Uma usuvele uhlangane nendoda isikhathi eside, noma uhlala nomyeni wakho, khona-ke ungasho ukuthi ufundele kahle ngokwanele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuhle kakhulu, "ukuxubana" komunye nomunye, ufunde zonke izinkinga futhi ubekezelele. Kodwa ingxenye ye-flip yalokhu ingaba ukubikezela komlingani wakho ngisho nokuqedwa kwesithakazelo. Kule ndaba, amantombazane nabesifazane abaningi bazama ukumangaza lo muntu ngento ethile. Isifiso sokwenza lokhu siyancomeka kakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi isithakazelo sakho kumlingani wakho asizange siphele, futhi ufuna ukukhulisa ubudlelwano bobuhlobo futhi ubenze kube mnandi futhi kujabulise. Ake sihlolisise ukuthi ungamangala kanjani nokuthi ungamangala kanjani umuntu.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukunakwa
Njengoba iqiniso lasendulo lithi, imigwaqo ayiyona isipho, ukunakekelwa okubizayo. Futhi kunjalo ngempela. Thatha iseluleko, ungamangala kanjani indoda enomboniso wokumnaka. Mnike isikhathi, zama ukuba umlaleli olalelisayo, umbuze ngomsebenzi, ukuzilibazisa, isikhathi esichithwa nabangani. Landela ngokucophelela amagama akhe, ukuziphatha, zama ukubamba isimo sengqondo, ubheke isizathu, lapho izenzo zakhe zingase zihlobene khona. Kodwa ungafani neshloli se-scout, zama ukwenza ukubonisa kwakho kube mnandi futhi kulungile. Zonke lezi zici zizokusiza ukwazi ukuthi ungamangala kanjani indoda yakho ethandekayo.
Kulula kakhulu ukuthakazelisa insizwa encane kunokumangala umuntu omdala. Kodwa-ke, ngisho noma uhlale umshado nomyeni wakho othandekayo iminyaka eminingi, ungaphelelwa ithemba, iseluleko sethu sizokufundisa ukuthi yini engamangala umuntu. Zama ukuthola nokuqonda okuthandwa ngumuntu wakho othandekayo, angabonisa ekukhulumeni kwansuku zonke. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukubamba lokhu, cela izihlobo zakhe noma abangane bakhe, mhlawumbe wabelane nabo ngezinto ezizifunayo.
Khetha isipho
Sonke sithanda ukuthola izipho, futhi abanye bathanda ngisho nokuzethula ngaphezulu. Indlela elula yokubonisa ukunakekelwa kwakho othandekayo, ukukhombisa ukuthi uyithande kangakanani kuye, uyomangala umuntu onesipho. Uma wazi umlingani wakho kahle, ngeke kube nzima ukuqagela ukuthi yini ngempela angathanda ukuyithola kakhulu. Ake sibone ukuthi umangaze ukumangala kanjani indoda.
Ukukhetha okulula kuyisipho esibizayo. Uma ungakwazi ukukukhokhela, kufanele uthenge okuthile indoda yakho ephupha isikhathi eside kakhulu, kodwa ayizuzi ngezizathu eziningana. Okungenani, isibonelo, ngoba uthenga izipho ezibizayo kuwe. Manje sekuyisikhathi sakho ukumangaza othandekayo wakho ngekhophi ebalulekile. Uma isabelomali sakho sinciphile, kuzodingeka uzame ukuthola ukuthi ungamangala yini indoda yakho ethandekayo. Noma kunjalo, khumbula ukuthi isipho kufanele sibe isimanga esingalindelekile, kuphela kulokhu kungamangala umuntu.
Njengesipho, ungabonisa futhi wena owathandayo ... wena! Noma kunalokho, umdonsele umdanso ongathandeki, uthathe izifundo ezimbalwa ze-striptease, ufunde ukwenza ukusikhipha kwe-Thai, noma ngisho nokudlala imidlalo yokudlala indima. Ngikholelwa, akukho lutho olungamangaza umuntu kunokuba ubulili bakho bubethe phezu komphetho.
Indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu
Kuye kwaziwa isikhathi eside ukuthi akekho umuntu ozoyeka ukudla okunomsoco.
Kunoma yikuphi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi indlela oyikhethayo, isifiso sokuhlukanisa impilo yakho ndawonye kanye nokumangaza othandekayo wakho kuyoba usizo kuwe. Izindlela ezinjalo zingasindisa ngisho umbhangqwana ovela enkingeni futhi "bytovuhi" ebuhlotsheni.