Ukuziqeda ngokocansi - ukuyeka ukuzibandakanya kwamadoda nabesifazane - imiphumela

Ngenxa yezizathu eziningana, amadoda nabesifazane baphoqeleka ukuba babe nesimo sokuphumula ngokocansi. Ukuzithiba ngokocansi kudluliselwa ngabantu ngabanye ngabanye, futhi izinga lokucindezeleka noma ukucasuka ngenxa yokungakwazi ukwanelisa ukulamba ngokocansi kuxhomeke ekutheni ubumnene nomqondo womuntu.

Kusho ukuthini ukuziyeka?

Ukuziqeda ngokobulili kungokwesayensi yezokwelapha ukuzonda ngokobulili noma ukulahlwa, okubonakala ngokuphumula okuphoqelekile ekuphileni kocansi . Izizathu zokuziqeda zingahluka:

• isimo sempilo;
• ukungabikho komlingani wezocansi;
• imikhuba engokomoya;
• i-celibacy dinner (lelibacy);
• imincintiswano ezayo phakathi kwabadlali;
• u-asexualality;
• izizathu zomuntu ngamunye.

Izinhlobo zokuziyeka:

1. Ukuziqhayisa okuyingxenye - ukungakwazi ukulala ngokobulili kunxephezelwa ukushaya indlwabu noma ukungcola kwamadoda emadodeni (ejaculation).
2. Ukuziqeda konke - umsebenzi wocansi kuwo wonke ukubonakaliswa awukho ngokuphelele.

Kungani ukuzithiba?

Ukulungiswa kokuziqeda kusekelwe ezizathu ezenza lesi simo. Ikhefu elifushane lokuphila ngokobulili lisiza ukuzwakalisa imizwa yabalingani futhi kukhulise ukukhangana kwabo komunye nomunye. Ukuziyeka isikhathi eside kudingekile ukubuyisela amandla ngesikhathi nangemva kokugula okukhulu, lapho wonke amandla eqondiswa ukubuyisela ibhalansi emzimbeni nokuchitha amandla ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi kungasusa isimo somuntu. Ukuzilahla ngokweqile kobulili noma ukungabi nobuqili kuyisimo esiyingozi , okuyisimo esibalulekile ekusebenzeni ngokomoya kwezinye izinkolo.

Ukuziqeda kwabesifazane

Kwabesifazane, ukusondelana ngokobulili nomlingani kuyisihluthulelo sobudlelwano obuzinzile obujabulisayo. Ezindaweni eziseduze, owesifazane uqhuma futhi udala isizinda esihle samandla azungezile. Ukuziqeda ubulili besifazane kuvame kakhulu ngenxa yezici zabo zomzimba: isikhathi sokuya esikhathini, ukukhulelwa. Abamele ubulili obuhle benesisindo esiphakeme sezocansi (i-choleric, sanguine) kunzima ukukhuthazelela izikhathi zokuziyeka, ngokungafani nabesifazane abathandekayo nabangenangqondo.

Ukusebenzisa ukuzithiba kwabesifazane

Ukuyeka ukuzibandakanya kwezocansi kwabesifazane abanesimo esiphansi sezocansi akunawo umthelela omubi ngisho nokuqinisa umsebenzi wesistimu yezinzwa. Ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, ikhefu lezocansi livimbela ukungena kwamabhaktheriya e-pathogenic emgodini we-uterine, okuyingozi kakhulu kulezi zinsuku. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuyeka ukuzibandakanya ngokocansi okwesikhashana ngenxa yezizathu eziningi akusona isizathu sokuphelelwa ithemba, kodwa ithuba lokugxila ezintweni ezinhle:

1. Ukuvuselelwa kwezinzwa. Kubudlelwane obulandelayo, kukhona ukuhlukumezeka kokubona ubuhlobo, konke kwenzeka kuvelele "elisha", ngokuzizwa okukhulu kakhulu.
2. Ukunciphisa izinyathelo kuyindlela yokuguqula amandla angcolile ngokobulili ekudalweni noma ekudalweni. Ukudalwa kwemisebenzi yobuciko, amaphrojekthi amasha, ukugeleza kwemibono.
3. Ukuzilahla, njengesidingo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa - ku-I no-III trimesters ngesongo sokukhulelwa kwesisu. Ukuzalwa komama kuyisici esibalulekile senjabulo yomndeni wesifazane futhi izinzuzo zokuziqeda ziyabonakala.

Ukuziqeda kwabafazi - imiphumela

Ukuzilahla ngokocansi emantombazaneni nabesifazane abasha akuholeli kunoma yiziphi izinkinga ezinkulu, kodwa uma owesifazane ephila ngokugcwele ngokocansi isikhathi esanele, ukuvimbela ngokocansi ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle kungabangela izinqwaba ezihlukahlukene zezinkinga kanye nokugula "okunqunywe" emzimbeni amazinga ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Imiphumela yokuziqeda ingaba kanje:

• ukungalingani kwe-hormonal yenani;
• ukukhuluphala;
• iziqhwaga ezincane ezisekhanda elincane elithinta ekwakheni imivimbo ye-varicose;
• ukukhula kwezidumbu (i-myoma, i-fibromyoma, ukukhathazeka);
• Izifo zegciwane le-thyroid;
• ukunciphisa inani lamasosha omzimba;
• i- premenstrual syndrome ebizwa;
• ikhono eliphakeme lomzwelo;
• ukuguquka komlingiswa okubi nakakhulu: ukuqina, ukugxeka, ukukhathazeka;
• ukushisa ngokobulili;
• ukungavumelani ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabalingani ngenxa yokuntuleka kokusondela.

Ukuzigcina emadodeni

Ngamadoda kunzima ngokwengeziwe, ngokwemvelo yabo, oqine kakhulu bacabanga kabanzi ngezocansi, kanye ne-physiology ngokushesha kwenza uzizwe ujabule. Amadoda amaningi, emini angase ajabule kaningi. Ukuziqeda kwamadoda kunzima kunabesifazane. Ukuvimbela ukuvimbela ngokocansi kunzima kakhulu ukubekezelela abameleli be-hypersexual. Uma engekho umlingani, amadoda athambekele ekubhubheni kaningi kunabesifazane.

Ukusebenzisa ukuzithiba kwamadoda

Kuyinto ewusizo noma engekho ngokocansi emadodeni - ayikho imibono engafanele. Ukuntula kocansi kancane kungabangeli umonakalo omkhulu, kodwa kunama-pluses ayo. Ukusebenzisa ukuzithiba kubonakala emacaleni alandelayo:

1. Izifo zenhliziyo - ekugugeni, ukulala ngokocansi njalo kwenza umthwalo obalulekile enhliziyweni, akuyona into engavamile ngomphumela obulalayo ngesikhathi socansi kusuka ekuhlaselweni kwenhliziyo noma ngesifo sohlangothi.
2. Ingozi yokuthola izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi - injabulo yesikhashana igcwele imiphumela ebeka usongo empilweni nasekuphileni. Ubulili ngaphandle kwezibopho emaqenjini, izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa eziphoqelelwe ukuphenduka kubantu.
3. Isimo sengqondo sokucophelela kwimithombo yomzimba wakho. Ucwaningo lwamuva lwama-biologist angaphandle lugxile ekuqedeni ukungaqondi kahle ukuthi ukuziyeka kuyingozi. Ukufunda ukubunjwa kwesidoda, ososayensi bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi imvelo yinto edingekayo equkethe i-lecithin, i-phosphorus, i-calcium namaprotheni. Ngokuxhumana nabo ngokocansi njalo, umzimba ulahlekelwa lezi zinsiza ezibalulekile, ngenxa yalokho, isimiso sezinzwa esiyinhloko sibhekene nokuhlukumeza. Kholelwa lokhu noma cha, wonke umuntu uyazikhethela yena.
4. Ukuthuthukiswa kwe-spermatogenesis nokubunjwa kwesidoda. Izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuziqeda ngaphambi kokuba umklamo ohleliwe unomthelela ekwandeni komsebenzi we-spermatozoa, okwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa. Kunemibono ehlukile.

Ukwehla isikhathi eside kwamadoda - imiphumela

Ukuzigwema okubi ngamadoda akuyona impendulo engafanele, bonke ngabanye, kodwa uma sicabanga izinkomba ezijwayelekile ezidweba isithombe somuntu osebenzayo ekutholeni kokuphila nokuzikhandla, futhi lokhu kuyiningi lamadoda amasha, ngakho ukuyeka ukuzibophezela kunika izibikezelo ezidabukisayo empilweni. Imiphumela engenzeka yokuzilahla ngokocansi:

• Ukunciphisa okuqhubekayo ngesifiso socansi, njengalokhu ngemuva kokuyeka ukuzidela;
• ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi;
• ukuthuthukiswa kwezinkinga ze-neuroses kanye ne-inferiority complex;
• ukwesaba abantu abajwayelene nabo;
• ukwesaba nokuhlukunyezwa;
• ukucindezelwa kwesimiso se-prostatic;
• i-varicose veins ye-scrotum;
• izicubu (i-prostate adenoma, umdlavuza we-testicular);
• ukungabi namandla.

Ukuzila ukudla emdlalweni

Ukunqotshwa ngokocansi emdlalweni kubuyele ezikhathini zasendulo, lapho abaphathi bezempi beqaphela ukuthi amasosha ababengekho ebuhlotsheni aboniswa kangcono emincintiswaneni nasempi. Ngakho kwaba nombono oqinile wokuthi lo mdlali ngaphambi kokuqeqesha kufanele agxile kulo mphumela ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuyaziwa ukuthi umbhokisi wezinkampani u-Mohammed Ali waphawula ukuzithiba isikhathi esingakapheli inyanga eyodwa nesigamu ngaphambi kokulwa.

Ukuziqeda ekwakheni umzimba kudinga indima ebalulekile, nakuba kunemibono ephikisanayo kulolu phuzu. Ukuziqeda nokukhula kwemisipha kuhlobene komunye nomunye ngokuthi, ngokusebenza ngokweqile ngokobulili, izinga le-testosterone, elithinta ukwanda komzimba we-muscle, liwela ngamandla, ngokuphindaphindiwe kwe-prolactin, i-hormone yesifazane. Abagijimi abanolwazi bayazi ukuthi ubulili buwusizo kuphela emva kokuqeqesha noma ukuncintisana, kodwa hhayi ngaphambi kwabo.

Ungafunda kanjani ukuyeka?

Uma umuntu, nganoma yiziphi izizathu, enza isinqumo mayelana nokuphefumula ngokocansi okwesikhashana (ukuzila ukudla, imikhuba engokomoya, ukuhlukanisana nomuntu othandekayo isikhathi sokuhamba kwebhizinisi), ungasinda kanjani kanzima kule nkathi futhi ufunde indlela yokunciphisa ubukhulu bezifiso? Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuzivimbela ngokulinganisela emsebenzini wobulili ngezinye izikhathi kuyasiza emzimbeni.

Yini engasiza abasebenza ngokuziqeda:

• ukugxila ekukhuleni okungokomoya nokuzikhulisa;
• ukuthuthukisa ngalesi sikhathi sokudala nobuciko;
• sebenzisa amasu ahlukahlukene wokuzindla (ukuzindla, ukuzindla okunamandla ku-Osho);
• uhlanganyele emdlalweni osebenzayo.

Izinganekwane mayelana nokuziyeka

Ukuziqeda ngokocansi kugcwele ukucatshangelwa okuhlukahlukene kanye nokungafani. Kukhona izinkolelo ezilandelayo mayelana nokuziqeda:

1. Ukungabi nobulili kungabangela lesi sifo schizophrenia, kudala ukucabangela kwe-pedophilia kanye ne-zoophilia. Lokhu akulona iqiniso, ngoba isisekelo salezi zibonakaliso sivame ukulala okungavamile kokuzalwa okungavamile.
2. Ukuziqeda isikhathi eside emadodeni nakwabesifazane kungabangela ukuyeka esikhathini sokuqala. Yebo, kunento enjengokuqothulwa kwesilisa. Kukholelwa ukuthi le nthano yakhiwa izinkampani zokwelapha ngokuthengiswa okungcono kwekhondomu.
3. Ukuguqulwa kwamandla wezocansi ekudaleni ngenkathi beyeka. Ingxenye yalokhu kuyiqiniso, uma umuntu edala ngokubumba futhi ecashunwe ngemibono, isikhathi sokuziyeka kancane kuye sidlula ngokuhlukumezeka, kubo bonke abanye, ukuyeka isikhashana ngokocansi kubangela okungenani kungakhululekile.