Ukuhawukela owesifazane, ngokumangalisayo, ukugxila emmpandeni wakhe esikhathini esedlule esidlule, lapho usuku lonke luhlala khona, ngomqondo onzima kakhulu wezwi, ukunqoba emzabalazweni wokusinda.
Ubani ozothola ama-mammoth?
Ngaphezu kokuthi imvelo ihlale ikukhumbuza ukuthi udinga ngokuqhubeka ngandlela-thile uhlobo lokudla, ngakho-ke lapha futhi unesidingo sokudla, futhi ama-tiger ahlaselwe ngamabhomu agijima azungeze ukufuna inyamazane, nokudla kwakho kwasemini, nesimo sezulu esiphezulu njalo futhi siphonsa ke ekushiseni, bese kubanda. Zama kulezi zimo, kuvame ukukhuthazela nokukhula inzalo.
Ngokuvamile, kulula kakhulu ukubhekana nazo zonke lezi zinkinga uma kukhona owesilisa onamandla nesibindi esiseduze naye, edlala indima yomzingeli, umphangi nomvikeli. Kodwa kunenkinga eyodwa kuphela encane ephakama: kuzokwenzekani uma le "emangcwabeni iso" ngokuzumayo ibeka iso kwelinye umuntu okhangayo? Kuyacaca ukuthi: uzoqala ukunikeza zonke izimbuzi ezibulalayo kuye kanye nezingane zakhe, futhi wena nabantwana bakho nizophela ngaphandle kokudla nokuvikelwa, noma noma kunjalo, kuzodingeka nihlanganyele isinkwa sakho nsuku zonke nale "sterlet."
Futhi ucabange ukuthi i-alpha yakho yesathelaythi enhle inezinhlobonhlobo ezikulokhu okungaqondakali futhi uzozama ukuzijabulisa ngendawo yakhe ngesikhathi esisodwa se-coquette embalwa ngaphambili. Khona-ke izinto zimbi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma isikhathi silambile. Yini ofuna ukuyizwa ngaleso sikhathi? Injabulo nokuziqhenya kumthandi wakho othandwa kakhulu? Kulula. Futhi-ke, empeleni, kukhona umbuzo ocindezelayo: yini okufanele uyenze? Kukhona kuphela izitolo ezimbili lapha: noma zihlale zifakazela ukuthi ungumyalo ophakeme kakhulu kunabo bonke "izidalwa" ezikuzungezile, ukuze indoda yakho ingabi nokungabaza ngokuthi ngubani ozokhetha ukuqhubeka kohlobo, noma ukusebenzisa zonke izindlela ezingenakwenzeka futhi ezingenakwenzeka ukuqeda abaphikisanayo. Ngakho-ke, singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi umhawu wabesifazane uyabakhuthaza ngokwemvelo ukuze babelethe, baphakamise futhi bavikele inzalo yabo ukuze kuzuze ukuziphendukela kwemvelo.
Konke ukuncintisana!
Njengoba kukhonjisiwe ngenhla, ingqondo yengqondo yabesifazane isekelwe ekukhunjweni kwezakhi zofuzo , futhi, njengoba uyazi, into enenkani. Futhi utshela bonke abafazi abathandekayo iqiniso elilodwa elingenakuphikwa: uma umuntu wamaphupho akho engakuboni (kahle, noma engaboni kuwe kuphela), ke-ke, isethi sakho sezakhi zofuzo ezivezwe idatha yakho yangaphandle neyengqondo ayihambisani naye kakhulu, okusho ukuthi futhi amathuba okuqhubeka nomncintiswano wakho futhi unikeze konke okudingayo ngekusasa lakho (noma inzalo ekhona kakade) unokuncane. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, uMama Nature nawe, uma kunjalo, awunaso isithakazelo esikhethekile, ngoba ifulethini lakho lofuzo alidluli "ukhetho lokuncintisana". Ngakho-ke konke okujabulisayo okubunzima okuphansi, nokuzihlonipha okuphansi, okuyinto ekucabangeni kwengqondo kubhekwa njengezizathu eziyinhloko zokuba nomhawu kwabesifazane.
Ukulawula? Kukhona ukulawula!
Ukuqagela ngalokho okwenza umhawu owesifazane akulula. Ngcono kakhulu, ekucindezelekeni kobunzima obunzima, ukuhlukaniswa nokuqedwa okuphelele ngaphakathi kwakho. Esikhathini esibi kunazo zonke - ukubonakaliswa kobudlova, ukuhlaselwa, ukuzama ukuzibulala noma ukubulala umphikisi.
Izimpawu zomhawu kubantu besifazane, empeleni, zifana njalo futhi ziyancipha
Kunoma yikuphi, umhawu ebuhlotsheni, kuhlale kubonisa ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle kuwo futhi ukuthi awubhubhisi phansi ukuthi kuqala okokuqala okudingekayo ukuqonda izimbangela ezibonakalayo zokupholisa imizwa yomlingani, bese udweba iziphetho bese uzama ukuthatha noma yikuphi into ethile.