Kwabonakala sengathi kungunaphakade. Kubonakala sengathi akekho noyedwa ongakuhlukanisa. Uzulazula uzungeze umuzi ophethe izandla, wawudlwengula ngenjabulo, futhi abadlula-ngokumomotheka, bakubheka emgwaqeni ... Futhi manje sekuphelile. Awusasekho ndawonye. Futhi noma ngabe ukuhlukanisa kuyisinyathelo sakho, ukususa othandekayo enkumbulweni kunzima kakhulu. Ngeshwa, asikho ukwelashwa, uthando, umkhuba. Akekho udokotela kuwe embuzweni: "Yini okumelwe ukwenze ukukhohlwa umfana?" Ngeke uphendule futhi ubeke imithi ayiphuzile, futhi ngokushesha yaba kuhle. Kusemakhanda akho, futhi nguwe kuphela owazi ukuthi ungakhohlwa kanjani isoka lakho langaphambili. Ake sizame ukuthola indlela ndawonye.
Okokuqala, tshela bonke abangani bakho nabangani bakho bobudlelwane ukuthi awuseni umbhangqwana, futhi uzama ukuthola izindlela zokukhohlwa lo mfana. Makwazeke ukuthi awusenayo ndawonye. Awudingi ukuthi akukhumbuze futhi ngaye.
Amanye amantombazane azama ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kweso simo ngokulalela izincomo zengqondo. Futhi batusa ngani? Kusukela iseluleko esithile sengqondo sokuthi ungakhohlwa kanjani umfana, ukunakwa kwami kwakudonselwa omunye, okuthakazelisa kakhulu, ngokombono wami, iseluleko. Udinga ukuza nebhokisi lezinhlamvu. Yebo, into efana ne-"Well it ..." noma, njengo-Scarlett yathi: "Angiyikucabanga ngakho namhlanje, ngizocabanga kusasa." Futhi njalo lapho imicabango yakho ibuyela esikhathini esidlule, udinga ukuphinda le nkulumo. Mhlawumbe, okokuqala uzodinga ukukusho kaningi, kodwa yini ongayenza? UMoscow akakhiwanga ngokushesha.
Hlala phansi, uthathe ucezu lwephepha bese ubhala kuso zonke izimfanelo ezimbi ze-ex yakho. Ucabanga ukuthi akanayo? Wonke umuntu unayo, asivele sibone lapho beseduze, uma bathandana. Uqale nje, uzozibona kamuva.
Khuluma kaningi kaningi nabangani. Hamba nabo ukuhamba ezitolo noma nje uhlale e-cafe. Bangcono kunanoma yiziphi izazi zengqondo zinikeza iseluleko ukuthi ungakhohlwa kanjani umfana. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, uma ungatholi kahle ngezimpawu zokubhala ezedlule, bazothola amaphutha amaningi e-isoka lakho langaphambili, noma ngabe unomhawu ngemfihlo.
Vakashela i-beauty salon. Gcwalisa izinwele zezinwele noma ukushintsha izinwele zakho ekhadini, ushintshe umbala. Bathi ukuphela kwezinwele kuya kulo lonke ulwazi esingaludingi, futhi emva kwakho konke, thina kanye nje sifuna ukukuqeda, akunjalo?
Yini enye engingayenza ukuze ngikhohlwe umfana? Yenza isifundo noma umsebenzi. Kungenxa yakhe ukuthi usanda kumshiya. Kungenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho ngokomzwelo nangothando. Manje yisikhathi sokubamba. Shanyisa endaweni yayo bese kuqala, ukuzethemba kwakho kuzovuka, futhi okwesibili, uzoba nesikhathi esincane sokukhumbula umfana futhi uhlupheke ngakho!
Zatei ukuhlanza indlu. Kuyadingeka ukusula wonke amashalofu omhlabathi, ngokuqinisekile, kunezinkumbulo eziningi ezinikele zona. Khetha ibhokisi elihlukile, noma idonga elide kunazo zonke letafula, lapho ungaboni khona, futhi ufake konke okukhumbuza ngomuntu owayengumfana. Zonke izithombe zakho ezihlangene, zonke izipho zakhe namaphostakhadi. Ngendlela, ngalesi sigaba, ngeke kube kubi ukusula wonke ama-sms ayo kanye nama-mms kusuka efonini.
Ngokuvamile, indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhohlwa umuntu oyedwa ukuthola enye! Yiya kuma-discos futhi uhambe emapaki, vakashela iminyuziyamu namabhayisikobho, uhlangabezane namadoda futhi udlala ngothando. Manje akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi kungenzeka ukuba wenze lokhu, okokuqala ngqa esikhathini sokugcina sesishiyagalolunye, kodwa futhi kuyadingeka nakanjani. Emgwaqweni wakho, endaweni yakho, edolobheni lakho, uma kukhona abantu abaningi kakhulu, futhi ngamunye wabo ngenjabulo uzokusiza ukhohlwe umfana, ngisho noma yena ngokwakhe engazi ngalokhu!