukushada isikhulu." Lokhu akumangalisi: wonke umuntu ufuna umyeni ocebile ozomvumela ukuba agijime ngokunethezeka ngaphandle kokwenza noma yimiphi imizamo: imali itholakele, izikhathi ezilukhuni lapho yonke into isanda kuqala, futhi ingozi yokuphila komuntu ocebile nayo yadlula, futhi manje konke okusele - ujabulele ukuphila, ungazishiyi lutho.
Lesi sihloko sisekelwe emaqinisweni avela ekuphileni nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabesifazane abangokoqobo, noma abashade bezinyanga eziyisikhombisa.
Ngabe kuphi nokuthi ungatholaphi umsizi?
Kunjengebhizinisi - awukwazi ukuthola imali ngaphandle kokutshala imali kunoma yini. Ngakho-ke, lezo zinhle ezithi "zibeke" abafazi bezigidi, kufanele zilungele ukubiza imali eningi okudingayo ukuze uthole kuqala, bese uchitha ekuthuthukisweni kwakho.
Okokuqala, sizosusa izinkolelo eziningana:
- "Udoti olumile" luba "inhlanzi" ngaphambi kokuhlangana nomninimali.
- Uthando ekuboneni kokuqala aluvamile kakhulu futhi alukwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthonya indoda enomdlandla ukuthatha isinyathelo esijulile ngendlela yobuhlobo obuseduze nomfokazi.
- Abesifazane abanamali ayizintombi ezijwayelekile, ngaphandle kolwazi olungakahle namakhono, okungawuthola umklomelo weNobel, yibo abaye benza izimo eziphumelelayo.
Thola umyeni wezigidi akuyona umsebenzi olula, futhi kunzima nakakhulu ukuthi izinga lakho lomphakathi lihluke kakhulu. Amadoda acebile athambekele ekudaleni ubuhlobo nabesifazane abacebile abafanayo, abanesidingo esihle nesigamu sezihlobo zabo - abantu basesidlangalaleni. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, kukhona okungafani, lapho amantombazane ampofu ehlangana nezigidi zezimo ezijabulisayo, futhi azithatha ngaphansi kwephiko lawo legolide.
Indlela yokuhlangana nomlandi?
Ukuze uhlangabezane nomninimali, udinga ukuzalwa ngempumelelo. Amantombazane avela emindenini enemikhuba enhle enza amathuba amaningi okuhlangana nomuntu ocebile futhi azishiya ngaphezulu kunomqondo omuhle, ngoba anesabelomali esidingekayo futhi angasebenzisa imali ukuze athuthukise ukubukeka kwawo, athuthukise futhi eze emidlalweni ebizayo emhlobiso efanelekile. Ngesikhathi somhlangano, intombazane kufanele ibonise ngokucacile futhi ngokukhethekile, kuphela eceleni.
Ungayitholaphi umholo?
- endaweni evulekile;
- ebhange;
- e-racetrack;
- esithangamini sezombangazwe;
- endaweni yokudlela e-elite;
- eduze nezindawo ezihloniphekile (uRublyovka noma iKapu eJurmala).
Indlela yokujwayelana nomninimali?
Ake sithi ubone umsizi. Ukumazi kuyona mzuzu obaluleke kunayo yonke, okuyinto ekhona, iphupho lakho lizogcwaliseka, noma lizohlala lingelona iqiniso. Uma uhlangana udinga ukucubungula zonke izimo (futhi ngosuku ngaphambi kokuba kube kuhle ukufunda izincwadi ezimbalwa mayelana nokuziphatha kwengqondo yabantu): uma umuntu esheshayo, awudingi ukuphoqa ukhetho lwakho, ukudlala "ingozi" - ngokungahle kwenzeke "ukulahla" indandatho noma i-lipstick, ifoni, uma ume eceleni kwakhe. Umnumzane wangempela ngeke avumele insikazi ukuba iguqe, futhi izothumela into: ngakho uzothola isikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi kukufanele kangakanani ukuzethula nokubonga. Ungakwazi futhi ukuphawula ukuhlonipha kwakhe futhi ukhombise ukuthi amadoda anjengoye, mhlawumbe omatasa. Kuye impendulo, ingxoxo izoqhubeka noma cha.
Uma kwenzeke ukuthi udla endaweni yokudlela eyodwa, bhala inombolo yakho yocingo ku-napkin, futhi, ushiya isikhungo, uye etafuleni lakhe, ukumomotheka ngokumnandi futhi ufake i-napkin.
Into eyinhloko ukwengeza kuqala emhlanganweni wokuqala, ukuze akhumbule wena.
Ungashada kanjani umlimi?
Uma usakwazi ukumthola, wazi kahle futhi uqale ubuhlobo, khona-ke ungaqhubeka ekugcineni - umshado.
Abaningi abakutholi "ukushada" kanye ne-locksmith elula, engathandi njengomunye wezigidi. Bonke abantu bathanda inkululeko, ngakho-ke banikeze okhethiweyo.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuthi uyindoda evamile, akunakwenzeka ukumangala ngezinto ezibonakalayo, ngakho-ke sebenzisa ubuntu bakho, ubonise umusa, ukuqonda, kanye nokuthanda.
Ukusikisela: Ngesikhathi "ukuzingela" kumuntu wezigidi, ngezinye izikhathi ubheke nxazonke, mhlawumbe uzobona nakuba kungesona umuntu ocebile, kodwa okwazi ukukujabulisa futhi ahlale nawe yonke impilo yakho.