Amadoda anesibindi abesifazane abathandayo kakhulu, ama-knights abo, ithemba kanye nokusekela, nawo akwenziwe nge-flint nesensimbi. Futhi ukwesaba kwengqondo abanakho ngaphansi kobulili besifazane.
Ukwesaba kwamadoda
Umbuzo wukuthi abesifazane besaba abantu ububanzi ngokwanele. Amadoda ahlukene, abanezimo zengqondo ezahlukene, abesaba abesifazane abahlukene. Indoda ecebile isaba abesifazane abampofu, ngoba ucabanga ukuthi ayithandi, kodwa isikhwama sakhe; Amadoda athambekeleyo ayesaba abesifazane abazimisele kakhulu; abakhuthele futhi abafaki ukuthanda abathandi ababuthakathaka, abazobe behlezi ezintanyeni zabo ngetshe. Wonke umuntu unokwesaba kwakhe.
Ubuthakathaka noma amandla?
Umbuzo uyathakazelisa, kungani abantu besaba abesifazane abalungile, emva kwakho konke, kubonakala sengathi kufanele kube ngokufanayo. Isizathu esiyinhloko emfundweni. Kakade kusukela ebuntwaneni, umfana omncane uzwa - ungakhethi omuhle: uzoba ovilaphayo, ozigobe, ngisho nokuhamba. Umfazi wangempela uzoba nje igundane elimpunga. Abaningi baqonda iseluleko sabazali ngokoqobo. Kodwa labo abahlala engqondweni yabo nabo, uvame ukwesaba amahle.
Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani amadoda esaba abesifazane abaqinile, kulula ukuphendula. Kuchazwa umane nje: umfana ukhuliswa ikakhulukazi ngabesifazane: umama, ugogo, uthisha, uthisha. Wayesejwayele ukulalela nokuqaphela ubuso besifazane kusukela ebuntwaneni. Akuzona zonke ezazingcono zomusa nokudilika.
Iqiniso lokuthi amadoda amaningi asaba abesifazane abalungile yiqiniso. Kodwa into esemqoka ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu owesabayo yilahlwa. Owesifazane omuhle angase aphangiwe noma ahlale ematasa nomuntu "opholile". Wayesevele ejabulile, ucabanga ukuthi angayithola kuzo futhi izidingo zakhe zingase zivezwe kahle. Ungadinga ukuthandana okuhle nokude, futhi ngokujwayelekile inkinga nayo, inkulu kakhulu kunomuntu ovamile.
Ukungahleleki kwenzeka uma owesifazane engumphathi; uma ehola okuningi kunalokho; uma ephumelela kakhulu kunaye, uye wazuza okuningi ekuphileni; abanolwazi oluningi kunalo; unabantwana kusukela emshadweni odlule kunalokho esingathanda. Ngokwemvelo, noma yimuphi umuntu wesaba ukukhashelwa futhi engaphansi kwesifazane esaba ukuthi uzoshiywa.