Bangaki amadoda ahlasela i-rake efanayo, efuna owesifazane wezomnotho, othembekile nonokuqhathaniswa, kodwa ngokungajwayelekile akhethe abantu abasha, abathandekayo nabangenangqondo! Futhi abesifazane? Bakhononda ngokuthi la madoda ahambe kabi manje - angenacala futhi avilapha, kodwa adinga ukuzwa kubo amazwi othando, njengoba alungele ukuxazulula zonke wona futhi azikhumbule emisebenzini emithathu. Kukhona incazelo enengqondo yokuthi kungani abesifazane bathanda izindlebe zabo, namadoda anamehlo.
Iphuzu lokubuka kwesayensi
Njengoba kuyaziwa, abesifazane banokuthuthukiswa okuphezulu kwesokunxele sobuchopho, nasemadodeni - ngakwesokudla. Isobunxele sinesibopho sokukhuluma, futhi ilungelo lombono. Futhi kwabesifazane, indawo ebhekene nokuvuswa kobulili iseduze nendawo yesifunda sobuchopho obhekene nokuzwa. Ngenxa yalokho, izimpikiswano zesibindi ezivela ezinyangeni ngokusebenzisa iziteshi zemisipha, zisebenzise izigaba eziseduze, futhi owesifazane ujabule ngokuthi uyalizwa izwi lomuntu, ukwemukelwa okungabambeleli nje kuphela, kodwa umyalezo ngokwawo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuchopho besifazane bukhulula amagremu angu-100 ngaphansi (!) Owesilisa, okusho ukuthi ama-neurons asondelene kakhulu, ukushintshaniswa kolwazi kwenzeka ngokushesha, okusho izinqubo ezisheshayo zokucabanga.
Yingakho inkulumo eyaziwa ngokuthi "ingqondo yesifazane" ivele. Abamele ubulili obuhle bangenza izinto eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa, baphonswa ngapha nangapha. Bangacabanga into eyodwa, bathi lesibili bese wenza okwesithathu. Manje kusobala ukuthi kungani abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo, namadoda anamehlo ngoba imvelo ngokwawo isungula umzimba wayo ukuba usakaze abesifazane abaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba banomthwalo wokukhiqiza. Uma owesifazane ejabule ngokubona nje umuntu, kwakuyoba khona inhlekelele futhi iplanethi iyande kakhulu. Lo wesilisa, ujabule lapho ebona owesifazane omuhle, ekulungele ukuba ngubaba, kodwa lona wesifazane udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ubaba uzoba yimuphi - kuhle noma omubi bese enza isinqumo mayelana nokusebenza kahle kohlelo.
Ingxenye yengqondo yombuzo
Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, owesifazane uthanda izindlebe, ngoba ufuna ukuzizwa efunwa futhi eningi kakhulu. Ukuncoma kwansuku zonke nezinkulumo zenhliziyo kuya ezidingekayo ukuze afane nomoya. Uhlonipha ukuthula komlingani wakhe njengokunganakwa futhi ngaphandle kokuthola impendulo emphefumulweni wakhe, uzomfuna kwenye indawo. Labo abanesithakazelo sokuthi kungani abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo, ungaphendula ngokuthi uyathandana ngamazwi, uthando lomshado kanye nezinganekwane, okushiwo umlingani wakhe ngezingxoxo eziqotho. Abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo kanye nenye inkulumo ethi: "Ngiyakuthanda" silungele ukugubha izintaba futhi zihudulele kuzo zonke izinkinga zokuphila komndeni, isikhathi sokulandela indlu, nokufundisa izingane, nokusebenza, nokujabulisa indoda.
Abamele isigamu esinamandla sabantu banenkululeko yokuthanda inkululeko, futhi ngisho nasebudlelwaneni obuhlala njalo, abahlukumezi ukuba nomcimbi ohlangothini, bazivumelanisa ukuthi kuyiphutha lemvelo. Abavele bengakwazi ukungazinaki ucingo lomunye wesifazane omncane futhi onomusa kakhulu oneminyaka engu-20 ubudala obelethayo. Kodwa lapha okuningi kuzoxhomeka emfundweni, imibono yendoda ethile emshadweni nokuthembeka kwabalingani babo, ngoba abantu bahluke ezilwaneni, bayazi ukuthi bacabangani futhi babala kanjani imiphumela yezenzo zabo. Njengoba ekwazi ukuyeka isilingo, uyaqonda ukuthi kungani enza lokho, kodwa ukuvimbela isifiso kuye, ebheka abesifazane ababesigqoke isigamu emgwaqeni, ezokuthutha umphakathi noma nge-cinema, akakwazi.
Ngakho bakha ubudlelwane phakathi komunye nomunye njengoba bengaboni izimpumputhe, befunda izici zobulili nokufunda ukuxoxa. Indoda ngeke ishiye owesifazane uma iqonda ukuthi inhle kakhulu ukuthi ngeke ishiywe yodwa, futhi umlingani wakhe naye uzothatha elinye indwangu ezindlebeni zakhe futhi athande abathembekile bakhe ngaphandle kokukhumbula.