Imishado yasekuqaleni

Umshado ungenye yezenzakalo ezinhle kakhulu ezifisa kakhulu ekuphileni kwabantu cishe bonke.

Njengomthetho, lapho abantu abasha bewa othandweni, umqondo womshado ngezinye izikhathi ubonakala ekhanda labo futhi uthatha izindawo ezingaphezulu nsuku zonke. Umphumela umshado wokuqala. Ngokuvamile, umshado uyinto enhle kakhulu. Abantu ababili abanothando bahlangana ngokubambisana ukuze basize futhi basekelelane, bahlanganyele injabulo nezinsizi. Ingabe lokhu kuyiqiniso lapho umshado usencane kakhulu?

Imishado yasekuqaleni - Izinzuzo kanye neNgcono

Ake siqale ngezikhathi ezimbi, bese-sizinikeze kahle. Ngakho-ke, yiziphi izinkinga zomshado wokuqala?

1. I-psyche engaziwa. Yiqiniso, kunoma yikuphi ubudala kubonakala sengathi izinqumo ozenzile zingezakho futhi zinenjongo. Kodwa inkinga ukuthi lo mzwa uzoba njalo esigabeni sokukhula. Okokugcina, i-psyche yomuntu ikhiwa uneminyaka engama-29. Ekuphileni, igcwele izibonelo. Ngisho neminyaka engama-23-25, insizwa noma intombazane iyoba nesikhathi sokushintsha imibono yabo empilweni, ezithakazelisayo nokuzilibazisa. I-ADULT kuphela. Futhi akulona iqiniso lokuthi okhethiweyo, ozobe eseduze, uzovumelana ngempela nalomuntu omusha.
2. Ukwamukela ukukhangwa ngokocansi ngothando. Lokhu kuyiqiniso okungajwayelekile. Njengomusha oseminyakeni kanye nokungazi, amantombazane namantombazane bavame ukuthatha intukuthelo ephuma enkambeni yokuzijwayeza, futhi bakhangane nokungaziwa ngothando. Khona-ke kuvela ukuthi yonke into engaziwayo isivele iyaziwa, futhi okusalayo akuthandi kunoma ubani. Ngenxa yalokho, isipiliyoni esingathandeki nokudumazeka kubantu. Ngenxa yokungaboni kahle.
3. Imicabango engalungile ngokuhlala ndawonye. Mhlawumbe, kulesi sikhathi ungakwazi ukubala ngokuphila okuvele kungazelelwe ekhanda lakho, nokungabi nenkululeko yokuzikhethela, nokungabikho, njengalokhu, ngesisekelo sezenhlalakahle esizimele sokuphila okuzimele.

Zonke ezinye izinkinga zomshado wokuqala zindawo eseduze nalezi zindawo.

Yingakho imishado yokuqala ihle, yilezi:

1. Ukuvumelana nezimo ngokuphathelene nomlingani. Abantu abaye bahlangana ndawonye besencane, kulula kakhulu ukuhlangana nomunye.
2. Umehluko omncane eminyakeni yobudala nezingane. Lokhu kuzosiza abazali ukuba baqonde kangcono izingane futhi, mhlawumbe, babelane ngezithakazelo eziningi nabo.
3. Ubuhlobo besikhathi eside. Ngokusho kwezibalo, abantu abashada imishado yokuqala bawugubha umshado wegolide.

Yiqiniso, isinqumo sokugcina sokwenza umbhangqwana, kodwa uma kunezibonelo eziningi ezikholisayo, ungalinda kancane. Uthando, uma lungokoqobo, aluyikunyamalala kulokhu.