Kungani abantu abaningi benesizungu? Konke mayelana nesigqi esisheshayo esedolobheni, ngokuvamile esivumela ngisho nokuphumula, singasho ukuphola. Abantu kufanele basebenze kanzima, ngakho-ke kunesikhathi esincane esisele ekuthuthukiseni kwabo. Kodwa lena yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Imibhangqwana eminingi itholakele emisebenzini ehlangene.
Uma ungafuni ukusebenzisa impilo yakho kuphela emsebenzini, kufanele ubeke ngokufanele isikhathi sakho. Beka ukuthuthukiswa kwakho kanye nokuphila kwakho lapho. Kulesi sihloko sizobuka izindawo eziphezulu eziyishumi zokuthandana, lapho ungahlangana nomphefumulo wakho womshado.
Izindawo eziyishumi eziphezulu zokuthandana
- Uma uthanda inhlonipho, abantu abathandekayo nabanomusa, ungavakashela ihholo lekhonsathi, umbukiso, umtapo wolwazi, iminyuziyamu, njll. Lapha ungakwazi kalula ukuthola ingxoxo ngesihloko somcimbi, ukuveza noma ukubhuka. Uma izintshisekelo zakho zivumelana, kunethuba elikhulu lokuthi ukuxhumana kuzoqhubeka.
- Uma uthanda imidlalo nabantu abaphila ngendlela enempilo , zama ukuvakashela amachibi okubhukuda, izinkundla, izikhungo zokuqina, ama-ice rinks, njalo njalo. Ungakwazi ukuhlangabezana nesigamu ekilasini, ukhulume futhi usebenze ndawonye.
- Imibhangqwana eminingi ithi ihlangene ezokuthutha umphakathi. Uma uthanda ukuhamba nokuhamba, amathuba okuhlangana komhlangano akhuliswa ngezinye izikhathi. Ungakwazi ukuhlangana ngisho nalapho ulinde ibhasi, elide liphele.
- Emicimbi yezinkampani kanye namaqembu aphikisayo, ungaphinde uhlangane nothando lwakho. Inkhulumomphendvulwano elula izokusiza ukuba wazi kangcono futhi uqhubeke nokuxhumana emva komhlangano. Njengoba imiphumela ibonisa, kungemva kwemicimbi enjalo ukuthi abaningi abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo nabangani bavele.
- Uma izinto zakho ezibaluleke kakhulu zingamadoda acebile, zama futhi ukuba umuntu owanelisayo. Yiya emihlanganweni ehlukahlukene yebhizinisi kanye nokuqeqesha ukukhula komuntu siqu. Lapho ungathola abangane abaningi abasha, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uzothola uthando lwakho.
- Bhalisela noma yiziphi izifundo ozithandayo. Kungaba ukudansa, yoga, ukufunda izilimi zakwamanye amazwe, ukudlala izinsimbi, ukupheka, njll. Ngaphandle kwentuthuko, uzothola abantu abanomqondo omuhle futhi ukwazi ukuthola umlingani womphefumulo. Faka umbala impilo yakho yansuku zonke embala ogqamile!
- Abantu abaningi bazijwayele amapaki, ezitaladini, emasimini. Zama ukuhamba ngaphezulu emoyeni omusha, uthathe nawe incwadi noma esinye isici esizosiza ukuthi ungabi nesithukuthezi ngesikhathi sokuhamba. Njengomthetho, lesi sibonakaliso ngokuvamile siyisizathu sokuqala kokuxhumana. Uzungezwe abantu kuyo yonke indawo, ngakho-ke zama ukuxhumana nabanye futhi ujabule.
- Ungazijwayele noma yikuphi. Uma uthanda imfashini, zama ukuvakashela izitolo eziningi nezitolo zokuthenga. Lapho ungakwazi ukuphumuza, uthathe ukuhamba bese ubuka izakhi ezintsha zakamuva. Ngokusho kwemibhangqwana eminingi, bahlangana lapho.
- Uma abangane nabangani bakubizela ukuhamba, iqembu, umshado, njll, ungahlali ekhaya! Mhlawumbe kukhona ukuthi uzohlangana nomuntu othakazelisayo futhi uzokwazi ukuphumula. Kule ndawo, abantu bazungezwe imizwelo emihle nomoya omuhle, okwandisa amathuba okuba nomngane ophumelelayo.
- Ukuxhumana okubukhoma kuyasebenza kakhulu, kepha ungajwayele futhi ku-Inthanethi.
Namuhla, kunamanethiwekhi amaningi omphakathi kanye nezindawo zokuphola, lapho ungahlangana khona nomphefumulo wakho womshado. Kukhona ingozi yokugijima kumuntu ongajabulisayo, kodwa ekukhulumisaneni okujwayelekile, akekho oshonile. Kuhle kakhulu - bhalela umuntu omthandayo. Ngokuzwelana, ukukhulumisana kuzoqhubeka.
Thuthukisa futhi uvakashele izindawo ozithandayo, kodwa ungaphenduli ukucinga kwesigamu sesibili ube mania. Ungaphili ukulindela komhlangano, nje ujabulele umzuzu wamanje, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzongena empilweni yakho umuntu ofanele.