Ummeli ngamunye wezocansi ezithandekayo ophendule ukuthi "Yebo" kwisiphakamiso sokushada uqala ukucabanga ngendlela engcono yokuhlela lolu suku oluhle lomshado. Isifiso sokwenza iholide enika imizwa eminingi emihle iyingxenye yazo zonke izintombi. Ngakho-ke, ukulungiswa komshado, njengokubusa, kuqala isikhathi eside ngaphambi kwalolu suku oluthandekayo.
Umbuzo othi "Yini edingekayo ekuhleleni nasekubambeni komshado?" Kuyinto enesithakazelo kubo bonke abashade besikhathi esizayo. Ayikho impendulo eyodwa kulo mbuzo. Kuye ngesilinganiso semikhosi kanye nezintandokazi zomuntu nomakoti nomkhwenyana, ukulungiswa kufanele kuqale. Umshado ngamunye unezigaba ezithile, okufanele zilungiselelwe kusengaphambili. Kusukela kulesi sihloko uzothola okudingekayo ekulungiseleleni umshado futhi ngaphandle kwalokho izinto eziyimfuneko ezingenakukwazi ukuhanjiswa nazo phakathi nomkhosi.
Ngakho, okudingayo ukulungiselela umshado:
- Indawo yokugubha. Inketho ethandwa kakhulu futhi elula iyindawo yokudlela noma i-cafe. Kulezi zikhungo, imishado eminingi yendabuko igujwa. Ngaphambi kokukhetha indawo yokudlela, kudingeka uthathe isinqumo ngenani lezivakashi emshadweni, bangaki babo abesilisa, abesifazane nabantwana.
- Imenyu yomshado. Ukudliwa etafuleni lokugubha - lokhu kungenye yezingqinamba ezibaluleke kakhulu kulokho okudingekayo ngosuku lomshado. Ngokwenza imenyu endaweni yokudlela, njengomthetho, umlawuli usiza. Uchwepheshe uzokusiza ukuba ukhethe inani elifanele lezitsha ukuze itafula lihle futhi liguquke. Uma uzogubha umshado ekhaya, imenyu kufanele ihlanganiswe ngokuzimela. Futhi, kuyadingeka ukuba unakekele lowo wesinye isihlobo esisize ekulungiseleleni izitsha zemikhosi.
- Ezokuthutha zomshado. Ukucabanga ngalokho okufanele ukwenze ngomshado, awukwazi ukuphuthelwa umzuzu obalulekile njengenhlangano yezokuthutha izivakashi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzeke yini umkhosi kanye nendawo lapho kuyogubha khona umkhosi, zonke izihambeli zidinga ukuhlela ukuhamba okuvela ehhovisi lokubhalisa ukuya endaweni yokudlela noma endlini. Uma ufisa, ungahle ulandele imimine noma enye imoto enhle kumakoti nomkhwenyana.
- Isithombe nokudubula kwevidiyo. Kuze kube manje, akukho mshado ongeke ukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komthwebuli wezithombe. Uma ucabanga ngalokho okufanele ukwenze ngaphambi komshado, qiniseka ukuthi ufaka kuhlu losesho oludingekile lomthwebuli wezithombe nomsebenzi we-opharetha.
- Uhlelo lwamasiko lomshado. Ukukhathazeka ngombuzo walokho okudingekayo ekulungiseleleni umshado, kubalulekile ukucabangela ngokucophelela ukuthi izivakashi zizojabula kanjani ngalolu suku olukhanyayo. Kusukela ekuseni kakhulu, okuqhubekayo ehhovisi lokubhalisa, izindawo ezingakhohlwayo edolobheni nasemapaki, futhi ekupheleni kokudlela, uhlelo oluhle lwezivakashi kufanele luhlelwe.
Ingxenye enkulu yokulungiselela umshado, ngokwemvelo, iwela emahlombe omakoti nomkhwenyana. Akudingeki nje ukuba banakekele ukubukeka kwabo, kodwa futhi bahlele ngokugcwele usuku lomshado ngendlela yokuthi zonke izivakashi zijabule.
Yini umakoti adinga umshado? Okokuqala, indoda ethandekayo njengomkhwenyana. Futhi, ukusekelwa kwezihlobo nobufakazi obuthembekile, ngubani ozosiza ukukhetha ingubo nezinye izinto ezidingekayo.
Yini umkhwenyana adinga umshado? Ngaphezu kokuthandwa njengomlobokazi, umkhwenyana udinga umngane omuhle njengofakazi, ozosiza enhlanganweni futhi akutshele ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezidingekayo emshadweni.
Kuyaziwa ukuthi indima ebalulekile emshadweni idlalwe ngufakazi kanye nofakazi. Uma unenhlanhla futhi wamenywe emshadweni njengofakazi, khona-ke udinga ukwazi ukuthi ufakazi uphinde ufakaze izidingo zomshado:
- babe nesigqoko sezinyosi eziningana nezindaba ezithakazelisayo ezivela ekuphileni kwabancane ngokuhalalisela;
- ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi izindlu nezibuko zokubetha, izipho zemincintiswano, i-champagne nezinye izinto ezincane azikhohliwe ekhaya;
- wazi ukuthi ungathini emshadweni, ikakhulukazi uma umakoti nomkhwenyana bengalawuli umphathi wezinsikazi;
- siza umphathi wezinsizakalo ekuqhubeni imincintiswano futhi ahlele imicimbi ejabulisayo ehlukahlukene.