Ngezinye izikhathi isiphetho sisiphonsa izinkinga ezinjalo, isixazululo okufanele sithathwe iminyaka. Ngokuyinhloko kaningi izinkinga ezingokwengqondo eziyinkimbinkimbi zivela lapho kunabambalwa abahlanganyeli abaphoqeleka ukuba bahlanganyele insimu evamile: isibonelo, ozakwabo noma amalungu omndeni. Futhi uma abokuqala, bebuhlobo obubi emsebenzini, babuyela ekhaya, lapho ukufudumala kwezihlobo zabo kulindeleke khona, khona-ke akukho ndawo engaya khona: indlu yabo ayisekho inqaba, kodwa "insimu yangempela yokusebenza kwezempi" ngaphambili.
Ukwaziswa kwengqondo mayelana nobuhlobo emndenini ngenxa yalokhu, futhi kuzomele ziphendukele kubo, lapho ubuhlobo bezihlobo "buqhaqhaza emasontweni."
Izinsisekelo zenhlalakahle: i-psychology yomndeni kanye nobuhlobo bomndeni
- inkinga evamile. Ukubuyisela ukuthula emindenini eyinkinga kubalulekile ukuthi wonke amalungu ayo aqaphele ukuthi lokhu kuyinkinga evamile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo: umuntu wenza okuthile okungalungile, futhi kukhona izingxabano ezidalwe kulokhu;
- usizo olulodwa. Ukuze kuxazululwe noma yikuphi ukungezwani, kubalulekile ukuthi abantu basize omunye nomunye ngisho nokuhlambalaza izithakazelo zabo;
- Izimpi lapho kungekho abawinile khona. Kunoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana komndeni kukhona "abalahlekile" kuphela, ngoba ikhaya liyindawo lapho umuntu angakwazi ukuphunyuka khona ekuhluphekeni futhi abuye aphinde avuse amandla akhe. Uma le "ndawo" iba yindawo engqubuzanayo, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, kudinga umzamo omkhulu.
Inkinga yenombolo 1 ebuhlotsheni bomndeni nabomndeni - umthwalo wemfanelo
Ukungabi nemithwalo yemfanelo yomunye ingenye yezinkinga ezivame kakhulu zomndeni. Bobabili abadala kanye nezingane kufanele baqonde ukuthi kufanele baphathane kakhulu: ukunikeza ukunakekelwa nothando, okuyinto okumele iboniswe hhayi ngamazwi kuphela, kodwa nangezenzo. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuphoqelela umyeni okhathele ukulungisa umnyango, umfazi kufanele aqonde ukuthi kusasa uzoya emsebenzini esekhathele, futhi kuyoba nzima ngaye ukumelana nomncintiswano obusa ngaphandle kwezindonga zendlu. Ukukhathala okuqhubekayo kuzoholela ekutheni uzoyeka ukusebenza futhi alethe imali endlini. Futhi, indoda, ekhuthaza umkakhe ukuba akwazi ukulungisa ukudla ngokushesha noma ukubeka izinto ngendlela efanele endlini, ngemuva kokubuya ekhishiwe emsebenzini - ayinandaba nomsebenzi wakhe.
Indlela yokwakha ubuhlobo emndenini kulokhu? Ukuxazulula inkinga yobugovu nokungahloniphi, kudingeka uzwise ukuthi kungani wenza lokhu. Ngenkhulumomphendvulwano kuphela engakwazi "ukujwayela" amalungu omndeni ukuba anakekele.
Inkinga yenombolo 2 ebuhlotsheni bomndeni - indoda enomlutha noma umfazi
Ukungasebenzi komlingani kumcasula ukungabi nabulungisa kwakhe: kungani umuntu kufanele asebenze kanzima, futhi kusihlwa kusimo sokuthi "ukuphelelwa yisikhathi" sokukhathala kuwela embhedeni, futhi omunye umuntu uphelele, futhi ujabulele umsebenzi womunye? Lokhu futhi kuyinkinga evamile emibhangqwaneni, lapho umlingani oyedwa engenazethulo, futhi enye i-extrovert esebenzayo.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo obunjalo emndenini? Cishe, ukuchaza oshade naye onobuhle ukuthi kunzima kangakanani kuwe nokuthi kufanele asebenze akusizi ngalutho, ngakho-ke udinga ukuyilayisha wena. Ngenxa yalokhu kuyadingeka ukuchaza ngokucacile futhi ngokuhlakanipha lokho okumelwe akwenze namuhla, kusasa, ngenyanga. Qala kangcono ngemidlana emifushane,
Inkinga № 3 yobudlelwane emndenini - isifo sokubeletha noma ubuzwe obukhulu
Uma umndeni unabaholi ababili, noma abameleli bomndeni wesibili nomndeni wezinzalamizi, khona-ke umzabalazo wamandla awukwazi ukugwema.
Indlela yokubeka ukuthula emndenini? Kulesi simo, kwanele ukuba usakaze izindawo "zobukhulu", noma uvumelane - ubuhlobo obulinganayo. Kwanele ukuthi bobabili baqonde ukuthi wonke umuntu ungumuntu ofuna isimo sengqondo esenhlonipho futhi unelungelo nje kuphela lokulalela umbono wakhe, kodwa futhi ukuthi kufanele uma kunjalo ngempela.