Udlame lwasekhaya olubhekiswe kwabesifazane

Akekho owesifazane onothando ongenawo amandla wokuthi isandla somuntu obonakale, izolo, kwakuwukubonakaliswa komuntu oyingelosi, uzovuka kuye. Ubudlova emndenini phezu kowesifazane akumukeleki. Futhi umuntu ngamunye, ozihloniphayo, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi benzeni nokuthi ubani okufanele akwazi ukubhekana naye kumacala anjalo.

Ukuxhashazwa ngokomzimba emndenini

Inkinga yobudlova emndenini ihambisana nanamuhla. Wonke umuntu omncane uyaqaphela ukuthi igama elithi "indlu" kufanele likhumbule kuphela izinkumbulo ezifudumayo, ukuzwela okujabulisayo, futhi hhayi ukuphakamisa imizwa emibi egcwele ukuhlupheka.

Ngokwezibalo, ubudlova basekhaya kwenzeka emindenini yonke yesihlanu. Amalungu amaningi emindeni enhle kangaka ayibheki ukuthi kufanelekile ukuba umuntu akhulume ngakho. Okubi nakakhulu, abashadile abathandanayo bayesaba ukuvutha kwentukuthelo yesilisa futhi isikhathi ngasinye bazikhuthaze ukuthi " Ukushaywa kusho ukuthandwa ."

Psychology of Violence Domestic

Ngokuvamile, labo abazama ukufakazela ukufaneleka kwabo noma ukuzibophezela nganoma yikuphi izindleko baphakamise izandla zabo ukuvala abantu. Ngokuyinhloko, lo muntu uhlangabezana nezinkinga. Kubonakala sengathi uphuthelwe yizwe lonke. Akukakushiywa ukuthi lowo muntu onomhlaba wangaphakathi ohluphekile akanalo amandla okwanele okubhekana nokunyuka kwemizwelo.

Umhlukumezi womndeni angasebenzisa ubudlova ngokobulili emndenini wakhe, okungahambi nje kuphela ezinkingeni zomzimba zesisulu, kodwa nasekubhekaneni nokucindezeleka kwengqondo.

Ubudlova emndenini - lapho ozoya khona?

Uma ngabe ulawulwa ubudlova. Yiba nesibindi futhi ushintshe impilo yakho ngcono ngokuxhumana neziphathimandla ezilandelayo:

1. Isikhungo Samazwe Omhlaba Sokuvikela Amalungelo Abesifazane. Inombolo yocingo ingatholakala kwi-Inthanethi kuye ngokuthi izwe elihlala kuyo.
2. Ihhovisi Lomndeni, Intsha Nezemidlalo.
3. Isikhungo sezinsizakalo zomphakathi zomndeni, izingane nezingane.

Ukuvimbela udlame lwasekhaya

Ngeke kube okungadingekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izingxabano zivela ngenxa yokungaqondi noma ukuhlukunyezwa kotshwala . Ngakho-ke, ukuze uvimbele udlame lomndeni, uhambisane nemithetho elandelayo:

1. Gwema ukukhamuluka, ukukhuluma ngamathoni aphakanyisiwe.
2. Yiba nokuhlakanipha futhi ngesikhathi sokushisa komfutho ufunda ukushiya ingxoxo.
3. Ukwazi uhlobo lomlingiswa womuntu othandekayo, unqume ukuthi uzoba yini engqondweni yakhe futhi uzokwazi ukukuchazela isizathu sokunganaki kwakhe.

Hlonipha futhi uzithande ngokwakho, ungalokothi uvumele noma ubani akuphathe njengesigqila.